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August 5, 2011 6:33 pm at 6:33 pm #598466PeacemakerMember
I’d like to reverse gavra’s thread of “What makes someone a Charadi?” My question here is what makes someone Modern Orthodox?
August 5, 2011 6:40 pm at 6:40 pm #797037YW Moderator-80Memberdo you have a question or an agenda?
what do you think makes someone MO?
August 5, 2011 6:43 pm at 6:43 pm #797038gavra_at_workParticipantAugust 5, 2011 6:51 pm at 6:51 pm #797039bombmaniacParticipant:O gaw is a mod? :O rofl
August 5, 2011 7:18 pm at 7:18 pm #797040TheGoqParticipantI think it means they are both modern and orthodox
August 5, 2011 7:54 pm at 7:54 pm #797041gavra_at_workParticipantgaw is a mod?
Am Not.
August 5, 2011 7:57 pm at 7:57 pm #797042mikehall12382Memberfirst step is to visit Yeshivat Har Etzion, they have a web site…
August 5, 2011 8:45 pm at 8:45 pm #797043PeacemakerMember“do you have a question or an agenda?”
A question.
“what do you think makes someone MO?”
I don’t know.
August 5, 2011 9:11 pm at 9:11 pm #797044mewhoParticipantenough already of different groups here dissecting the other groups.
we are all yidden , we are all brothers and sisters.
lets try harder as of today and every day to care more about our fellow yid instead of mocking them for doing something different than yu do or i do or someone else does.
ahavas yisroel, that includes all of us…..TOGETHER
August 5, 2011 9:16 pm at 9:16 pm #797045shlishiMemberI never understood any definition that was offered to define MO. After hearing answer like it means working and engaging the world, I ask myself is a Satmar Chosid computer programmer Modern Orthodox?? Is Rabbi Abraham Twersky MD, Modern Orthodox? Does it mean that someone who learns in Kollel cannot be Modern Orthodox?
If its about leniencies, there are relatively strict and lenient people within all segments of Orthodoxy. Some married women shave their heads, some wear shaitlach but prohibit human hair, some permit even that. Some people keep a 72 minute Motzoi Shabbos and some are Maikel and keep 45 or 50, even though it is an issue of sofek chilul shabbos. Yet these leniencies would not qualify one as Modern Orthodox. So the question is, how much does one have to be lenient in order to enter the realm of “Modern Orthodoxy”? And since Rabbi Yoshe Ber Soloveichik was the preeminent authority for Modern orhtodox Jewry, does that mean he, too was lenient? In what? He was makpid on Cholov Yisroel, for instance. Does this make those who follow Rav Moshe’s heter are more Modern Orthodox than Rabbi Soloveichik?
How do you know who is MO?
August 6, 2011 6:33 pm at 6:33 pm #797046haifagirlParticipantExcellent post, shlishi.
August 7, 2011 2:39 am at 2:39 am #797048oyveykidsthesedaysParticipantBasically, there’s a Modern Orthodox ideal, and a Modern Orthodox reality. I’m not going to discuss the reality.
Modern Orthodoxy is (supposed to be)
Religious zionism,
Belief in the importance of secular education,
It’s important that women should learn Torah on a level at least equal to that of their secular education.
For some reason, people think that if you’re Modern Orthodox, you’re allowed to:
see certain types of arayos
daven once a day/week (men)
wear pants (women)
get drunk during kerias hatorah (hopefully only men, unless there’s a new problem i don’t know about)
schmooze with members of the other gender (not married to)
Klal yisroel should be zoche that yidden who are not yet yir’ei shomayim should become yir’ei shomayim, and those who are already yir’ei shomayim should stay yir’ei shomayim, and that all jews, chareidi, modern orthodox, mizrachi, chardal, chassidish, yeshivish, brisk, sephardi, ashkenazi, frum, and not yet frum, should all get along, and there should be shalom al yisroel, and in that zechus, moshiach should reddem us bimeheira b’yameinu. amen.
August 7, 2011 2:41 am at 2:41 am #797049oyveykidsthesedaysParticipantif you think i discussed the reality, i didn’t discuss the full reality, because there are factions of modern orthodoxy that are actually much more yeshivish.
August 7, 2011 2:48 am at 2:48 am #797050shlishiMemberSo basically, MO is simply Zionism combined with the belief that not everyone has to learn in Kollel, and that the secular world has something to offer (that something includes, it seems, secular studies).
Who disagrees with any of this??
Nobody believes that everyone has to always learn in Kollel.
Nobody believes that the secular world has nothing to offer.
