Was women's suffrage a mistake?

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  • #617945
    Joseph
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    Your opinion, please.

    #1158973
    mw13
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    Was letting Jews vote a mistake?

    (Just an innocent question.)

    #1158974
    golfer
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    I’m guessing you don’t mean MY opinion, Joseph.

    (I’m a woman)

    #1158975
    zahavasdad
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    Joseph is now a chassid of Rav Kook

    #1158976
    👑RebYidd23
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    Yes. Women’s suffrage was a mistake. Women exist to be obedient to their husbands and have babies. Not to speak their minds or count as members of society. In fact, best not to mention them.

    #1158977
    Joseph
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    mw13, do you disagree that a woman’s place is in the home and that civilization for thousands of years, until roughly 100 years ago, always recognized and acted as such. And are you unfamiliar that our seforim hakedoshim state that a man’s place is to go out in the world and engage outside the home while a woman’s place is to remain in the home and run they family’s domestic affairs?

    Do you think not only the American founding fathers got it wrong, but all of civilization from the beginning of time until Susan B. Anthony came along all got it wrong, including Chazal and our own chachomim?

    #1158978
    WolfishMusings
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    mw13, do you disagree that a woman’s place is in the home and that civilization for thousands of years, until roughly 100 years ago, always recognized and acted as such. And are you unfamiliar that our seforim hakedoshim state that a man’s place is to go out in the world and engage outside the home while a woman’s place is to remain in the home and run they family’s domestic affairs?

    Do you think not only the American founding fathers got it wrong, but all of civilization from the beginning of time until Susan B. Anthony came along all got it wrong, including Chazal and our own chachomim?

    So, based on that logic, let’s empty out all the yeshivos were masses learn every day, so that they can go to work and their wives can stay home. After all, the phenomenon of so many people learning is very new, in the post-Shoah world.

    Do you think that all of Jewish history from the beginning of the settling of Eretz Yisroel until the Holocaust had it wrong, including Chazal?

    The Wolf

    #1158979
    golfer
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    The Wolf, I think I detect a not of sarcasm (-a whole symphony?).

    But you raise an important point.

    There’s no question that post-WWII Jewry required this shift to “yeshivos where masses (of married men with families) learn every day.”

    The fact that many (or most) of their wives can’t stay home is a shift in our society that has the potential to cause real harm.

    Many people (including here in the CR) say that even when the men are not in Kollel and earn a decent wage, societal pressure, the high cost of tuition and summer camps, and in general the sky-rocketing cost of living in frum America, make two incomes a necessity.

    Can we get women back home to raise our precious newest generation?

    Do we have to?

    Do we want to?

    #1158980
    Joseph
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    I’ve been consistent in expressing the view that ideally a wife should be home with the children and the husband be the breadwinner.

    That said, their are exceptions to the rule where it may be necessary for the wife to provide an income. They should remain the exceptions. And certainly most preferably when that is unfortunately necessary, she should seek an income from the home or at least as close to the home as possible. Manhattan-type office jobs are surely to be best avoided.

    And the great zchus of having a husband/father in full-time Limud Torah HaKedosha is surely one of the exceptions that could justify her working. Another might be when family income necessitates it. (For core family necessities, not luxuries.)

    #1158981
    miamilawyer
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    I really do enjoy Joseph’s posts as he makes Antonin Scalia appear liberal (even Scalia had his soft spot for search and seizure issues) and it does entertain me that people exist whose opinions on every issue can be predicted with such certainty.

    To me, this question is pretty funny as it is one that everyone should agree on, and my guess is, even Joseph is just having a little fun.

    Even if I take for granted (and I do) that it is probably better for at least one parent to remain home with the children, and (without necessarily agreeing or disagreeing with this next premise)that it is better for that spouse to be the mom, as evidenced by Torah values and most societies, the question asks if women should be allowed to vote?

    Under what possible theory should they not be allowed to vote (by absentee ballot placing their decision in the mail to avoid some other issues) in the secular government that governs them?. Even Joseph has not provided a reason for that (except America’s founding fathers, who also were slave holders, etc…). And I don’t see that there is one.

    #1158982
    Uncle Ben
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    We can see from this year’s election that it clearly was.

    Without it we wouldn’t be this close to electing a volcanic tempered witch!

    #1158983
    ☕️coffee addict
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    May I note eishes chayal talks about a woman working AT HOME ;at home seamstress)

    #1158984
    charliehall
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    “do you disagree that a woman’s place is in the home and that civilization for thousands of years, until roughly 100 years ago, always recognized and acted as such”

    Factually inaccurate. There were plenty of women who worked outside their homes, at least in European and American society. For example, in Europe, huge numbers of Christian women became nuns and some had significant influence. And in rural America, labor shortages meant that women had to participate very actively in farm work. An interesting example: Lyndon Johnson’s grandmother was a cowgirl! Women also worked in factories from the early days of the industrial revolution.

