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January 9, 2009 8:16 pm at 8:16 pm #1166417moish01Member
i dunno. my friends would get the biggest kick out of it. but maybe. especially now that i can’t play sports and i don’t hang out with them unless they come around for a few hours.
January 11, 2009 12:03 am at 12:03 am #1166418moish01Memberwhat was i thinking yesterday? i take back that last post.
January 11, 2009 1:03 am at 1:03 am #1166419charlie brownMemberI don’t live in brooklyn unfortunately so I can’t volunteer although I’d really love to, but is there anyone else on this forum who lives in brooklyn who’d like to learn with moish with the condition that this is learning (and shmoozing?) only – no discussion about becoming frummer? This is NOT a kiruv opportunity, just a chance to learn with a geshmake kid. If there is someone on this forum please post here your willingness to do this and then if moish is ready to go for it, maybe the editor or one of the mods can put you 2 in contact. I will also look offline of I can find someone.
Moish, people like that do exist, you’ve just unfortunately never come in contact with them it seems. Also, what could be better than giving your friends a nice shocker like that? 🙂
January 11, 2009 1:21 am at 1:21 am #1166420moish01Memberi’ll pass. there’s no way i’m going to “shmooze” (as you put it) with a stranger. i haven’t learnt a word in about a year and i’m not about to start now. and it’s not exactly cool to give your friends that kind of shocker. sorry!
January 11, 2009 1:24 am at 1:24 am #1166421charlie brownMembermoish, why are you getting cold feet?
January 11, 2009 1:27 am at 1:27 am #1166422moish01Memberand what makes you think i’m a “geshmake kid?” nice try, though. you should go into kiruv – maybe some other kids are actually interested.
January 11, 2009 1:47 am at 1:47 am #1166423asdfghjklParticipantmoish01: you should just know we in the coffee room do care about you!!!
January 11, 2009 1:48 am at 1:48 am #1166424moish01Memberit’s not cold feet. it’s just who i am. i’m not sure why i actually entertained the idea for a minute yesterday.
January 11, 2009 2:21 am at 2:21 am #1166425moish01Memberasdfghjkl that’s just because you don’t know me
January 11, 2009 2:25 am at 2:25 am #1166426Bais Yaakov maydelParticipantyou entertained that idea for a minute, because for a minute, you were actually interested, and probably went, well why not???
my question to you: why not??
leave your friends out of it for now–if they cant accept any actions you take, what kind of friends are they?
January 11, 2009 2:34 am at 2:34 am #1166427asdfghjklParticipantmoish01: if i knew you, i would indeed care about you a lot more!! i have a brother that at one point was just like you so…yes i do care!!!
January 11, 2009 2:40 am at 2:40 am #1166428moish01Memberyou and the rest of the kiruv-oriented world? thanks. you warm my heart.
January 11, 2009 2:47 am at 2:47 am #1166429moish01Memberwow typical bais yaakov. what did i expect?
January 11, 2009 3:06 am at 3:06 am #1166430Bais Yaakov maydelParticipantwow typical dont-wanna-listen-to-anything-kiruv-oriented.
the name duznt always accurately tell what kinda person someone is. i could very well have been the same as you a while back…
just keep your mind open.
dont be so negative about things, like my post.
dont “expect” things–be ready to take things as they are.
you didnt answer my question.
January 11, 2009 3:14 am at 3:14 am #1166431moish01Memberjust as a side point: if you were ever anything like me i doubt you’d go by “bais yaakov maydel.”
January 11, 2009 3:25 am at 3:25 am #1166432Bais Yaakov maydelParticipantthe key word here is “were,” as in, past tense.
January 11, 2009 3:28 am at 3:28 am #1166433moish01Memberi know how to read.
and to answer your question: yes i am “typical dont-wanna-listen-to-anything-kiruv-oriented.” obviously. you call that a problem. i call that breathing.
