Travelling with 3 Adults on the back row

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  • #611258
    ED IT OR
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    what is your opinion on crowding 3 adults in the back row on a long journey?

    personally i always say full car when i have 3 passengers but i keep getting told im being selfish. (of course if someone is genuinely stuck for a ride im happy to crowd)

    what do you think?

    #987507
    notasheep
    Member

    The middle seat is not always a proper seat and someone will get squashed. It really depends on the passengers – if none of them mind being shoulder-to-cheek with someone else, or if it’s a short trip then fine.

    #987508

    Emor Ma’at Va’asai Harbeh…

    The more mitzvos you can do the better, and perhaps, possibly but probably unlikely, you might get a small donation ”towards fuel” from one of four moaning backseat drivers…

    #987509
    MurphysLaw
    Member

    Motorbikes are designed to carry One Rider + optional passenger.

    Two Seater vehicles are designed to carry two passengers.

    Three seater vehicles are designed to carry three passengers.

    Four seater vehicles are designed to carry four passengers

    Five seater vehicles are generally designed to carry five passengers safely, albeit squashed.

    Six seater vehicles are designed to carry six.

    Seven seater vehicles are designed to carry seven.

    Eight – Sixteen their respective amount of passengers.

    Any more seats needed one should think about buying a coach or chartering a tram for in-town trips and a train, plane or ship for cross country/continental trips.

    Don’t forget a packed lunch and/or W/C visit first…

    Hope you had a smile from this post, as jam-packed cars are no joke!

    #987510
    🍫Syag Lchochma
    Participant

    there are three seat belts, why wouldn’t that be considered three seats?

    #987511
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    I’m with OP on this. When I give people rides, I cap it at 3 passengers unless there is a really great need.

    #987512
    brentout
    Participant

    It sounds like you guys regularly pick up hitchhikers. How often do you get random requests for a ride altogether, let along four people asking you for a ride?

    #987513
    ED IT OR
    Participant

    no not hitch hikers just i come from a large family and a very large extended family plus a lot of social so anything to do with faily or friends becomes a lift gemach.

    i once had that someone took a child to an out of town simche and didnt arange a way back “because one of the NO NAMES will sort a way back for him”, now thats what i call advantage taking

    #987514
    LevAryeh
    Member

    It sounds like you guys regularly pick up hitchhikers. How often do you get random requests for a ride altogether, let along four people asking you for a ride?

    You get what you’re looking for.

    #987515
    notasheep
    Member

    In some of the smaller cars, that middle seat is really only big enough for a young child or a very skinny person.

    We once came back from the airport 3 men and 2 ladies (me and my mother in law). One of the men drove, so where did that leave us ladies? Couldn’t let my MIL sit in the back, so I did, and spent fifteen very uncomfortable minutes trying to make sure that I was still shomer negiya. Will not do that again in a hurry.

    #987516

    @ Mrs notasheep,

    was it not a little sheepish not to make a seating plan before going to the airport…

    Or taken an aforementioned larger vehicle?

    Apologies I couldn’t avoid the pun!

    #987517

    I understand not wanting to crowd and think it’s perfectly reasonable to only take 3 passengers. However, being that there is a functional fourth passenger seat, I think it’s disingenuous to use the term “full car” in that situation.

    As far as the crowding itself– ask the passengers! I personally think the convenience of the ride outweighs the discomfort of being squished, and although I’m tall for a woman, I don’t mind being the one to take the middle seat. I do know, however, that other people feel differently.

    #987518

    I understand not wanting to crowd and think it’s perfectly reasonable to only take 3 passengers. However, being that there is a functional fourth passenger seat, I think it’s disingenuous to use the term “full car” in that situation.

    As far as the crowding itself– ask the passengers! I personally think the convenience of the ride outweighs the discomfort of being squished, and although I’m tall for a woman, I don’t mind being the one to take the middle seat. I do know, however, that other people feel differently.

    #987519
    ED IT OR
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    Privelaged to be a Member:

    What happens when you get a subtitle? will it read privelaged to be a Incorrigible; semi-retarded; eccentric; perhaps a man; somewhere between mean and average; sometimes only a bit over the top; arbitrarily engaged in cynicism?

    Anyways im thinking before casting your vote on the crowding issue everyone should have to state weather they have ever sat for 3 or more hours on a back row with 3 adults on.

    #987520
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
    Participant

    I don’t know the right answer; I’d probably squeeze a third in, but I don’t know how anyone could call you selfish for making sure your passengers are comfortable.

    #987521
    miritchka
    Member

    I will not squish people into my van. I have an eight seater with 8 seatbelts. I dont care if i have to drive more often in carpool due to less families in the carpool, i will not allow anyone to ride in my van without a seatbelt – sharing a seatbelt is not an option.

    #987522
    ED IT OR
    Participant

    Fluke of flukes: on the day i ask this question someones hits my car!

    so now the question is, is it a sign i am right as i will be getting lots of insurance or is it proof i am wrong that after i write this someone hits my car!

    #987523
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    Let’s also just make explicit that there’s a difference between a full size car like a Camry, and a compact like an Echo.

    #987524
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
    Participant

    PBA, and the size of the passengers.

    #987525
    notasheep
    Member

    PTBA it was kind of spontaneous, we went to a wedding in London which was in a hotel next to the airport, so it’s very convenient to just fly back first thing in the morning. Problem was that people who got a lift down with those who drove but wanted to be back first thing got a plane back, so there were quite a few people who needed a lift home from the airport afterwards.

    #987526
    ED IT OR
    Participant

    A full sized car is still a squish, in my messerschmidt there is 3 fullish sized seats in the back but i still wouldnt try to squish 3 full sized adults.

    #987527
    Derech Agav
    Participant

    I feel that if its the law. its the law. you have to think before you add the fourth person it shouldnt be a habit. also sometimes an adult in the middle seat bocks your veiw outside the back window… think safe!

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