Chazal say nichnos yayin yatza sode. Translated this means in is wine out is secret. explained this means that there are certain things which cause one to lose his natural embarassment of his well kept secrets. One of the most beautiful times of the year is purim. If you take the time to listen closely you may here some of the most stoic yeshiva guys break down and bawl about his innermost spiritual yearnings. You can really get the undercurrent of the man. I think this is why most yeshivas let women in to watch the dancing on purim. What better way to find your bashert. Perhaps an even better way to strip away the layers of facades these bochurim put up is to read their posts on yeshiva world. It is here on this beautiful website that the true hashkafos come out because they are not attributed to their owner but rather a screen name. To this end I implore the moderators to bequeath the information of the yeshiva world members to a qualified shadchan.
May we all be zoche to the return of moshiach to rid us of the shidduch crisis speedily in our days.