    #1158985
    charliehall
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    “except America’s founding fathers, who also were slave holders”

    Many were not slaveowners. And some became abolitionists.

    #1158986
    charliehall
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    “ideally a wife should be home with the children and the husband be the breadwinner”

    Obviously inconsistent with the Kollel system.

    “having a husband/father in full-time Limud Torah HaKedosha is surely one of the exceptions”

    Well at least you admit that the Kollel lifestyle is an exception and not ideal.

    #1158987
    charliehall
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    “There’s no question that post-WWII Jewry required this shift to “yeshivos where masses (of married men with families) learn every day”

    There certainly IS such a question. The Modern Orthodox and Dati Leumi worlds never adopted the Kollel for Everyone system and are doing fine. They also aren’t requiring massive government subsidies for their survival.

    #1158988
    charliehall
    Participant

    “Without it we wouldn’t be this close to electing a volcanic tempered witch!”

    We can thank the women of America for it is likely that they will be the ones to save us from having Donald Trump as President. That alone proves that it wasn’t a mistake. White male voters are all set to elect someone who lies so often he is a full employment program for fact checkers, who promotes junk science, whose tax plan would give the country ten trillion dollars more debt, who slavingly follows Vladimir Putin in every foreign policy matter, who has a history of doing business with organized crime, who ran an illegal fradulent university, and who incites anti-Semitic hatred as no major party candidate in history has ever done.

    #1158989
    miamilawyer
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    CharlieHall Said:

    “except America’s founding fathers, who also were slave holders” (quoting me) and then said…”Many were not slaveowners. And some became abolitionists.”

    Response: This was not intended as a lesson in American history. Indeed, New Jersey allowed women to vote from the beginning, or at least since 1797.

    Joseph’s point was the majority opinion at that time was that women should not/could not, and my response was the majority opinion at that time was blacks could be owned. Neither is correct. I also note that many of the founders held more liberal views, but either A) wanted the convenience of owning slaves, or B) felt that lechatchila, there should be no slaves, but the nation was not ready for it and so bedieved, it was ok.

    I have heard that same explanation given for why the torah sanctioned slavery.

    #1158990
    miamilawyer
    Participant

    PS I know I am doing something right when I have both Joseph and CharlieHall disagreeing with me. All in good fun. 🙂

    #1158991
    nishtdayngesheft
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    “There certainly IS such a question. The Modern Orthodox and Dati Leumi worlds never adopted the Kollel for Everyone system and are doing fine. They also aren’t requiring massive government subsidies for their survival.”

    Horse feathers. All of it.

    And your system is an anti halachic system hat says Mazel tov to homosexual weddings and actually does what it can to disrupt frum communities.

    No frum Rov supports any of the actions of Avi Weiss and his Sychophants.

    #1158992
    Joseph
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    There’s nothing b’dievedik regarding eved knani in the Torah.

    #1158993
    miamilawyer
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    Joseph: There’s nothing b’dievedik regarding eved knani in the Torah.

    response: I carefully did not say that. I said I have heard some say that.

    I am not at all qualified to offer an opinion on the correct opinion.

    #1158994
    charliehall
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    “New Jersey allowed women to vote from the beginning, or at least since 1797.”

    Women could not vote in New Jersey after 1807. Wyoming Territory would allow women to vote starting in 1869 followed by Utah in 1870.

    #1158995
    charliehall
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    “Horse feathers. All of it.”

    I know that I have won the argument when the response is namecalling. What I said is truth and you know it.

    “any of the actions of Avi Weiss”

    This has nothing to do with Rabbi Weiss. Because he supports women voting I presume you oppose it?

    #1158996
    charliehall
    Participant

    “This was not intended as a lesson in American history.”

    An argument was made from history. I was simply debunking it.

    #1158997
    charliehall
    Participant

    “when I have both Joseph and CharlieHall disagreeing with me.”

    The question was a yes or no question. You have to agree with Joseph or you have to agree with me. Or withdraw from the debate.

    #1158998
    charliehall
    Participant

    ” I also note that many of the founders held more liberal views”

    To be honest I think most of the Founders did not see a major problem with slavery. The number who became abolitionists was clearly a minority. It was a major blind spot that would lead to a horrible Civil War two generations later.

    #1158999
    Joseph
    Participant

    “response: I carefully did not say that. I said I have heard some say that.

    I am not at all qualified to offer an opinion on the correct opinion.”

    Miamilawyer: That’s why I was happy to correct the record for you.

