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November 15, 2018 7:17 am at 7:17 am #1623873RSoParticipant
“R Shach is ES and everyone knows what he said
A& is R Aharon Kotler, not sure what he said”
I know what THEY said. I want to know what the Lubavicher rebbe said about them.
November 15, 2018 7:18 am at 7:18 am #1623874RSoParticipantTT: “Vechi deilotor ani loch?! Those who need to know, know.”
Applying “deilotor” (sic) to telling me what YOUR rebbe said is very weird. It applies to telling lashon hara. Unless you are of the opinion that saying what your rebbe said about these people is lashon hara. I can hear that…
November 15, 2018 7:20 am at 7:20 am #1623875RSoParticipantsyag: “Seckel Hayashar says he must have intimate exposure to Lubavitch, and CS’s problem is that he isn’t nice?! So it’s not lies or wrong or insanities, it’s just not how we speak to a yid….”
I was wondering sort of the same thing. TT’s tone was abominable, but let’s imagine he would have worded it all very civilly, would CS have disagreed with what he said?
So can CS please clarify that?
November 15, 2018 7:23 am at 7:23 am #1623876RSoParticipantSH: “Shluchim aren’t out there to “convert people to Chabad” they’re there to influence people to increase in their Torah and Mitzvos. Hafotzas HaMayonois doesn’t mean making people Lubavitch, it means spreading the teachings of Chassidus to the general public, and that is not limited to Chassidus Chabad, other Chassidus also perfectly fits the bill, whether it be Noam Elimelech, Kedushas Levi or Sfas Emas, doesn’t make a difference.”
Wow! That is really nice, and I hope you mean it. The problem, however, is that that is not the general haskafah of many/most Lubavicher chassidim who see it as their duty to preach to frum people that Chabad chassidus and their way of life is the best.
I believe that most of the non-lubavichers on the list are in total agreement with my above understanding.
November 15, 2018 7:24 am at 7:24 am #1623877RSoParticipantIs anyone out there going to point out that the Lubavich rebbe’s defence of what someone said about the Chason Ish is disgusting?
November 15, 2018 7:26 am at 7:26 am #1623878RSoParticipantCS, you have said a number of times (or perhaps it has just been copied and pasted a number of times) that many gedolie Yisrael held highly of the Lubavicher rebbe. While that is probably true, there are also many gedolei Yisrael – including virtually all Litvishe gedolim – who did not.
If, as you say, your rebbe loved every Yid, then that includes Litvaks, so we can’t just ignore them even if we may disagree with them.
And there were also Chassidishe rebbes who did not hold your rebbe in high esteem.
November 15, 2018 7:41 am at 7:41 am #1623894☕️coffee addictParticipant. It was precisely because he was a Torah leader that the Rebbe cared to strongly disagree with his words.
And then not to teach his chassidim to not curse Rav Shach or to never have an Avi ezri in any chabad house whatsoever
November 15, 2018 7:48 am at 7:48 am #1623896CSParticipantRegarding coverting post 1:
So does that mean we want everyone to become lubavitchers?
As sechel said, no. Or if you want the real truth, yes but no. There’s levels of the ideals of the Rebbes vision:
Step one: getting everyone to do Torah and mitzvos
Step two: everyone should learn Chassidus
And step 3: the ultimate (which sechel didn’t address) everyone, while remaining in their own kreiz, with their own unique minhagim and chumros etc, should unite under the Rebbe/ the Rebbe’s horaos and if this would happen for sure moshiach would be here, no doubt about it.
We saw this in the midbar: every shevet had their own Nassi of the shevet, and their own unique way of serving Hashem, and yet they were united under Moshe Rabbeinu.
Later on, in eretz Yisrael, they united under one shofet and later on, one king. And so we will by moshiachs times as well.
But this is not coverting – like steps one and two- its a choice that everyone makes for themselves without any coercion. Ain melech blo am. As has been the case with Torah leaders throughout history.