January 11, 2009 3:36 am at 3:36 am #1166434asdfghjklParticipantmoish01: the funny thing is i remember when you joined the cr, right away you were saying as long as no one tries kiruv on you….. how you doin with the cast???
January 11, 2009 3:36 am at 3:36 am #1166435charlie brownMembermoish,
I’m soooooo not into kiruv. I saw that you seemed to feel like you are way behind others your age in learning (and you seemed like you wouldn’t mind if you wouldn’t be), so I figured that maybe you’d enjoy learning with someone without any pressure ot kiruving, so I offered to help find someone. Your initial reaction was hey, why not? That reaction makes sense to me. However, if after thinking about it you’re too closed minded to be willing to believe that someone may actually be willing to learn with you without trying to be makarev you, then just forget about it. If you change your mind, please let me know – the offer remains on the table.
BTW, the geshmake kid part was true, not a false compliment for kiruv purposes. From all your posts you do seem like a very geshmake person. Not everyone becomes Mr. Popularity here their first week. (except tonight when you seem a bit too cranky to be called geshmak, lol. Did you have a lousy shabbos?)
January 11, 2009 3:44 am at 3:44 am #1166436nossondMemberMoish
There are some people who might have an underlying motive to be mekarev you.
There are others, however, that don’t have such a motive. They allow you to make your own choices, but they want you to make an informed decision. Learning with them will allow you to gain the information you need to make an informed choice. I say you should do it, but be very careful about who the person is. Being pushed into something is horrible. Being accepted and cared for is great.
Why worry about your friends. Your friends don’t have to know that you learn with someone for say an hour a week.
January 11, 2009 3:53 am at 3:53 am #1166437Bais Yaakov maydelParticipanti dont recall ever using the word “problem” or even implying it. you sound like you like to dramatize things.
im not trying to be a teacher here–im only two years older than you are.
just letting you know that there are other ways to BREATHE–as in, eyn Torah ella mayim–we cant live without Torah, the same way we cant live without water.
im sure you can understand that, from what ive read in your posts, youre not stupid.
you probably just dont wanna deal with this stuff.
and whatever i say wont help that.
so i think ill stop chattering away now like im some experienced expert or something…lol.
im getting carried away here, arent i…i cant stop typing.
someone help me.
whats with me?
probably cuz i have more to say…but its not so nice so i wont say it.
moish, i hope we can chat on more neutral topics in the future.
refuah shelaima
January 11, 2009 4:01 am at 4:01 am #1166439moish01Memberasdfghjkl, sorry didn’t ignore you – just didn’t see you. it’s ok. could be worse i guess. could be better, though.
January 11, 2009 4:03 am at 4:03 am #1166440moish01Memberbais yaakov? i’m in pain from laughing. thanks.
January 11, 2009 4:09 am at 4:09 am #1166441asdfghjklParticipantmoish01: that’s good!!! your lucky you didn’t have to do the shoveling for the family out there!!
January 11, 2009 4:14 am at 4:14 am #1166442moish01Memberi don’t really ever do it anyway, but i guess now i don’t have to feel guilty.
and what happened to my other message? there was NOTHING wrong with it! i’m so careful!
I am getting tired of editing out the language that you choose to use when referring to others. keep it nice or I’ll keep hitting delete. OK? Good! YW Moderator-72
January 11, 2009 4:16 am at 4:16 am #1166443Bais Yaakov maydelParticipantglad i could make you happy lol
January 11, 2009 4:24 am at 4:24 am #1166444moish01Membermoderator72 you DO get meaner with time! (you gonna cut this one out too?)
ok, basically: yes, charlie brown. i had a horrific day and i’m not exactly in the best mood. maybe that will partially explain my crabby mood.
January 11, 2009 4:31 am at 4:31 am #1166445YW Moderator-72Participantmoish01, You can say whatever you want about me. but calling others (either those in the coffee room of the greater “generic others”) not nice names AND you know what I am talking about, will not be tolerated.
