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January 6, 2013 9:26 pm at 9:26 pm in reply to: Inadvertently taking extra merchandise – halacha #918134147Participant
Maybe they are greek orthodox or russian orthodox, & hence we are within 2 days of their idolatry holiday of the greek & russian xmas.
But penultimately, forward all your questions to the Institute of Business & Halocho, which is the only forum to handle such matters, and as a matter of courtesy, let the coffee room know what they Paskan for you?
147ParticipantThese website are a waste of time
This easily got to be the absolute biggest Shekker & lie I have ever come across in this coffee room.
I got married thru one of these websites, so please heckfrozeover2000 recall your very false assertion.
147ParticipantI’ll answer your question hellothisisme with a question:- Is 78 days defined as a small amount of time? or a massive amount of time?
147ParticipantHaving read this complex issue, 1 question still eludes me & my spouse badly:- Given that all of these correspondence have us believe that it should be relatively easy for a boy to get married, unlike for a girl, so why is it, that I & my spouse seem to know so many more single men than single women out there? Are we missing something? or are we out of the loop?
147ParticipantYou can rent apartments in Yerusholayim, including Meah Sheorim & Geuloh, as I have done in the past. Quite a bit cheaper than an hotel. Visit the Kotel Tunnel tour:- Must be reserved in Advance. Needless to say, this tour can be had in English.
Being right after Tu b’Shevat no-doubt you shall also wish to plant a tree.
147ParticipantIf you onegoal are just coming to NYC for a short while, how about staying in Manhattan near all the tourist sites? There is a lot more to see in Manhattan than in both Lakewood & Monsey combined.
2012 surpassed 52 Million tourists to NYC, and you could already add to 2013 # of tourists. Let Bloomberg spend his time on boosting tourist #’s and keep away from MBP attacks.
147ParticipantYWN just this past week carried story of a lady who passed away @124 years with 10 children who all outlived her.
January 3, 2013 2:18 am at 2:18 am in reply to: Yartzeit – when niftar is in different time zone than his offspring #917169147ParticipantThat would result in a “split” yartzheit!
Only scenario which can lead to a split Johrzeit is someone passing away in an Adar Poshut, and according to some opinions in leap years, s/he may have to observe both in Adar Rishon & Adar Sheni, but even then, only one time can s/he have Kedimo over other Aveilim, since intrinsically a Johrzeit can only be once.
Likewise for someone who passed away on marCheshvon 30, Kisslev 30 or Adar Rishon 30, depending on what transpires the following year [by marCheshvon 30 & Kisslev 30], may have a split Johrzeit, but again can only one time have Kedimoh over other Availim.
147Participant<e>Rabbi Yaakov Weinberg points out that these two particular mitzvos, honoring ones parents and sending away the mother bird, are rewarded with long life.
He as well as most other Meforshim forgot to comment on the 3rd Mitzwah whose observance also carried Arichas Yomim, that of just weights, which come in same Sidra of Ki-Setzei as does Shiluach haKein.
Can someone explain why this 3rd Mitzwah is not also mentioned in conjunction with Arichas Yomim when discussing Shiluach haKein verses Kibud Ov v’Eim?
January 2, 2013 3:38 am at 3:38 am in reply to: Does the Gemoro say that we should have fewer children when times are tough? #916982147ParticipantI hope the tzedaka organizations in Yerushalayim are spreading the lesson of the gemara in Taanis.
Considering that Israel’s population has just surpassed 8 Million as reported today by YWN, it is hardly likely that anyone is preaching any population reduction nor birth control.
January 1, 2013 5:56 pm at 5:56 pm in reply to: Does the Gemoro say that we should have fewer children when times are tough? #916978147ParticipantRead a Chinese Gemoro, and let me know if the Chinese Government derived their laws from the Gemoro? If so:- from which Messechto & which Daf? or if Yerushlami:- Which Perek & which Halocho?
January 1, 2013 5:49 pm at 5:49 pm in reply to: how does Hashem want girls with good voices to use them? #917075147ParticipantSing Zemiros & Mah Nishtano to her Husband.
147Participantyankdownunder
Both baby naming’s I wrote about were from Ashkanazi families. Can a baby from an Ashkanazi family be named from a living grandparent? Also can an Ashkanazi family name their daughter after the mother?
Dutch Ashkenazim families absolutely & most definitely name after living grandparents, and this is a Huge Honor, both for the grandparent & the new child.
As far as naming a daughter after the grandmother:- Generally this is one of the few spheres where the wife retains her own family Minhag & not her husband’s, so that if her Minhog was to name after a living grandparent, then even if her husband’s Minhog is otherwise, her children should name their daughter after her during her lifetime. Conversely, if her Minhog is not to name after a living grandparent even though her husband’s Minhog is to name after a living grandparent, then her children should not name their daughter after her during her lifetime.