Also, another thing, each step has merit on its own. Shluchim feel fortunate that a yid does mitzvos even if he never becomes frum. Because the mitzvah itself has value. And there are many who stay that way. There are also many who go the full length bh to the next level and become frum. Yidden who are frum can take their Yiddishkeit to the next level by learning Chassidus. Stage three is something that we don’t expect, are not looking to do – if someone wants to take that upon themselves, then we respect them for it.
And in many ways the frum world has moved in this direction with regards to how they view fellow Jews who aren’t/ are less frum etc. But the point is its something that has to come from within and from a feeling of conviction that this is the right thing to do.
Whereas lhavdil elef havdolos, the non Jewish missionary way (I took a Jews from Judaism class once) is to a) take things out of context or b) mistranslate. Ie trickery and falsehoods. And for sure push things using coercion (whether physical as in past generations or fear mongering, pressure, withdrawal of services etc)
November 15, 2018 7:51 am at 7:51 am #1623905CSParticipant“Converting” 2 (final):
Now I just want to reemphasize what I mean and what I don’t mean with the above post.
Am Yisrael is one body and we need every limb or kreiz to be whole just as you need every limb for the entire body to be complete. Back in the day every shevet had their own nusach in davening. Today we need the balance of the frum zionists and the anti zionists. The Kollel learners and the shluchim. Litvaks and chassidim. Askenazim and sefardim. Am Yisrael is complete precisely with diversity and that is its beauty – shivim panim la Torah, and my previous post in no way negates that.
In fact within Chabad you have this diversity represented as well – you have sefardi Chabad women who wear tichels (and as long as they completely cover all hair, everyone applauds them for it. That’s their shitta and chumra.) You have Chabad sefardim who eat rice on pesach, and the askenazim who don’t. You have chassidim who have joined from other kreizin who keep their levush and long peyos with the Rebbe’s explicit encouragement. Etc.
So here’s what it boils down to: if it’s a specific horaah from the Rebbe that can only add and not contradict other minhagim or chumros, we can and do encourage it. Like saying chitas (which there are many stories of people who’ve had yeshuos from), joining the learning Rambam campaign (so all of klal Yisrael, men women and children, can unite through learning whichever track best suits them on the same Torah topic), the 12 pesukim etc.
If it’s something that can take away from other minhagim or chumros, even if by us it is a Chumra (like sheitel, no rice on pesach, peyos length etc.) then we say go by your minhagim and don’t drop them just because lubavitch does different.
To conclude: when moshiach comes, and techias hameisim happens, there will be the Avos, Moshe Rabbeinu himself and all the Tannaim, Amoraim and tzaddikim from all the generations. They will not be held in any less regard just because well unite under moshiach. They will still teach Torah and give guidance etc. Just they themselves will learn from moshiach because he will be the greatest of all. May it happen asap. Amen.
November 15, 2018 7:54 am at 7:54 am #1623898TomimTihyehParticipantNon Political: that’s exactly the deflection I was talking about. As regarding Sechel, I never said everyone needs to become Lubavitchers! All I said was that anyone who doesn’t ACKNOWLEDGE who the Rebbe is will be sorry when it’s too late, and that someone who doesn’t lear Chabad Chassidus is missing out (as I demonstrated, that is something the Rebbe himself confirmed!) Sechel cannot argue on either of these two points, but he is uncomfortable admitting them here!
And regarding Shlucha, so she gave someone the title Rav and said something vaguely complimentary about him, quite honestly I am shocked, but I can excuse her because a: she doesn’t remember the maarocho, and b: she’s a woman. Note that she also didn’t say (and of course Sechel stayed away from the whole question) that she respects this person. She also avoided the main question which was not about ES but about AK, because apparently even she knows what the Rebbe had to say about that……
Bottom line, as I said many times, my point here is that trying to foster good relationships based on Lubavitch having to buk zich and pretend that we have forgotten or abandoned our positions is a chillul Lubavitch.