So we still have no answer to the question, “How do you know who is MO?”
And if this is all MO is, why are coed Yeshivos found exclusively and without exception, among MO Torah institutions?
And how much “secular studies” is necessary to be MO? College? High School? Post Grad? Continuing education?
August 7, 2011 2:57 am at 2:57 am #797051msseekerMemberEvery rule has exceptions and every group has fringe members on both sides of the spectrum. This does not mean that there are no rules, or no groups.
August 7, 2011 3:05 am at 3:05 am #797052oyveykidsthesedaysParticipant“And if this is all MO is, why are coed Yeshivos found exclusively and without exception, among MO Torah institutions?”
because, that’s part of the reality. it would obviously be much more ideal to have a non co-ed, Religious zionist, secular education, da’as-torah-respecting, very frum, MO etc., school. (then i might just fit in somewhere 😉 but it’s unfortunately, for now at least, unrealistic.
August 7, 2011 3:16 am at 3:16 am #797053msseekerMemberWell, the Chareidish ideal is for everyone to be a tzadik gamur.
August 7, 2011 4:00 am at 4:00 am #797054metrodriverMemberms seeker; At least theoretically.
August 7, 2011 4:17 am at 4:17 am #797055simcha613ParticipantIMHO, in the theoretical sense, MO and Chareidim are not that different. They both believe in the 13 ikkarim of the Rambam, and are shomrei Halachah kedas ukedin. They value Torah and believe Jews should be different than the Goyim. The main difference is how you view secular society. Chareidim view secular society as dangerous and one should only interact with secular society when necessary. MO believes that while secular society is dangerous, it also has a lot to offer, so we should use secular society for its advantages, and stay away from the negatives.
Unfortunately, significant members of both movements took these values too far. Many Chareidim are insular to the extreme, even to the extent where they are being hurt. Many MO’s use secular society when they shouldn’t, and are exposed and influenced in negative ways.
This is why people think MO is about being excessively meikil and being like the Goyim, but it’s not true. MO is about being Jewish, and distinct from the Goyim while using secular society for its positives. Unfortunately, too many people went too far into secular society, and are giving true MO’s a bad name.
August 7, 2011 4:18 am at 4:18 am #797056msseekerMemberThat’s what I was trying to compare, the MO ideal vs. the Chareidi ideal.
August 7, 2011 4:20 am at 4:20 am #797057mw13ParticipantAs others have pointed out, there are two different types of MO: the Ideologically Modern and the Behaviorally Modern.
The Ideologically MO have several main hashkafic differences with the Charaedim:
1) The MO believe in trying to fit the Torah together with the modern world and its culture, while the Chareadim believe in keeping away from any foreign culture as much as possible. This debate is the root cause of differences in how secular education, movies and TV, etc. are looked upon in the Modern and Chareadi worlds.
2) The MO usually hold a positive view of Zionism, while the Chareadim look at it as foreign and dangerous.
3) The MO have a much narrower view of the Mesorah than the Chareadim do. This gives the MO much more flexibility in deciding how to approach any situation. Also, this can arguably be called the root cause of all the other hashkafic differences that exist between the Chareadim and the MO.
4) The MO advocate giving women a larger and more public role in Judaism, while the Chareadim advocate a more traditional role for women.
5) The Chareidim often try to make sure that they follow every possible halachic opinion (chumros), which is not as common in the MO world.
The Behaviorally MO do not necessarily share any of these hashkafos. They are simply “modern” in the sense that they are not traditional. The Behaviorally MO are often far more lax with the Halacha than either the Chareidim or the Ideologically MO. They will often rely on the most lenient halachic opinion, and sometimes even (CH”V) ignore the Halacha altogether.
(The above was my comment on the “What is MO” thread.)
mewho:
“enough already of different groups here dissecting the other groups. we are all yidden , we are all brothers and sisters. lets try harder as of today and every day to care more about our fellow yid instead of mocking them for doing something different than yu do or i do or someone else does.”
I don’t see anybody “mocking” anybody else here at all. Actually, I think this is a pretty cool-headed spate of discussions on the MO vs Chareidi outlook on life.
August 7, 2011 4:24 am at 4:24 am #797058oyveykidsthesedaysParticipantmssseeker: that would be an ideal/perfect world. but, obviously, that’s not happening. however, the examples that i gave of the “MO” reality, are what many “MO” people think to be the ideal. also, in a perfect world, all “MO” would be tzaddikim gemurim as well.