Naming after a living parent as opposed to after a living grandparent, no-one {other than Royal families & Nochrim} do so.
147ParticipantI also have very close friends in both camps, but when all is said, join the Modern Orthodox, because they are open and won’t attack the right wing, whereas the right wing are claustrophobic will openly attack the Modern Orthodox.
These attacks are Sinas Chinom & are simply unacceptable.
The Modern Orthodox will respect you, whereas the Right Wing will blow up any issue where you have the slightest divergence from them.
January 1, 2013 3:19 am at 3:19 am in reply to: Yartzeit – when niftar is in different time zone than his offspring #917164147Participantwas niftar erev Pesach and the kevura was on the first day of Chol haMoed.
Hard to comprehend, because unlike case of Nechomah’s father’s passing away overlapping a Shabbos when Kevuraos are Ossur, yet despite the unfortunate timing of passing away of Nechomah’s mother, Kevuros are Mutor on Yom Tov, and even is preferable to delaying funeral just to increase the turn out. So why would this funeral have been pushed off for 3 days?
147ParticipantHow does the Fiscal Cliff impact us ?
It shan’t, because when today’s tacit deal if finally signed next week, it shall all be retroactive till tonite.
No-one is going to tumble down any cliff, simply because the politicians don’t wish to tumble down their own cliff at the midterm elections of November 2014.
147Participantwell now all u got to do is enjoy ur sleep … & tax deduction …. while it lasts
December 31, 2012 4:59 am at 4:59 am in reply to: Yartzeit – when niftar is in different time zone than his offspring #917161147ParticipantThere is no such thing as a split Johrzeit.
Yesodei Smochos Chapter 12 Paragraph 7 holds:- “If death occurred in a different time zone, The Johrzeit is kept according to the date in the place where death occurred.”
i.e. All Johrzeit practices are observed on the date that was in force at locations of parent’s death.
December 31, 2012 4:10 am at 4:10 am in reply to: Yartzeit – when niftar is in different time zone than his offspring #917159147ParticipantEven if this expired individual had prayed early Maariv for Leil Tammuz 4th on afternoon of Tammuz 3rd, or had lit Shabbos candles & recited Kidddush on afternoon of Tammuz 3td for Tammuz 4th {not that this is feasible, since Tammuz 4th can never be on a Shabbos} and then expired before sundown, his/her Johrzeit is on Tammuz 3rd.
If the person expired between sundown and emergence of 3 stars, approximately 38 minutes after sundown in the NYC area, this is way beyond the scope of this coffee Chat Room to determine if Johrzeit is on the outgoing or the incoming date. Check with the Rov of the deceased parent, so that entire family will end up holding the same Johrzeit.
147ParticipantI need an immediate response to the question on this website, as I am about to be Mevaker Choloh and visit Hillary Clinton at the Columbia Presbyterian Hospital, and being that her blood clot is a result of her fall & concussion, I would like to give her the names of some organizations who could assist her {as I am sure Bill will also} to have a speedy recovery.
147Participantbut you need a prescription for it
A lot of these medicines can be procured on internet sites of people in places like Japan & Mexico without a prescription, and cheaper.
Never go to bed right after eating.
Fortunately, despite the late hour of eating on Seder nite, but Matzo & Moror & Radishes [Karpas} have no acid, so don’t irritate your stomach. Unlike grape juice, even wine does not irritate your stomach, as the alcohol kills the acid in grape juice which is nothing more than fruit juice.
147ParticipantWe study Avodo Zoro Daf 8a, which discusses the winter solstice of the Northern Hemisphere in conjunction with Adam hoRishon, and all the various light festivals which have ensued in honor of the days commencing to get longer again.
If you are behind in this Gemoro, needless to say, you finish it off at Times Square whilst waiting for the ball to drop. Learning Gemoro is a sure way to keep you warm, because of becoming so involved in the study of Gemoro.
We lucky people get to finish off this Daf in the warmth of Sydney Harbor as we await the fireworks, some 16 hours before the ball shall be descending in Times Square.
147ParticipantHowever Kosher food is hard to get,
But getting working knowledge of the Spanish language, or finding people who can converse in English is even harder to get.
The Metro in Madrid is very good, if you care to get around with the Metro. I have been on the Madrid Metro.
Bear in mind that all shuls are absolutely Sephardi:- After all Spain which in Hebrew is “S’farad” as per Haftoro of vaYishlach, is the absolute bastion of Sephardim.
December 31, 2012 3:23 am at 3:23 am in reply to: Teenager Caught Smoking Cigarettes – Any Advice? #916924147ParticipantRemind him each & every single puff is new violation of & failure to observe the Mitzwa Asseh m’d’Orraisso of “vNishmartem Me’od lNafshoseichem”, and that smoking is tantamount to burning green paper, just that his precious Dollars are being disguised as cigar[ette]s.