November 15, 2018 7:58 am at 7:58 am #1623944CSParticipantSyag
“it would do no such thing. And if you were honest with yourself you would recall that the question that you prefer not to answer was to verify why it is *permissible* for YOU to hold that way. So nothing less than the explainations would be an appropriate answer.”
There is nothing not *permissible* in holding of the Rebbe to be the Nossi once I’ve shown he is acknowledged as a Gadol Byisrael. Lol. However if you’re truly interested in the topic please see the Sefer Bsod Siach (sorry I think I wrote the wrong title in a previous post – this is the correct one), which documents what other Gedoilim from many kreizin had to say about the Rebbe.
November 15, 2018 8:01 am at 8:01 am #1623960CSParticipantRso
“Please supply a source. And if you manage to do that please explain how you can then say that just as Rashbi was an exception so is someone else who I choose.
That’s like saying that since Chazal explained that cooking on Shabbos is forbidden I extend that and say that cooling things down is also forbidden.”
I think you’re misunderstanding the idea especially by the example you cite. But al rishon rishon: regarding Rashbi it is written that he was so beyond his colleagues that they couldn’t understand the extent of his greatness, they couldn’t even relate to him at all. Classical source. Probably gemara. Don’t remember offhand sorry. Maybe someone else would.
Here’s one i do know offhand: Regarding the Rambam it is written “MiMoshe ad Moshe lo kam kMoshe”. Hey. How can you say that if yeridas hadoros is a halacha or an ironclad rule?
Well it obviously isn’t. It’s not ideal and not something we strive to do like halacha (as in your example of hilchos shabbos). Rather it is a statement of observation of fact.
Fact: the term Gaon today and Gaon in the Gra / Alter Rebbe’s times mean completely different things due to yeridas hadoros.
But no one told each generation to lower their standard of learning and greatness. We strive to be the best we can. Just in an overall generational sense, each generation is lower.
November 15, 2018 8:12 am at 8:12 am #1623952CSParticipantNeville and rso I will get back to you with a list of classic Torah sources iyh of the different options of where moshiach can come from although some help from the more learned menfolk here would be nice.
For now I can refer you to R Aharon Soloveitchik who wrote a letter in response to those who denounced meshichistim as outside the pale of Torah, after gimmel tammuz, where he lists the classic sources himself, and said that being these sources exist, they are within Torah.
He was accused of being a meshichist himself because of this so he later clarified that while he is not a meshichist (as it isn’t conventional,) he was just explaining why meshichists are on Torah ground.
November 15, 2018 8:15 am at 8:15 am #1623967CSParticipantTo TT:
Let me clarify something. I admire your insistence in being who you are, no two faced etc as a pnimi should. However I strongly disagree with what you say, and this is NOT because of a lack of political correctness (btw you have still not given me one example of where I perverted or twisted or misrepresented the Rebbe), it is because what is inside you and therefore what you are expressing- are wrong.
To explain:
You brought me a Sheine maase which, while not being politically correct, emphasises the teirkeit of Chassidus.Now I have a (more well known) maase for you:
As children, the Raza was shorter than his younger brother the future Rebbe Rashab. Once he got annoyed, and pushed his younger brother into a pit. He then stood over the pit proudly pronouncing himself taller. The Rebbe Maharash, his father, called him in and proceeded to tell him that he could have made himself taller by standing on a chair. There is no need to push others down to promote yourself and it is not a good thing…
Now, I have learned Tanya, some of it Baal peh. In perek 12 if I’m not mistaken, on the last page, the Alter Rebbe tells us that if a bad thought enters your mind about another yid, even if you have a right to be upset (like Yosef with his brothers) you must immediately push it away bshtei yodayim and not dwell.on it as dwelling on it is an aveira.
I strive to live this way myself, as a chossid and turn negative thoughts about others into positivity by focusing on the good in them. Now of course if I think this way, kal vchomer my speech in general reflects that. Don’t get me wrong. I slip up sometimes and am not yet a beinoni. But I try. And my friends do the same.
