Shopping: Experiment, see what happens.
For example, a thread like “Women are idiots” started by a man, and “Men are fools” started by a woman will get lots of posts, but you may lose your credibility for the future.
Question posts like “How much balsamic vinegar should I put in a craisin-tomato-pistachio-ice cream salad?” will draw women who like exotic recipes.
“About….do I shudder” will probably be ignored.
“Helllllllppppppp!” will get noticed, but only those who can help you will post.
“Thank you, Mods!!!!” will for sure get read by all the Mods.
So, go for it, Shopping:)