August 7, 2011 4:39 am at 4:39 am #797059yitayningwutParticipantIf I am not mistaken, in a word, the Modern Orthodox ideal is integration, while the Chareidi ideal is segregation.
Another major differentiation – secular knowledge in and of itself can be part of a person’s growth as a Jew according to the MO, while the Chareidi view is that although it may be acceptable in order to learn a trade or to learn to be able to help others, college would never be acceptable in a world where food came down from heaven and no one ever got sick.
Both groups believe in the Torah one hundred percent, and the fact that there are extremists and fringe elements and people who don’t uphold what they officially believe in both factions does not change this fact.
August 7, 2011 4:49 am at 4:49 am #797060mw13Participantsimcha613:
“Many Chareidim are insular to the extreme, even to the extent where they are being hurt.”
I’m didn’t quite follow that – how can being “insular to the extreme” hurt anybody?
“This is why people think MO is about being excessively meikil and being like the Goyim, but it’s not true. MO is about being Jewish, and distinct from the Goyim while using secular society for its positives. Unfortunately, too many people went too far into secular society, and are giving true MO’s a bad name.”
As I pointed out in previous post, I think the people that are giving the true MO a bad name are the “Behaviorally Modern” who are very lax with the Halacha. A true Ideological MO would have none of that.
But I also think that these Behaviorally MOs have become part of the MO society in general, and their ideas (inter-gender mingling (to put it nicely), lack of tznius, etc) have unfortunately become accepted in large parts of the MO world. This is very unfortunate, and most definitely not what the Gedolim who created the true MO Hashkafa (R’ Hirsch, R’ Yoshe Ber, etc) had in mind.
August 7, 2011 9:39 am at 9:39 am #797061ToiParticipantmw13 R’ hirschs hashkafa of tora im derech eretz and MOs hashkafa of torah umaada are not only not alike- they are diametrically opposed. see artscrols biography of r hirsch. r hirsch held that torah reigns supreme and with it secular subjects can be understood better whereas r norman lamm (quoted in the biography -not me-) says that both torah and secular subjects have what to glean from each other. look there. if i keep writing il;l get modded. also worthy to note that r hirsch was emphatically opposed to the state of israel and for some reason MO decided that r hirsch had their agenda. again this i believe to be factual- see his biography by artscroll. he actually mazintained a position closer to satmar then the rest of the jewish community. i know everyone will say i’m crazy and ignorant but this is historically accurate. kol tuv
August 7, 2011 9:45 am at 9:45 am #797062ToiParticipanti also don’t understand one thing. why cling to a belief and ideal that is self-admittedly (i just made up a word) failing.in the O community intergender mingling is looked upon with didain although it does occur- pizza shops etc. MO has co-ed camps. why don’t their leaders put a cherem on it if its opposed to their ideal. there are no reactions to everything wrong that happens. it makes no sense.
August 7, 2011 10:59 am at 10:59 am #797063simcha613Participantmw13-
As I said before, (I think) Chareidim believe that secular society is dangerous and should only be used when necessary. Insular to the extreme means not using it even when it’s necessary.
I’ve hear stories of people who suffer from substance abuse issues (and I imagine the same story exists for people suffering from psychological problems and family issues) whose families refuse to acknowledge the problem. I was told that one reason for this problem is because the families involved didn’t want to expose their families to secular society who would be able to provide the help necessary. I’m sure there are also people who refuse to get jobs and acquire a parnassah for their family because they don’t want to be involved in secular society. Also, imho, being too insular also goes hand in hand with a lack of respect for the government and its laws (in both the USA and Israel, though I imagine this problem in Israel has far deeper philosophical roots than the problem in the USA).
August 7, 2011 12:21 pm at 12:21 pm #797064Lomed Mkol AdamMembernw13: Rav Hirsch did not create MO hashkafa. Torah Im Derech Eretz is a very different philosophy than Torah U’Mada.
August 7, 2011 3:52 pm at 3:52 pm #797066msseekerMember“i know everyone will say i’m crazy and ignorant…”
Not me. RSRH is greatly respected and admired in Satmar.
August 7, 2011 5:54 pm at 5:54 pm #797067metrodriverMemberYitayningwut; the Second paragraph in your post is the defining point of the Modern Orthodox philosophy. All the rest are the peripherals. It’s like Hillel told that prospective convert, who wanted to learn about the entire Torah while standing on one foot. “Don’t do unto others what you wouldn’t like done to yourself”. “That is the basis of the Torah. The rest is commentary”. ?? ???? ???? ????? ?? ?????. ?? ?? ????? ????? ??????. ??? ????.