Now do I know about the individuals you mention? Of course. Actually, regarding Rav shach, all I knew was that the Rebbe strongly disagreed with his words on abc. I didn’t know more until I came to this forum and heard people quoting different things in his name. I didn’t go asking all my lubavitch friends to fill me in as I didn’t want to delve in mud. I looked up a non partial factual covering of the story with no shmutz of epithets etc mixed in, just to educate myself on the topic.
The other individual came up when I learned about the history of tomchei tmimim in ww2. Other than that, I don’t think about either of them and I definitely don’t talk about them. This is the way of the Rebbe.
To be continued.
November 15, 2018 8:35 am at 8:35 am #1623970CSParticipantTo TT post 2:
Now look at your own statements on this forum (no I won’t bring every one just a sample) and note how they directly contradict what the Rebbe is all about. The Rebbe taught us to use positive language in general. Say not nice instead of saying bad etc.
You: “Ah snag is ah Snag.”
The Rebbe: Ah Yid is a Yid.
You: “they should all accept the Rebbe before its too late!! ”
The Rebbe: Lo yidach mimenu nidach
Etc.
If you would Koch in ahavas yisrael as the Rebbe stressed innumerable times instead of koching in not giving honour to this one or that one, your posts would look very very different.
I don’t expect you to learn from me – maybe learn from my role model in ahavas yisrael for fellow frum yidden who is a greater chossid than me or you: R Sholom Mordechai Rubashkin.
He gives due respect to other Gedoilei Yisrael. Does he think they reach anywhere near our Rebbe? No. Does he think and say outright that the Rebbe is Moshiach? Yes. Did he and his family react with a mixture of amusement and horror when other kreizin were wondering why he doesn’t become our Rebbe, and laughed it off as they don’t know what a Rebbe is? Yes. DOES THAT MEAN HE IS DISRESPECTFUL TO EVERY OTHER KREIZ? NO NO NO!
Even if they don’t reach our Rebbe they deserve due respect for their accomplishments in Torah and/ or avoda which are more than mine or yours.
I take offence to your use of the term snag. It smacks of derision and the Rebbe never used such a term. In fact, as such a learned lubavitcher, you should know which Rebbe it was, I think the Frierdiker Rebbe, that said that there are no true misnagdim today.
So keep on being a proud chossid. But how bout Koch in hafotzas hamaayonos and ahavas yisrael instead of drivel posts expressing derision and disrespect.
November 15, 2018 8:37 am at 8:37 am #1623976CSParticipantI see three of my posts entitled shluchim which addressed concerns of people here, and which I spent a while writing up etc have not been put through. I’m all for honest discussion if it’s honest. If some of my posts are not allowed through while others are in response to peoples requests, then it is impossible to have a fair open conversation as we have been on this thread, so I guess I won’t writeup any more responses until they are allowed through. Generally though I am impressed with the integrity here, of allowing all sides free reign to actually discuss the topics, and that’s why I submitted the coverting posts which should have been follow up, before waiting to see if the shluchim posts were allowed through. I hope this honesty continues
Approving your posts is not about having honest discussion. Not everything that is sent can be approved. Period. The fact that we take excessive amounts of time to sift through them, editing if possible instead of outright deleting should be something you are thankful for, not accusing. This particular “set” of posts is only being held back in it’s entirety due to consideration on our part for your time. We can easily hold back post 1 and send thru post 3 but have decided to see if they could remain in order. Your indignance is out of place.
November 15, 2018 9:17 am at 9:17 am #1623975TomimTihyehParticipantShlucha – I’m happy to see you admit that the ultimate madreiga is for everyone to be United under the Rebbe and following his horaos. This was a major point that I felt was being minimized.
