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Eclipse- I wasnt totally kidding…?
Can all who care to join this group limit ur shares to touchy subjects so we can keep the “nicness” on other threads…
lol! Okay, you go first.
Ok, I knew this was gonna come 🙂
Btw- 2021- I was wondering how long you were married (you just sound like a young woman). If it’s private, skip it!
OK, let’s keep this real nasty. Take me for instance. When I google search for Zeeskite, it says “Looking for MeesKite?” They know me through and through! (if they only knew what Mommy does!!)
Since this isn’t a real thread I’ll go out a limb and dirty my keyboard. Mees means disgusting, Zees means sweet. I generally try to keep away from powerful negative vocabulary. It’s not conducive to proper attitude.
s2021~ meeskite means ugly or funny-looking in Yiddish.
when my <now 29 1/2 y.o.> daughter was an infant, I used to privately, affectionately call her my “zeeskite-meeskite’ –> I thought I was calling her my sweetie-cutie-mousey!! then I learned that I was actually calling my precious babe-a-la ‘sweet & ugly/funny looking’!!! :-O
I continued calling her that for a very short while thereafter, figuring: she’s sweet as anything ka’h, does have a little biggish nose that her face needed to grow into, & that it would be a good fooler/foiler against the ayin hora.
I dunno if this is coming out comprehensibly…I guess you just had to be there!
always here: lol!
Okay s2021, took you up on ur offer! Here goes: It absolutely grates on my nerves when ppl defend the poor lil guy who just happens to be the guilty party. It irks me! Do they deserve our RESPECT because they’re CRUEL???? <end rant>
s2021: Why? Everyone on “your side” has to hate him now? No one is allowed to emphasize with him?
How did he abuse you? Not insinuating he didn’t, but a lot of people cry wolf.
Now we get to delicious juicy parts…
Hey, this is supposed to be a support group thread, not a set-you-straight thread. As long as identities are protected, I should let it be
but that too!
What didn’t he buy you that you considered abuse?
“I just heard my cousin who I grew up with and played house with is good friends with my ex and has him over for supper all the time and they chill together every day.. Im so hurt!!!!”
Sorry to hear about your mistreatment. I’m actually envious about your relatives. Mine are the cause of my divorce. However you feel towards them -quadruple it -the way I feel towards mine.
Joseph – Congrats -a new posting name. What’s wrong with just using Yoseph or Yussie?
S2021- you’re saying he abused YOU. That doesn’t mean he gives a bad impression to outside people. He might actually be a great friend to others. Just helping you understand why people don’t realize that he’s a bad person.
So don’t be upset at your cousin.
(I have no idea if he really is a good or bad person, but I can definitely understand why he may look worse in your eyes and others might still like him.)
A long story. It took years. Almost as long as you are alive.
2021- I didn’t think you’ll buy it! But that’s the fact! People don’t know the whole story and only see the way the hub/wife acts in public.
Hey s2021, observe to the rescue! OMG!!! I’m sure you’re terribly hurt. I feel for you. Really I do. Oh, I understand you a lil toooo well. (Grandmaster please DON’T ask me WHY) I think ur friend isn’t aware of his true personality. In most cases, the abuser is the sweetest guy to strangers or friends. Just keep in mind that he can’t hide from Hashem AND HE WILL PAY A HEFTY PRICE!!! Perhaps in this world but definitely in the next. Daven that he do teshuva. I find it theraputic. Keep strong!!! Hatzlacha Rabba!
Would you forgive him if he did tshuva?
abusers are often charmers. When they’re too good to be true . . .watch out!
Sorry 2021- I don’t wanna get you angry! I’m just trying to bring out Syag’s words exactly: some abusive husbands may be good to their friends, and therefore, the outside world might not understand you.
Now back to the ex bashing!
Sure thing! I just came home from a simcha, so sorry I was a lil late. Oh, and if ur in the mood to kill… Well, there are a bunch of terrorists in Gitmo…:))
I’m pretty sure smartcookie was trying to tell you that your cousin would never want to hurt you, that he is just suffering from blatant ignorance, as do most people when they know abusers in platonic relationships.
(**details embellished for the sake of support**)
Go eat some chocolate, you’ll feel better (put it on my tab)
” how do u know how old I am?”
I’m guessing -s2021 -stands for somewhere around 20 or 21! (:@
Cookie: What she said is called supportive. Or nice. Or smart.
So 2021- you’re not really looking for support. You’re just looking for more and more people to talk against your ex-hub, even though they never met him.
Sorry, I can’t do that. And I don’t think it’s right to make others do it when nobody can really know what went on in your home.
I hereby open the gates for you…. Here you go! Ok, who’d you kill? Send em my regards!:)) BTW feeling any better??
Thanks Syag!
MODS STOP MODERATING PLEASE! You’re not letting me go to sleep with all this noise here.
I can block your account until tomorrow if that will help.
lol!
Nope, I’ll learn self control right now!
G’night 2021. Let’s stay friends although you don’t like my posts. I’ll daven for you!
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