January 11, 2009 4:37 am at 4:37 am #1166446anonymisssParticipantThat’s ok, moish. You’re allowed a horrific day. We all have them some time or other. Being homebound certainly doesn’t make life very pleasant.
January 11, 2009 5:03 am at 5:03 am #1166447moish01Memberall right, sorry 72. looks like tonight’s my apologizing night.
January 11, 2009 5:07 am at 5:07 am #1166448asdfghjklParticipantmoish01: hope ya have a better day tomorrow!(ya noticed just one)
January 11, 2009 5:14 am at 5:14 am #1166449moish01Memberfat chance. part of my day was actually pretty ok. slept till 12 and played candyland with my little sisters in the afternoon.
January 11, 2009 5:26 am at 5:26 am #1166450asdfghjklParticipantmoish01: that’s real nice to play candyland!!! do you by any chance have a bunch of older brothers???
January 11, 2009 5:28 am at 5:28 am #1166451anonymisssParticipantYou’re a nice big bro.
January 11, 2009 5:37 am at 5:37 am #1166452moish01Membernope. i’m the oldest. why?
anonymisss, i couldn’t say no – they’re four and six and they were so excited that i was home today (i don’t really see them much on the weekend because i’m not usually around) and i was bored anyway.
January 11, 2009 5:55 am at 5:55 am #1166453asdfghjklParticipantmoish01: oh cause i was just trying to see if maybe i knew you! anyways…
January 11, 2009 5:58 am at 5:58 am #1166454moish01Memberi wonder if i know anyone on here. it would be kinda cool, no?
January 11, 2009 6:01 am at 6:01 am #1166455asdfghjklParticipantmoish01: yeah that’s why i was askin!
January 11, 2009 6:10 am at 6:10 am #1166456anonymisssParticipantLittle kids are cute, no? so innocent
January 11, 2009 6:13 am at 6:13 am #1166457shkoyachMemberdont bother… not on this site 😉
January 11, 2009 6:25 am at 6:25 am #1166458moish01Memberyeh. not sure why, but they actually like me.
asdfghjkl – if you know me you would’ve figured it out already. i’m moish, 16 and the oldest in my fam. and my dad’s the coolest lawyer in brooklyn, new york. anything else?
January 11, 2009 6:33 am at 6:33 am #1166459asdfghjklParticipantmoish01: nope doesn’t seem like i know ya!!! oh well!!
January 11, 2009 6:35 am at 6:35 am #1166460qawsMemberMoish: how are you usually not around during the week? I thought you have a cast and therefor you need to stay home?
January 11, 2009 6:37 am at 6:37 am #1166461JosephParticipantwhat area of law?
January 11, 2009 6:43 am at 6:43 am #1166462moish01Memberwell now i’m home because of my broken leg. but i’m not usually around in the afternoons and evenings.
class action. why? (btw is this the famous chashuva joseph?)
January 11, 2009 6:48 am at 6:48 am #1166463asdfghjklParticipantmoish01: yup that’s the joseph we were talkin about!!!
January 11, 2009 6:57 am at 6:57 am #1166464moish01Memberoh well hey nice to meet you. do you usually attack people with a question before actually saying hi? (jk- it’s all cool!)
January 12, 2009 6:47 am at 6:47 am #1166465brooklyn19Participant…interesting thread… i’m in shock…
January 12, 2009 4:50 pm at 4:50 pm #1166466areivimzehlazehParticipantbrooklyn is speechless- that’s a first
January 12, 2009 5:35 pm at 5:35 pm #1166467charlie brownMembermoish,
sorry I didn’t respond sooner. Yeah, a lousy day here and there are normal, so you’re forgiven but don’t you dare let that happen again – from now on please leave the crabbiness outside before entering the CR. just kidding. But seriously I hope your sunday and monday have been better and that brooklyn has gotten you more cocoa puffs since motzei shabbos.
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