And since we’re telling stories, let me add another one (kayodua from the Rebbe that lav davka motzoei Shabbos, lav Davka the Baal Shem Tov, and lav davka ashirus….): after Yud Tes Kislev, the Alter Rebbe issued a horoah to his chassidim that has milehazkir (as printed in Tanya), that they should not in any way Express to the misnagdim the fact that didon notzach. Some chassidim came to the Alter Rebbe and told him that Reb Shmuel Munkes was countermanding this directive and cheppering the misnagdim about the miraculous yeshuoh that foiled their evil 0lans. The Alter Rebbe called Reb Shmuel in and asked him why he was not obeying, and Reb Shmuel answered “if they would have done to your Rebbe what they did to mine, you would do like me!” Kal vachomer in thes cases where there was no horoah from the Rebbe that has milehazkir….
November 15, 2018 9:18 am at 9:18 am #1623988CSParticipantOK thank you for your time
November 15, 2018 9:18 am at 9:18 am #1623991CSParticipantYou’re right Its my fault. I should have waited to see if they were approved before the follow up ones. Ill.keep in mind next time
November 15, 2018 9:22 am at 9:22 am #1623992CSParticipantBut thanks for responding 🙂
November 15, 2018 9:24 am at 9:24 am #1623994Reb EliezerParticipantCS, Define to me what Chasiddus means? The chazal say איזהו חסיד המתחסד עם קונו who is a chosid who does right with his Creator, One who does לפנים משורת הדין one who does extra. King David says שמרה נפשי כי חסיד אני a chosid needs extra protection because he does more than required, so the border line becomes hazy and unclear. Also, כל הגדול מחבירו יצרו גדול ממנו the tzadik has a greater yetzer hara because as we mentioned he has a higher neshomo. Look at the mesilas yeshorim on shaar hachasidim.
November 15, 2018 9:26 am at 9:26 am #1624004☕️coffee addictParticipantRemember CS the mods are human and just like I don’t like to read whole long posts I don’t think the mods do either (I try to make my posts (and words) short and to the point (which has the downside of being misunderstood (understandably) and we say טשעה כבים שיחה so understandably your post will be way longer than mine but mods are people
November 15, 2018 9:47 am at 9:47 am #1623971Neville ChaimBerlinParticipantI doubt this thread has much more time. I think it’s terminally ill in its moderation status.
Whether TT is a Litvish troll or a real Chabadnik, he has proven everything I’ve been saying, as far as I’m concerned: the “civilized” Chabadniks here are just as bad as the “crazy Tzfatist” ones, they’ve just been trained how to talk. They are completely programmed beyond repair. They are unambiguously a personality cult. Look at the Lev Tahor article on the home page and read their practices like only learning the gemaras that further their rebbe’s cause and tell me it doesn’t sound familiar.
You Lubavitchers could have responded to TT by saying he’s just a troll, or by saying he doesn’t represent you. Whether or not you criticize his rhetoric is irrelevant at this point; you admitted that he draws all his material from mainstream Chabad views. We’ve now heard multiple people say that Chabad says this kind of stuff: icemelter, Burntface, litvishchosid, myself, and now TT with your confirmation. How many people can you claim and just a coincidence/lies? Are you still going to try to convince us you respect our rabbis, CS? Do you still think it’s going to work to derail the discussion away from TT by making a bunch of lengthy “look how great the Rebbe was” posts? You know nobody reads those, right?
On the home page they let a guy or two who were Lev Tahor supporters post, which I guess makes sense as long as they weren’t obscene. But, would you let them come here and make a bunch of pro-Lev Tahor threads? I’m starting to fail to see how this is even any different.
November 15, 2018 10:09 am at 10:09 am #1624046Neville ChaimBerlinParticipantCS: Don’t assume you’re being singled out for moderation. The mods came down hard on litvishchossid in the past for going too far in his critiques, and they just mod’d out one of my posts that was probably too anti-Chabad (I suspected it would be deleted and I bare no ill will against the mods for this). ???