    #1159000
    Sam2
    Participant

    Joseph: Eh. It’s not crazy. Some even read the Rambam in the Moreh that way. Certainly the concept of Mitzvos/Halachos D’Oraisa being given as they were because Klal Yisrael at Mattan Torah was not in a position to accept otherwise is a serious opinion in the Rishonim (they say it by Korbanos, Goel HaDam, and some others). That doesn’t make it any less binding or mean it can ever change. It just explains why those Mitzvos were given as they were.

    #1159001
    Joseph
    Participant

    “(they say it by Korbanos, Goel HaDam, and some others)”

    So you, I or others shouldn’t add other things from the Torah where the Rishonim don’t say it about. Like kashrus, eved knani, Shatnes, men and women’s roles, taharas hamishpacha, etc. Otherwise ein sof, anyone can add anything the Torah says into the pot and say it’s all the same.

    Additionally, are the positions of the Rishonim you speak of even accepted as normative by the corpus of the body of Rishonim and Achronim?

    #1159002
    american_yerushalmi
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    “The Modern Orthodox and Dati Leumi worlds never adopted the Kollel for Everyone system and are doing fine. They also aren’t requiring massive government subsidies for their survival.”

    Dr. Hall forgot about the 350 billion shekels annually that supports the settlements. It’s actually even more than that, but some parts of the settlement budget are ‘concealed’ in other budget items. This is besides the budget for hesder yeshivas. The entire chareidi education system receives about 200 billion shekels, and that’s for elementary schools too. The married kollel students are budgeted at about 800 shekels (approx. $200) per student per month. Unmarried yeshiva bochurim are budgeted at about half of that.

    All the arguments and explanations that you will use to justify the settlement budget, how necessary it is for the nation’s security, etc. can be applied to the chareidi kollel system as well.

    As an aside, some Dati Leumi Roshei Yeshiva or Roshei Kollel in a moment of candor are sometimes willing to admit which system is producing greater Talmidei Chachamim.

    #1159003
    profound101
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    I think this conversation has veered off course, women’s suffrage was less about women leaving their homes to go to work, and more about about women being recognized as humans with rights rather than chattel.

    #1159004
    nishtdayngesheft
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    “the response is namecalling. What I said is truth and you know it.”

    Continue deluding yourself. It wasn’t worth the effort to go through to disprove your nonsense on a one by one basis.

    Bringing in Avi Weiss was just to show how deluded you are.

    #1159005
    zahavasdad
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    Housing subsidies are not the same as kollel subsidies. Unfortunatly with the high cost of housing, many israelis need housing subsidies and its not just DL who live in the settlements. Charedim and Chilonim live there too.

    Most Israelis cannot live in Arad and need to live in the Tel Aviv and/or Jerusalem area because of jobs and other reasons.

    So the Housing vs kollel argument is comparable

    #1159006
    TheGoq
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    Funny I just saw something about women in Saudi Arabia fighting for the right to drive, no it was not a mistake women are people too, you were born in the wrong century Joseph.

    #1159007
    Joseph
    Participant

    Oh, yes, how I wish I was around in the times of the Sanhedrin…

    #1159008

    The Queen is most anxious to enlist everyone in checking this mad, wicked folly of ‘Women’s Rights’. It is a subject which makes the Queen so furious that she cannot contain herself.

    Queen Victoria

    #1159009

    Virtually all leading poskim of the 1920s said it was mistaken

    #1159010

    The founding fathers were for a Republic.

    They were against democracy

    Today ,they would ruefully remark they were prescient indeed.

    ironic,some of the radicals such as Jefferson did believe in a greater element of democracy . but he was more strongly opposed than many of the others to any inclusion of women, blacks, and .. big cities which he termed “ulcers on the body politic”.

    #1159011

    The first immediate effect of women getting the Suffrage was anti immgrant nativism and isolationism

    Women were disproportionately against the league of nations and pro “Keep America out” european intanglement

    Britain and the Dominions,had a similar story

    ( But in their first election which women over 30 could vote ,1918,the ‘khaki’ election they overwhelmingly voted the other way, for reparations and revenge which caused the rise of hitler)

    #1159012
    miamilawyer
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    Charlie quoting me:

    “This was not intended as a lesson in American history.”

    Charlie: An argument was made from history. I was simply debunking it.

    Charlie quoting me: “when I have both Joseph and CharlieHall disagreeing with me.”

    Charlie: The question was a yes or no question. You have to agree with Joseph or you have to agree with me. Or withdraw from the debate.

    Charlie quoting me: ” I also note that many of the founders held more liberal views”

    Charlie: To be honest I think most of the Founders did not see a major problem with slavery. The number who became abolitionists was clearly a minority. It was a major blind spot that would lead to a horrible Civil War two generations later.