December 31, 2012 3:19 am at 3:19 am in reply to: Yartzeit – when niftar is in different time zone than his offspring #917156147ParticipantThe Johrzeit is positively & absolutely only held on the date of the location where the person expired:- i.e. in your case [or example?] on Tammuz 3rd.
However, if the relative in question heard about this tragic loss and is not traveling to the interment, so would effectively commence laws of Shiva immediately, s/he would count the 7 & 30 days from his/her date of Tammuz 2nd or 4th respectively.
If this relative then requires to fly across the Jewish date line during the Shiva, s/he would still observe his/her 7 days, even though this would if going from Far East to Far West would then be on his/her 6th Hebrew calendar date, or if going from Far West to Far East would then be on his/her 8th Hebrew calendar date.
147ParticipantPlace the extra Dollars into a non-redeemable savings account, before these extra Dollars may be spent.
147ParticipantB’H we Jewish people juggle around #’s with issues such as the intricacies of the Jewish calendar [which indeed does have a special section each & every week in the Yated] but don’t waste our time nor talents on the position of a ball or people cheering the # of times this ball touches or moves on a field or across some painted line.
147ParticipantThat is good:- At least s/he doesn’t have to worry about the issue of the tent city
147Participantmaybe he has family there
If so:- They would know of the local hotels or people hiring out rooms, in their vicinity.
147ParticipantWhat is the proper size (0, 1, 2) haircut for a Ben Torah?
The same size as for every Jew who adheres to the Shulchon Orech. You may wish to bear in mind how the length of your hair impacts on Hanochas Tefillin shel Rosh..
147ParticipantWhy don’t you go to a beach on the West Coast by the Mediterranean? and patronize the Israeli economy like a good loyal & faithful Jew.
December 30, 2012 4:38 am at 4:38 am in reply to: Validity of Vilna Gaon's Cherem Against Chassidim #915955147ParticipantThe whole point the Baal Shem Tov was making was to make a change to make yiddishkeit more accessible to the am ha’aretz.
Just like the whole point of Zionism is to make Eretz Yisroel more accessible to the am ha’aretz and the Talmud Chochom and every Jew in between, and increase observance of the wonderful Mitzwah of Yishuv Ho’Oretz.
147ParticipantOne of the speakers at the Agudah convention this evening was mentioning several of the bad “isms” such as communism and Bundism amongst others. But then he went onto say:- I shall now mention the worst “ism” so I was expecting something like nazism to have this infamous distinction, but I was shocked to the core by his Leitzonos:- He said “Zionism” was the worst ism.
Clearly this is Letzonus breading Sinas Chinom.
147ParticipantI hope they go back to the former format, which is far pleasanter.
December 30, 2012 12:20 am at 12:20 am in reply to: When & why did we start giving children more than one name? #916306147ParticipantWhile we are on the subject of the Ch’Sofer, can someone please explain to me why many of his generations today, dont follow his derech re-gebrokst on Pesach?
The quality of baking the Maztos is far superior to what it probably was in the past and the incidence of unbaked flour is far remoter, so the reason necessitating a ban on gebrokt is far less necessary & called for.
147ParticipantHe is a huge Tzaddik. I was once by him for a Shabbos many years ago, and already back then he was a very big personality.
In those days his mother A’H was still there, and he told me that his mother was the oldest sister of the Bobov Rebbe Z’L of those days, so both he & the current Bobov Rebbe have the Zechus of being 1st cousins to each other.
BTW I was sent to them for a Shabbos as I was told his Rebbetzen is involved in Shadchonus, so 1 more Shadchonis to consider for anyone still requiring the services of a matchmaker and unable to get onto a Jewish dating site.
December 28, 2012 2:22 am at 2:22 am in reply to: When & why did we start giving children more than one name? #916284147ParticipantIf everyone had only a single name, it would get awfully confusing.
Are you shmendrick saying that 600 male names in Tenach is not sufficient choice of names to avoid confusion?
B’H I have 1 Hebrew name, and B’H my Dad has 1 Hebrew name, so it is so much easier when I receive an Aliya, to simply give the Gabbai 1 name for myself & 1 name for my Dad.
If someone does have a double or more names, I had a Pesack from Rav Melech Shachter ZT’L, that one ought to utilize all that person’s names, each time once calls or refers to or addresses that person. But he also said in no uncertain terms, how absolutely preferable it is to give a single name only.
My having 1 Hebrew name & my Dad having 1 Hebrew name, I have several times been called upon to be an “Eid” to sign Kesuvoh & Get, because the Mesader Kiddushin & Mesader Get did not wish to get involved with complex multi-names.
147ParticipantI went out with 1 girl for a long while, and on logic everything was making sense and she kept begging me to propose, and yet something was holding me back; Yet when I met another lady not so long thereafter, with less logic, yet some inner feeling told me to propose after a very short time, and B’H we are happily together Ad haYom haZeh.
