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    always happy27
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    whtat are the top 5 character traits you would look for in a boy as a possible husband or as a parent what top 5 for a son-in-law

    #723209

    five??????i can list a few more than that than r really important to me.

    -loving/caring

    -happy

    -sensitive

    -thoughtful (may go along with sensitive, but i also mean this as thinking things through carefully before taking action)

    -honest/open

    -strong (not as in physically, although that’s good too, but i mean as in he will be strong in his convictions, a strong and good father figure to my children…)

    well u said only five, that’s six, so i’ll leave it at that for now

    #723210
    frumladygit
    Member

    1. Good heart (Gives generously to all)

    2. Knows when to remain silent and how to listen with heart.

    3. Has a strong work ethic. (Is not going to be some bum sitting around in mikveh until 12 noon-expecting my taty to pay the bills)

    4. Self control, does not lose temper.

    5. Learns when can or has regular chavrusim.

    #723211

    oh yeah, i forgot something else really important: knows when to be serious,and when to have fun

    #723212
    artchill
    Participant

    1. Chilled out enough to spand HOURS not minutes with the family.

    2. Yiddishkeit is REAL as opposed to going through the motions

    3. Industrious: Work or learn HARD

    4. Patience

    5. Strong clear opinions: This way people undertsand where he stands regardless if you agree or disagree!

    #723213

    Torah

    Midos

    Talmid Chochom

    Yirei Shmayim

    Baal Chesed

    #723214
    oomis
    Participant

    Kind/empathetic, thoughtful, even-tempered, has a loving, communicative relationship with family and friends, honest

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