RebYidd- At what age do you think they should have say in their education?
Parents want certain things for their children and they want them to be educated in a certain way. Some parents want their children to learn Torah most of the day while some parents want their children to learn secular studies most of the day.
That’s funny. When I was a kid I wanted to study art, learn science, play sports and read about history. And it’s unfair to force kids to learn the way their parents want them to.
i used to love the Montessori method but as an OT i see the problems it raises. besides it being very very difficult to use side by side with learning sifrei kodesh, children who have weak skills learn to avoid those skill areas completely instead of working thru them. Children who struggle with fine motor or group work will sometimes opt out of activities that develop those skills and fall further behind.
Syag, Would be great if some good minds would work through the snags and figure a new method, based on Montessori. A fixed up version to take care of all the issues you mention. We can call it the “Syag Lchochma Method”.
As it happens, i am working with some amazing people on developing an early childhood curriculum that is based on the developmental milestones. Maybe you can join us?