Two points that I do think they’ll allow through: 1 this thread should/will probably be closed soon. 2, CS and Sechel cannot back peddle now. As Syag and others pointed out, you guys confirmed beyond all doubt that the stuff TT is saying is regularly said in Chabad circles. I recommend people keep this thread handy for references to their true colors for the future when CS tries to start new “kind-spirited, civilized” discussions assuming they’re going to allow them to keep doing this.
November 15, 2018 10:10 am at 10:10 am #1624058Reb EliezerParticipantcoffee addict, someone put out a sign on the door of his store כלב קשר לפתח when he wanted to say חלב כשר לפסח so people avoided the store. You have mispelled תשעה and קוים.
November 15, 2018 10:58 am at 10:58 am #1624133☕️coffee addictParticipantLaskern,
לולרותפל
November 15, 2018 10:58 am at 10:58 am #1624131TomimTihyehParticipantLaskern, you misspelled קבין again
November 15, 2018 10:58 am at 10:58 am #1624130samthenylicParticipantGood night! Enough SHTUS already. We all know where we are in this world.
This thread is NOT marbe k’vod Shamayim – perhaps the opposite?
DAYENUNovember 15, 2018 10:59 am at 10:59 am #1624112Reb EliezerParticipantcoffee addict, I appologize for קב which is correct.
November 15, 2018 11:23 am at 11:23 am #1624162Reb EliezerParticipantSome one asked once why we need a ת, ס, ש when they all sound the same? He was answered then how would you write כסילים מתי תשכילו using all the letters and retorting to him with the meaning that he is a fool.
November 15, 2018 11:49 am at 11:49 am #1624179samthenylicParticipantYes! When the guest knocks on the door, he knocks “b’sever ponim yofos”
-sever with a “SIN”.
When the ba’al habayis opens the door, he does “b’sever ponim yofos” –
sever with a “SAMECH”.November 15, 2018 12:37 pm at 12:37 pm #1624124CSParticipantNp:
“You know that it is not unique to Tzaddikim from the Parsha in Chumash re: Navi Sheker. The point is that EVEN a navi sheker can affect miracles and know hidden things. One does not have to intentionally seek to use the s”a, one can be misled (and himself not even realize it). Now, I’m NOT saying that the last Lubavitcher Rebbe was misled in this way. What I am saying is that since such abilities are not unique to Tzadikim they cannot be used as a criteria.
The above quote from the first Lubavitcher Rebbe does not contradict this at all. The fact that Hashem increases emuna in this world by revealing His abilities through the tzadikim and the miracles they do has nothing to do with what criteria ought to be used for accepting them as Tzadikim in the first place.”
Np by your reasoning, Eliyahu hanavi and har hacarmel would have never happened. We have a clear mitzva of listening to our chachamim which was applied then (source Rambam Sefer hamitzvos:)
If someone is known to you to be a tzadik, then you follow everything he says, EVEN IF he tells you to temporarily stop doing a mitzvah.
The only exception to this rule is if he tells you a mitzvah is permanently cancelled or if he tells you to serve another god cvs. But these are exceptions to the rule. The rule is as above.
November 15, 2018 12:38 pm at 12:38 pm #1624126CSParticipantNp
“The determination is not made based on the number of adherents. For example, the Karaites outnumbered traditional Yidden in many communities for a not insignificant period of time. The Rambam controversy was resolved in large part due to the Rambans involvement and R’ Yona’s retraction. It is true that ultimately there is historical closure but it often takes multiple generations to happen and is therefore not a useful criteria.”Note that I wrote Torah true yidden. Your rebuttal about the karaim is like me looking to the reform or even other religions.
November 15, 2018 12:39 pm at 12:39 pm #1624128CSParticipantNp
“Since we regular people have no way of knowing who can actually do this I don’t see how this can be a criteria.”Like the Rambam I posted – those who are trusted as tzaddikim by us (by noting their behaviour etc) can be trusted to make these decisions as well.
November 15, 2018 12:39 pm at 12:39 pm #1624129CSParticipantNp:
“You: But it is done because it resonates with the neshama…
Everyone over the age of 15 has had experiences with things resonating with them and later realizing that they were objectively 100% wrong. So that criteria is not reliable either.”