    Response: First of all, there is a difference between the question in this thread (should women be able to vote) and all of the other stuff discussed. On the issue in this thread, I am quite sure we agree, and frankly, I am quite sure that 80% or more (I would hope more) of the people posting agree that women should be allowed to vote in the US. Indeed, I really do believe Joseph was just having fun with the topic/question, which is silly.

    Second, you changed your position on the founders in this thread. My position has not changed on them.

    Like most humans before the last 20 years when all of a sudden everyone polarized with a clarity of vision unseen in the past (religion too…almost on every issue), they were probably complicated and conflicted people. They were also a group and held conflicting opinions.

    Again, the point of my comment was the founders were not perfect, so even if they did not agree with women’s suffrage (which is not a sure thing, while it did not get done until later, its not clear that at least some did not agree with the idea), it does not matter because they could be wrong.

    #1159013
    Joseph
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    #1159014
    miamilawyer
    Participant

    Joseph–your quote is immediately above and too long to quote.

    Based on my quick research, you appear to be correct. However, the gist of what he says would appear to apply to America, but he was saying it for Israel. R’ Uziel took the opposite position and R’ Kook appears to be in the minority.

    In any case, I acknowledge that I was wrong. I figured voting was too modern for their to be any real binding halachic authority on it, and that whatever people may think on various issues, it would seem they would allow the vote. Which appears to be the majority opinion, but not the only one.

    #1159015
    Joseph
    Participant

    On this issue Rav Kook was not in the minority amongst the Orthodox rabbinate during his time, when the issue of women’s suffrage was at the forefront of the political world and actively being debated.

    #1159017

    Miami,

    R’Uziel was out of the respected consensus on this ,as he was on other things

    Very few were pro suffrage, and even those who tolerated it, ’twas more out of Bsha’as ha’dchak

    R’Uziel was out of the respected consensus on this ,as he was on other things

    #1159018

    Miami, what in the world is you proof from esther?!That she was an empress??

    How about Solomon’s wives??

    #1159019

    Miami,et al,

    Does it need to be zero sum?

    Women [ with men] could vote for the House, while

    men vote for the Senate

    It would be

    ‘Progress’ [for those who need to have]

    over the late 19th century,

    when men voted for the House, and

    Legislatures voted for the Senate

    #1159020

    From Dr. Susan Goodier, a SUNY Oneonta history lecturer, in her 2013 book

    Susan Marshall in Splintered Sisterhood: Gender and Class in the Campaign Against Woman Suffrage,brings

    In the years after the 19th Amendment,feminist suffragists saw their predictions fall flat.

    #1159021
    miamilawyer
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    Time for Truth: Miami,et al,

    Does it need to be zero sum?

    Women [ with men] could vote for the House, while

    men vote for the Senate

    It would be ‘Progress’ [for those who need to have]

    ME: I am not sure if this is an attempt to demonstrate that the moderate position does not always make sense. If that is the point of that comment, I agree, it does not always. But more often than not, in my view, it is more logical then the extremes because most arguments taken to extremes produce absurd results.

    However, here, to me, there is only one possible answer that women’s suffrage was not a mistake. I understand that is influenced by my world view that A) it is not inconsistent to say that women and men are not exactly alike and might be better off in different roles, but B) they are equally as intelligent and there is no reason to prevent them from what I consider to be such a basic right.

    Also, I have already acknowledged that my prediction about this halachic issue (which was due to my incorrect assumption that women voting was too new to really have been dealt with) was incorrect.

    I do not for whatever it is worth (and I realize, that is not much), think that R’ Kook’s arguments were very convincing. He clearly stated he felt women were not as smart, and it seems all of his other views were consistent with his conclusion that women were not only not as smart as men, but did not have the same neshamah as men etc….

    And Indeed, all of his other reasons appear to be in support of that main conclusion, which I have to assume is not normative halacha.

    The rest of his reasons: Marital strife? So does that mean single women can vote? Modesty? Anything a women does that you feel is a man’s purview can lead to that argument.

    Anyway, I admit, my prediction on this one was incorrect. But again, while perhaps not in the charedi world which believes in absolute daas torah, one has to distinguish between a rabbi’s views that are based in halacha vs ones that really are not and are on non-halachic issues.

    It would not surprise me if at the time, he was in the majority on the voting issue because that is where the world’s mind was at. Indeed, that was yet another one of his arguments, that Israel should not be among the first to do it. But that does not mean these were halachic opinions as evidenced by the fact that there are religious women in the Kinneset today.

    I doubt his answer would have been the same if the question was about an issue that he believed had a clear halachic answer.

    Again, just my .02.

    #1159023

    Moderators ,would you prefer a shorter version?

    Yes

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