147ParticipantAny loyal authentic Jew who has had to endure the screaming of [a] Naturei Karta demonstrator
at a legitimate Jewish gathering, by definition also carries scars of abuse, for having his Jewish faith & believe come under attack.
December 27, 2012 1:45 am at 1:45 am in reply to: Jews protesting against a job fair! How low will they fall? #915848147ParticipantYes Josh31, but that 1948 was 3 years after the end of WW2, so tragically came too late for many wonderful European Jews HY’D.
147ParticipantB’H it isn’t Triple “H”:- Hot Hazy Humid.
To quote Rav Avigdor Miller ZT’L:- Always see the good in every situation.
December 27, 2012 12:39 am at 12:39 am in reply to: Jews protesting against a job fair! How low will they fall? #915846147ParticipantWell, if the Chareidim were first, how were they not able to convince the British Mandate to have open door policy to every Jew? Especially during the Holocaust. Or maybe they simply didn’t care about or embrace every Jew?
Hence:- B’H the wonderful Zionist were able & Zochim to institute Medinat Yisroel & open door policy to every Jew, and it is a wonderful Zechus to commemorate this auspices time each & every year on Yom ha’Atzmaut.
If this is not enough, yesterday xmas morning, Rav Reisman shlita at his Hakhel at his Shul mentioned, that whatever the pros & cons of having a Medina were before it happened, now that we B’H do have the Medina, we simply work along & go along with it. & IY’H it is here to stay, and even if we cannot make Aliya, for sure we should travel to Israel, rather than to some European destination.
It is my honor to patronize El Al, and to maximize the # of trips I make to Israel, and patronize & enhance the Israeli economy. Just as it is my honor to converse in Ivrit & maximize my practice & usage of Ivrit.
147ParticipantThe previous Chief Rabbi skipped the wedding (i.e. Church service) of Prince Charles and Diana. Unlike R. Sacks.
We all know that the late Lord Immanuel Jackobovits ZT’L was a Tzadik Gomur & a Yerei Shomayim. That in addition to his steadfast adherence to Toroh Im Derech Eretz.
I personally know some of his children & siblings as well as his late in-laws, and they are all wonderful & pious people.
By the way, it is his unbending & non flinching to public pressure, which won him so much favor in the eyes of Prime Minister Margaret Thatcher [The Iron Lady] who went onto nominate him to become a Lord. He was the 1st Chief Rabbi ever, to be made into a Lord.
147ParticipantWould you address an important emperor or king or queen looking at your phone, or be on your job interview using your phone?
147ParticipantWhat Yidden do on December 25th?
Last year and in 2016 & in 2019 I observe Chanukah, and recite full Hallel in praise of the wonderful day, as I do on Yom ha’Atzmaut & on Yom Yerusholayim.
In 2001 & in 2020 I observe Assoro b’Teves, and mourn the Johrzeit of Charly Chaplin who was Niftar on December 25, 1977.
December 26, 2012 3:24 am at 3:24 am in reply to: Jews protesting against a job fair! How low will they fall? #915808147ParticipantJewishness Where do these low lives come from?
Naturei Karta
147ParticipantIf I would set foot on my place of employment after 5.30PM on a workday, or on a weekend or legal holiday, I would be prosecuted for trespass, so are you yosefc18 suggesting that notwithstanding I should go to work on this holiday to show my disdain for this fellow born in Beth Lechem, even though I shall be brought up on charges for trespassing?
147ParticipantLikewise, the OP should be aware that Sefardim give children names after their living parents and are not choshesh for anything. and so do Dutch Ashkenazim.
This is a beautiful Minhog, as the grandparent knows the person who shall bear his/her name, and the grandchild knows the grandparents who bore his/her name.
Until approximately 500-600 years, when Rabbi Yehudo haChodid put a ban on this practice for fear of the Maloch haMoves going to the wrong person bearing this name. even Ashkenazim named after living grandparents, so the entire practice of not naming after living ancestors is flimsy & not so ancient.
147ParticipantYou snjn are so lucky to effectively be having a free trip to the Netherlands. Grab it, and don’t reject it.
147ParticipantSo my question is, in Hashems eyes, who is worse? The black hatter with the long black jacket who was talking away on his cell phone at the Kossel when I was trying to say my prayers to haShem at the Kossel. When I told him to move away as he was disturbing my prayers he became angered, so he was the worst.
Fortunately, on R’H & Y’K the cell phone is Ossur miDeOrraisso to utilize, so when one is being judged on R’H morning & finalized at Neiloh, fortunately cell phone don’t cause a barrier, but unfortunately at the time of the Pissko on Hoshana Rabbo when one is making life saving supplications during the Hoshanos, unfortunately cell phones are ruining many people’s last chance to implore haShem.
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