Who can explain this to me?

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  • October 22, 2014 7:30 pm at 7:30 pm #1036594
    hodulashem
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    I recently became aware that in the chassidishe velt, it’s the boys who are having a “crisis”. Why is it that they have a harder time marrying off their sons than their daughters?

    October 22, 2014 7:30 pm at 7:30 pm #613985
    hodulashem
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    It is not harder for chassidish people to marry off their sons.

    October 22, 2014 7:33 pm at 7:33 pm #1036595
    screwdriverdelight
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    Because there they all try getting married at like 20 yrs old, but boys aren’t really mature enough until 22/23

    October 22, 2014 8:31 pm at 8:31 pm #1036596
    SpiceofLife
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    Maybe the same as part of the reason for the girls shidduch crisis in litvishe oilom: MONEY.

    As far as I know in litvishe oilom, the norm is the girl’s side providing the $$$$. In chassidisher oilom, I think half half is the ‘rule’. I don’t know if this is true everywhere or if this is one of the main reasons or not.

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