Several years ago, I moved from an out of town community for the purpose of shiduchim. As a successful professional, I was wooed by several minyanim who for obvious reasons would want me as a member. After trying the various shukl, I became a member in the one I was most confortable with; A chashuv baal batish shule with several hundred members.
In good times, I contributed generously to the shule. But the economy soured, and so did my practice. Subsequently, I came down with an illness which precludes me from coming to Shule.
It’s been three months now; noone called to find out how I am or why I don’t come to Shule. In my opinion, the silence speaks volumes and I have lost my faith.