August 7, 2011 6:08 pm at 6:08 pm #797068yitayningwutParticipantPerhaps. Let it be clear though that I specifically wrote secular knowledge in and of itself can be part of a person’s growth as a Jew according to the MO. There is no true MO philosophy that says Torah and halacha are not also necessary components in a Jew’s personal growth.
August 7, 2011 6:20 pm at 6:20 pm #797069Lomed Mkol AdamMemberYitayningwut: Which Torah source states that secular knowledge is necessary for the spiritual growth of a Jew? Can you qoute sources from ‘Halachic Man’?
August 7, 2011 6:36 pm at 6:36 pm #797070yitayningwutParticipantLomed, from my understanding this thread is not about debating the truth or falsehood of the tenets of Modern Orthodoxy. It is about identifying the beliefs and perspectives of either group. If you want to discuss whether certain concepts are true or not, why not start a new thread? I may even be on your side… (I never identified myself as MO)
August 7, 2011 7:14 pm at 7:14 pm #797071oyveykidsthesedaysParticipantlomed: the Rambam says that studying science and nature is THE way to come to ahavas hashem.
August 7, 2011 7:51 pm at 7:51 pm #797072Lomed Mkol AdamMemberOy vey kids: So you are honestly saying that you go attend college and dedicate your life for your degree and career in order to reach a higher level of Ahavas Hashem?
August 7, 2011 8:45 pm at 8:45 pm #797074metrodriverMemberyitayningwut; My understanding of the essence of the Modern Orthodox philosophy always was based on “Torah Umada” that they complement (Not to be confused with “Compliment”.) each other. That was the philosophy of (Hatzadik) RS”R Z”L. That is not to say (as some like to interpret the subject.) that having knowledge in Torah alone (Without also acquiring knowledge in Science) has no value. No. Indeed. What RS”R said was, that Science is no contradiction to Torah. That they are not mutually exclusive. And a follower of Modern Orthodoxy should strive to achieve both.
August 7, 2011 9:08 pm at 9:08 pm #797075Lomed Mkol AdamMemberMetrodriver: The Yekkish community and Rav Breuer Zt”l were vehemently against Modern Orthodoxy. RSRH held one should get a secular education in order to make a parnassah for the purpose of serving Hashem. He never held that secular education in a goal for itself. Anyone who is a true Orthodox Jew believes that there is only one goal for a Jew in this world, and that is to serve Hashem, and that’s all.
August 7, 2011 9:24 pm at 9:24 pm #797076ToiParticipanti think i got modded b4. see artdcrolls biography on r hirsch. tora im drech eretz is diametricaly opposed to torah umaada. theres a quote from norman lamm saying so.
August 7, 2011 9:34 pm at 9:34 pm #797077Feif UnParticipantModern Orthodoxy advocates learning secular education for 2 purposes.
First is for parnassah – MO does not push the kollel lifestyle, and believes a person should provide for his family.
Second is to better understand things. For example, learning trigonometry can better help someone to better understand parts of Maseches Sukkah. We all believe that everything is contained within the Torah, so we learn secular knowledge while recognizing that it all comes from Hashem, and will help us better understand things in a religious context. For example, most halachic medical experts come from MO circles, not from chareidi circles.
August 7, 2011 9:41 pm at 9:41 pm #797078metrodriverMemberToi;What you’re saying about a distinction between “Torah Im Derech Eretz” being diametrically opposed to “Torah Umadda”, as per RS”R, is news to me. But, (I apologize in advance. Especially, this being in the 9 days.) I’m not terribly impressed of any statements by Dr. Norman Lamm. I will (bl”n) do further research in the writings of RS”R Hirsch.
August 7, 2011 9:47 pm at 9:47 pm #797079ToiParticipantcan any1 address my conundrum above? Why does the MO camp have co=ed camps and mingling; and its considered accepted and not dangerous. I’ve never heard of an MO rav coming out against it. please explain. and if that really is accepted it doesn’t sound like the type of people who have real sh’eefos in avodas hashem
August 11, 2011 2:26 am at 2:26 am #797083oyveykidsthesedaysParticipantlomed said: Oy vey kids: So you are honestly saying that you go attend college and dedicate your life for your degree and career in order to reach a higher level of Ahavas Hashem?
I don’t go to college, because I’m 15. However, I do study science, and yes, I do it to reach a higher level of Ahavas Hashem.
August 11, 2011 2:39 am at 2:39 am #797084oyveykidsthesedaysParticipantToi said: “can any1 address my conundrum above? Why does the MO camp have co=ed camps and mingling; and its considered accepted and not dangerous. I’ve never heard of an MO rav coming out against it.”
