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  • #1166417
    moish01
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    i dunno. my friends would get the biggest kick out of it. but maybe. especially now that i can’t play sports and i don’t hang out with them unless they come around for a few hours.

    #1166418
    moish01
    Member

    what was i thinking yesterday? i take back that last post.

    #1166419

    I don’t live in brooklyn unfortunately so I can’t volunteer although I’d really love to, but is there anyone else on this forum who lives in brooklyn who’d like to learn with moish with the condition that this is learning (and shmoozing?) only – no discussion about becoming frummer? This is NOT a kiruv opportunity, just a chance to learn with a geshmake kid. If there is someone on this forum please post here your willingness to do this and then if moish is ready to go for it, maybe the editor or one of the mods can put you 2 in contact. I will also look offline of I can find someone.

    Moish, people like that do exist, you’ve just unfortunately never come in contact with them it seems. Also, what could be better than giving your friends a nice shocker like that? 🙂

    #1166420
    moish01
    Member

    i’ll pass. there’s no way i’m going to “shmooze” (as you put it) with a stranger. i haven’t learnt a word in about a year and i’m not about to start now. and it’s not exactly cool to give your friends that kind of shocker. sorry!

    #1166421

    moish, why are you getting cold feet?

    #1166422
    moish01
    Member

    and what makes you think i’m a “geshmake kid?” nice try, though. you should go into kiruv – maybe some other kids are actually interested.

    #1166423
    asdfghjkl
    Participant

    moish01: you should just know we in the coffee room do care about you!!!

    #1166424
    moish01
    Member

    it’s not cold feet. it’s just who i am. i’m not sure why i actually entertained the idea for a minute yesterday.

    #1166425
    moish01
    Member

    asdfghjkl that’s just because you don’t know me

    #1166426
    Bais Yaakov maydel
    Participant

    you entertained that idea for a minute, because for a minute, you were actually interested, and probably went, well why not???

    my question to you: why not??

    leave your friends out of it for now–if they cant accept any actions you take, what kind of friends are they?

    #1166427
    asdfghjkl
    Participant

    moish01: if i knew you, i would indeed care about you a lot more!! i have a brother that at one point was just like you so…yes i do care!!!

    #1166428
    moish01
    Member

    you and the rest of the kiruv-oriented world? thanks. you warm my heart.

    #1166429
    moish01
    Member

    wow typical bais yaakov. what did i expect?

    #1166430
    Bais Yaakov maydel
    Participant

    wow typical dont-wanna-listen-to-anything-kiruv-oriented.

    the name duznt always accurately tell what kinda person someone is. i could very well have been the same as you a while back…

    just keep your mind open.

    dont be so negative about things, like my post.

    dont “expect” things–be ready to take things as they are.

    you didnt answer my question.

    #1166431
    moish01
    Member

    just as a side point: if you were ever anything like me i doubt you’d go by “bais yaakov maydel.”

    #1166432
    Bais Yaakov maydel
    Participant

    the key word here is “were,” as in, past tense.

    #1166433
    moish01
    Member

    i know how to read.

    and to answer your question: yes i am “typical dont-wanna-listen-to-anything-kiruv-oriented.” obviously. you call that a problem. i call that breathing.

    #1166434
    asdfghjkl
    Participant

    moish01: the funny thing is i remember when you joined the cr, right away you were saying as long as no one tries kiruv on you….. how you doin with the cast???

    #1166435

    moish,

    I’m soooooo not into kiruv. I saw that you seemed to feel like you are way behind others your age in learning (and you seemed like you wouldn’t mind if you wouldn’t be), so I figured that maybe you’d enjoy learning with someone without any pressure ot kiruving, so I offered to help find someone. Your initial reaction was hey, why not? That reaction makes sense to me. However, if after thinking about it you’re too closed minded to be willing to believe that someone may actually be willing to learn with you without trying to be makarev you, then just forget about it. If you change your mind, please let me know – the offer remains on the table.

    BTW, the geshmake kid part was true, not a false compliment for kiruv purposes. From all your posts you do seem like a very geshmake person. Not everyone becomes Mr. Popularity here their first week. (except tonight when you seem a bit too cranky to be called geshmak, lol. Did you have a lousy shabbos?)

    #1166436
    nossond
    Member

    Moish

    There are some people who might have an underlying motive to be mekarev you.

    There are others, however, that don’t have such a motive. They allow you to make your own choices, but they want you to make an informed decision. Learning with them will allow you to gain the information you need to make an informed choice. I say you should do it, but be very careful about who the person is. Being pushed into something is horrible. Being accepted and cared for is great.

    Why worry about your friends. Your friends don’t have to know that you learn with someone for say an hour a week.

