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June 18, 2014 8:49 pm at 8:49 pm #613038👑RebYidd23Participant
Anon1m0us said it would make a good poll.
June 18, 2014 9:27 pm at 9:27 pm #1020590akupermaParticipantIf she is over the age of 12, by halacha the parents have no say in whom she marries.
June 18, 2014 9:46 pm at 9:46 pm #1020591👑RebYidd23ParticipantThat means you don’t have to let. But would you let?
June 18, 2014 9:56 pm at 9:56 pm #1020592akupermaParticipant“let” means to grant permission. By halacha, no permission is needed or required. An adult woman is free to marry any man that she is halachically allowed to marry, without parent consent.
Perhaps you should ask the question differently, i.e. “Would you approve … ” or “Would you try to talk her out of it”
June 18, 2014 10:55 pm at 10:55 pm #1020593oomisParticipantWHAT yarmulke?
June 18, 2014 11:04 pm at 11:04 pm #1020594blazingkanoeyParticipantWhat yarlmuke????
June 18, 2014 11:17 pm at 11:17 pm #1020595morahmomParticipantRabbosai, with all due respect, must we start threads that could potentially lead to loshon hora when the whereabouts of the 3 Israeli boys are still unknown? Please!
June 19, 2014 12:11 am at 12:11 am #1020596👑RebYidd23ParticipantAny thread can potentially lead to loshon hora. And the yarmulke is the one described in http://www.theyeshivaworld.com/coffeeroom/topic/changing-yarmulkes-a-poll .
June 19, 2014 12:52 am at 12:52 am #1020597OURtorahParticipantmorahmom- what about why shud we start threads that will cause loshon hora EVER?
June 19, 2014 1:01 am at 1:01 am #1020598anon1m0usParticipantGreat thread!!!
YES, I would allow her to marry a guy wearing ANY type of yarumlka, as long as I do not support them 🙂
June 19, 2014 1:29 am at 1:29 am #1020599Sam2ParticipantNo, I would not let my (nonexistent) daughter marry Wolf.
June 19, 2014 3:14 am at 3:14 am #1020600☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantSam, that reminds me of the famous kashya/teirutz. K: Why, according to the shittah that “bakol” means that Avraham had a daughter, didn’t Yitzchak marry her? T: He was choshesh for the other shittah.
June 19, 2014 3:48 am at 3:48 am #1020601Sam2ParticipantDY: Wouldn’t it be because it would be an Issur Misah? Unless you assume Bakol was a Bas Hagar?
June 19, 2014 4:02 am at 4:02 am #1020602☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantThe shevatim married sisters.
June 19, 2014 4:13 am at 4:13 am #1020603Sam2ParticipantDY: Each other’s. Because Achim Min HaAv V’Lo Min HaEim is Muttar for B’nei Noach. They didn’t marry their own.
June 19, 2014 9:56 pm at 9:56 pm #1020604blazingkanoeyParticipantI wouldn’t let my daughter marry someone who has nothing better to do then post on a (frum nonetheless but still a) blog
June 19, 2014 11:00 pm at 11:00 pm #1020605👑RebYidd23ParticipantAnd would you let your daughter marry someone who has nothing else to do other than post online about people having nothing better to do than post on a frum forum?
June 20, 2014 12:17 am at 12:17 am #1020606oomisParticipantIf he was a ben Torah mensch, was ehrlich frum, thoughtful, kind, considerate, intelligent,was making a parnassah, had a sense of humor, and would eat anything I made for Shabbos when they came to visit (even if it were something like p’tcha…ack…), and loved my daughter more than himself, absolutely.
June 20, 2014 3:07 am at 3:07 am #1020607squeakParticipantDY… having a senior moment?
http://www.theyeshivaworld.com/coffeeroom/topic/in-this-thread-we-criticize-popa-by-popa#post-351090
Don’t worry, happens to all of us. But if you find yourself focusing too much on jelly beans it may be time to give up that drivers license 🙂
June 20, 2014 4:52 am at 4:52 am #1020608☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantJune 20, 2014 5:29 am at 5:29 am #1020609shmoolik 1Participantthe real question is what would my daughter’s intended think about MY head gear
June 20, 2014 11:42 am at 11:42 am #1020610TheGoqParticipantI think its more important whats in the kop rather than what is on top of it.
June 20, 2014 3:36 pm at 3:36 pm #1020611oomisParticipantI think its more important whats in the kop rather than what is on top of it. “
You just stole my thunder (I wrote the same thing in the other thread).
June 20, 2014 7:36 pm at 7:36 pm #1020612Rebbe YidParticipantIf the one wearing the yarmulke was a man, yes.
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