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A lot of peoples that I’m meeting are not being honest with themselves- even being contradictory in other things that they say and do. It’s ABOUT TIME WE BE REAL.
STOP caring what other peoples say or think, STOP over worrying what will be with your shidduch if you don’t act a certain way, STOP acting like someone you’re not.
This only hurts you in the long run. You will NOT be happy. Start taking responsibility for yourself and allow yourself to grow into the best possible you.
People like to fit in- it’s only natural. But with this mindset running your life you’re only shooting yourself in the arms.
Every person is put in this planet to be their own unique, special, different selves. If you’re someone else THEN WHATS THE POINT OF YOU BEING HERE?Your points sound intriguing. Would you mind providing some tangible examples of what you mean so that we can better understand your point of view?
“STOP caring what other peoples say or think“
I’ve already started before you even said anything so I’m going to disregard your post
Talkin’ t’ me?!?
That’s it, I’m running through town in my underwear.
I want to be real and true to myself…
Bala-busta nut
I’ll give the mods the benefit of the doubt that their minds are not in the gutter -for not picking up the double entendre of your name, I can’t say the same about myself -like you say, be real!!Talkin’ t’ me ?!?
It’s a big problem in the world right now. People find the only way they will become successful is instead of learning from other people, they search and strive to actually become that person. And it’s pointless because maybe you could fool one person or maybe two, but in reality the only person you are fooling is yourself.
The worst part is when people pretend to be different characters like as if they’re in some type of movie
Why are people here, because this is exactly what they will have to overcome. If they would live with the awareness that they should only care what הקב”ה thinks of them they would probably not have face 120 years wallowing in the mud of עולם הזה.
You can’t expect of the המון עם to be holding there so early in the journey.Abraham Lincoln said, ‘You can fool some of the people all the time, all the people some of the time but you cannot fool all the people all the time.’.
There are social consequences to violating social norms
Extreme conformity is a problem, but it’s one an individual can’t solve alone. Because stopping to care what people think won’t save you when you don’t get the job, and you don’t get into school, and people avoid you like the plague.
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