Against it:
Rav Mayer Twersky – http://www.torahweb.org/audioFrameset.html#audio=rtwe_091006
Rav Mordechai Willig –
http://www.yutorah.org/lectures/lecture.cfm/711749/Rabbi_Mordechai_I._Willig/Tzniut
All real Modern Orthodox rabbonim are against the breaches in tznius which are all to prevalent in some Modern Orthodox communities. Unfortunately, however, there is nothing they can do about it.
August 11, 2011 2:41 am at 2:41 am #797085oyveykidsthesedaysParticipantsorry- too prevalent, not to prevalent
August 11, 2011 6:14 am at 6:14 am #797086ToiParticipantAs i understand the difference between MO an R’ Hirsch. MO beliueves there is what to glean from secular study that cannot be gleaned from the torah, and, by studying both, a person can come to realize a bigger fuller picture. tora im derech eretz does not.
August 11, 2011 12:21 pm at 12:21 pm #797087apushatayidParticipantIndoor plumbing, you no longer churn your own butter, you embrace and make use of technology such as the horseless carriage and electricity, definitely modern. You live your life according to the shulchan aruch, definitely orthodox. You do both simultaneously, you are a modern orthodox jew.
August 11, 2011 12:45 pm at 12:45 pm #797088gavra_at_workParticipantModern Orthodoxy advocates learning secular education for 2 purposes.
First is for parnassah – MO does not push the kollel lifestyle, and believes a person should provide for his family.
Second is to better understand things. For example, learning trigonometry can better help someone to better understand parts of Maseches Sukkah. We all believe that everything is contained within the Torah, so we learn secular knowledge while recognizing that it all comes from Hashem, and will help us better understand things in a religious context. For example, most halachic medical experts come from MO circles, not from chareidi circles.
I’m going to have to make a distinction (that others have made as well, such as Harry M.).
There is the concept of “Torah U’Mada”, which can mean:
1: Mada is worth studying independently of Torah, being an alternative (or personal) means to certain Mitzva ends.
2: Mada is useful as a support to Torah.
3: Torah can be learned fully only with the Mada needed to understand it.
4: Mada is worth knowing without any other motive.
There is also “Torah Im Parnassah”, which is generally defined as learning but studying enough to support one’s family, including paying the Rabbaim that teach your children.
Then there is “Just Torah”, as Rabbi Dr. Lander ZTL put it when asked. He believed only Torah can be important in one’s life. Parnassah is a side point due to the Klallah of Adam HaRishon, that people have to do Hishtadlus. But there is no “Im” that can put anything with Torah.
Point being, any of these can be discribed (besides for perhaps the last Torah U’Mada point) as either “Yeshivish” or “MO”.
Charadi (as per the “standard definition”), on the other hand, views work (and Parnassah) as a b’Dieved for everyone, no matter what level they are up to in Bitachon.
Shlishi, great post.
August 11, 2011 12:59 pm at 12:59 pm #797089Mom of 5Member‘first step is to visit Yeshivat Har Etzion, they have a web site…’
My son just returned from 11 months at Yeshivat Har Etzion. Just last week he explained to me the ‘Gush’ philosophy and definition of Modern Orthodoxy. According to him (I hope I do his explantion justice), someone who is MO uses the modern world (culture, literature, technology) to enhance his service to Hashem. Obviously there is more to it, but growing up MO I had never heard it explained before, and to me it makes perfect sense.
FYI, my son went to a co-ed elimentary school and an all boys HS.
August 11, 2011 1:30 pm at 1:30 pm #797090gavra_at_workParticipantAs i understand the difference between MO an R’ Hirsch. MO beliueves there is what to glean from secular study that cannot be gleaned from the torah, and, by studying both, a person can come to realize a bigger fuller picture.
I don’t believe that is the case. I would have put it (for at least one “strand” of MO):
MO beliueves (sic) there is what to glean from secular study that is easier to understand from that source than being gleaned from the torah,
August 11, 2011 1:46 pm at 1:46 pm #797091Feif UnParticipantThere are some co-ed schools in the MO world because we recognize that there are people out there with a low level of observance who need them. They believe it’s a big thing, and if it wasn’t available, they’d likely go to public school instead. So, given the choice between these kids going to public school or having a co-ed Jewish day school, they opted to have the day school, so that the kids still get a Jewish education. I know kids who started there, realized that it wasn’t ideal, and asked their parents to switch them to a boys-only school. The principal of the school looks at these kids as their greatest success stories.
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