Wife’s thougths on death

Hi all,

We find in the Medrash which Rashi brings that Chava gave from the Etz Hadass to Adom in order that “she shouldn’t die and he’ll remains alive and marry someone else”

Curious to know how prevalent are these types of thoughts in the minds of married women.

If you are a lady, does the thought of Hubby marrying someone else when you are gone trouble you?

Does the thought of him possibly being happy to be able to marry someone else now that you are gone motivate you to be a better wife?

Thanks,

Heshy