    #1166437
    Bais Yaakov maydel
    Participant

    i dont recall ever using the word “problem” or even implying it. you sound like you like to dramatize things.

    im not trying to be a teacher here–im only two years older than you are.

    just letting you know that there are other ways to BREATHE–as in, eyn Torah ella mayim–we cant live without Torah, the same way we cant live without water.

    im sure you can understand that, from what ive read in your posts, youre not stupid.

    you probably just dont wanna deal with this stuff.

    and whatever i say wont help that.

    so i think ill stop chattering away now like im some experienced expert or something…lol.

    im getting carried away here, arent i…i cant stop typing.

    someone help me.

    whats with me?

    probably cuz i have more to say…but its not so nice so i wont say it.

    moish, i hope we can chat on more neutral topics in the future.

    refuah shelaima

    #1166439
    moish01
    Member

    asdfghjkl, sorry didn’t ignore you – just didn’t see you. it’s ok. could be worse i guess. could be better, though.

    #1166440
    moish01
    Member

    bais yaakov? i’m in pain from laughing. thanks.

    #1166441
    asdfghjkl
    Participant

    moish01: that’s good!!! your lucky you didn’t have to do the shoveling for the family out there!!

    #1166442
    moish01
    Member

    i don’t really ever do it anyway, but i guess now i don’t have to feel guilty.

    and what happened to my other message? there was NOTHING wrong with it! i’m so careful!

    I am getting tired of editing out the language that you choose to use when referring to others. keep it nice or I’ll keep hitting delete. OK? Good! YW Moderator-72

    #1166443
    Bais Yaakov maydel
    Participant

    glad i could make you happy lol

    #1166444
    moish01
    Member

    moderator72 you DO get meaner with time! (you gonna cut this one out too?)

    ok, basically: yes, charlie brown. i had a horrific day and i’m not exactly in the best mood. maybe that will partially explain my crabby mood.

    #1166445
    YW Moderator-72
    Participant

    moish01, You can say whatever you want about me. but calling others (either those in the coffee room of the greater “generic others”) not nice names AND you know what I am talking about, will not be tolerated.

    #1166446
    anonymisss
    Participant

    That’s ok, moish. You’re allowed a horrific day. We all have them some time or other. Being homebound certainly doesn’t make life very pleasant.

    #1166447
    moish01
    Member

    all right, sorry 72. looks like tonight’s my apologizing night.

    #1166448
    asdfghjkl
    Participant

    moish01: hope ya have a better day tomorrow!(ya noticed just one)

    #1166449
    moish01
    Member

    fat chance. part of my day was actually pretty ok. slept till 12 and played candyland with my little sisters in the afternoon.

    #1166450
    asdfghjkl
    Participant

    moish01: that’s real nice to play candyland!!! do you by any chance have a bunch of older brothers???

    #1166451
    anonymisss
    Participant

    You’re a nice big bro.

    #1166452
    moish01
    Member

    nope. i’m the oldest. why?

    anonymisss, i couldn’t say no – they’re four and six and they were so excited that i was home today (i don’t really see them much on the weekend because i’m not usually around) and i was bored anyway.

    #1166453
    asdfghjkl
    Participant

    moish01: oh cause i was just trying to see if maybe i knew you! anyways…

    #1166454
    moish01
    Member

    i wonder if i know anyone on here. it would be kinda cool, no?

    #1166455
    asdfghjkl
    Participant

    moish01: yeah that’s why i was askin!

    #1166456
    anonymisss
    Participant

    Little kids are cute, no? so innocent

    #1166457
    shkoyach
    Participant

    dont bother… not on this site 😉

    #1166458
    moish01
    Member

    yeh. not sure why, but they actually like me.

    asdfghjkl – if you know me you would’ve figured it out already. i’m moish, 16 and the oldest in my fam. and my dad’s the coolest lawyer in brooklyn, new york. anything else?

    #1166459
    asdfghjkl
    Participant

    moish01: nope doesn’t seem like i know ya!!! oh well!!

    #1166460
    qaws
    Member

    Moish: how are you usually not around during the week? I thought you have a cast and therefor you need to stay home?

    #1166461
    Joseph
    Participant

    what area of law?

    #1166462
    moish01
    Member

    well now i’m home because of my broken leg. but i’m not usually around in the afternoons and evenings.

    class action. why? (btw is this the famous chashuva joseph?)

    #1166463
    asdfghjkl
    Participant

    moish01: yup that’s the joseph we were talkin about!!!

    #1166464
    moish01
    Member

    oh well hey nice to meet you. do you usually attack people with a question before actually saying hi? (jk- it’s all cool!)

    #1166465
    brooklyn19
    Participant

    …interesting thread… i’m in shock…

    #1166466
    areivimzehlazeh
    Participant

    brooklyn is speechless- that’s a first

    #1166467

    moish,

    sorry I didn’t respond sooner. Yeah, a lousy day here and there are normal, so you’re forgiven but don’t you dare let that happen again – from now on please leave the crabbiness outside before entering the CR. just kidding. But seriously I hope your sunday and monday have been better and that brooklyn has gotten you more cocoa puffs since motzei shabbos.

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