This is of course subjective but I am over 15 and haven’t felt anything inappropriate “resonate” neshama wise that is against Torah. Found a cool idea? Maybe. But not something that deeply resonates
November 15, 2018 12:40 pm at 12:40 pm #1624134🍫Syag LchochmaParticipant“the Alter Rebbe tells us that if a bad thought enters your mind about another yid, even if you have a right to be upset (like Yosef with his brothers) you must immediately push it away bshtei yodayim and not dwell.on it as dwelling on it is an aveira.”
So it seems according to the alter rebbe the rebbe was committing an aveira with regard to Rav Shach and Rav Kotler.
November 15, 2018 12:40 pm at 12:40 pm #1624135CSParticipantRso regarding ahavas yisrael it means two things and does not mean one thing:
It does mean
1) Loving and caring for every Jew unconditionally in thought speech and action and without an agenda or expecting something back (hosting someone not because you want to make them frum necessarily or any other agenda but simply because they’re Jewish)2) it means caring for their best (you don’t encourage someone to take physical or spiritual poison out of love, you encourage them to be healthy.)
It does NOT mean you agree with everything they say or even hold back from denouncing their positions if you have a solid base and reason to do so
November 15, 2018 12:43 pm at 12:43 pm #1624154Sechel HaYasharParticipantNeville,
I take issue with your words. I have never defended TTs rhetoric, nor claimed that it has its roots in mainstream Chabad thought.
For the fourth time:
I said that certain things he knows show a degree of familiarity with Chabad. Those were:
1. His story about a certain Godol, which isn’t widely known outside Chabad.
2. His use of terminology such as “Kasheh of Tomchei Tmimim”.
If I start pretending to be from Lakewood, and I use some of their lingo, that would only prove that I have some familiarity with them, and if someone points out that I know the lingo, he is in no way defending any of what I said.Regarding the term Shofech Domim that TT used, whilst in Lubavitch that hasn’t been used for anyone, I’ve heard it said about certain Gedolim right here on YWN forums and comments. ואין פוצה פה ומצפצף.
November 15, 2018 12:45 pm at 12:45 pm #1624163🍫Syag LchochmaParticipantDon’t say your Rebbe loves EVERY yid and then list exceptions. If its emes than EVERY means EVERY. If there are exceptions, those words are Sheker.
November 15, 2018 12:45 pm at 12:45 pm #1624168Sechel HaYasharParticipant“This thread is NOT marbe k’vod Shamayim – perhaps the opposite?
DAYENU”After you make sure to tell everyone how bad Chabad is, it’s time to shut down the conversation.
November 15, 2018 12:47 pm at 12:47 pm #1624201CSParticipantCoffee addict Yeah I try but in delicate topics I don’t want to be misunderstood.
November 15, 2018 12:48 pm at 12:48 pm #1624199CSParticipantLaskern:
“CS, Define to me what Chasiddus means? The chazal say איזהו חסיד המתחסד עם קונו who is a chosid who does right with his Creator, One who does לפנים משורת הדין one who does extra. King David says שמרה נפשי כי חסיד אני a chosid needs extra protection because he does more than required, so the border line becomes hazy and unclear. Also, כל הגדול מחבירו יצרו גדול ממנו the tzadik has a greater yetzer hara because as we mentioned he has a higher neshomo. Look at the mesilas yeshorim on shaar hachasidim.”You mean chossid or chassidus? You are correct that the correct usage of the term chossid would be akin to the use of tzadik gamur, see Tanya perek 10.
However I meant it colloquially as it is used within Chabad in two ways. One is more like talmid, as in chossid of the Rebbe. But it also means someone who constantly strives to work on himself in Avodas Hashem. Not every lubavitcher would be called a chossid. A chossid we call someone who we respect for constantly working and growing etc or someone who has attained significant levels in Avodas Hashem.
Chassidus is what the Rebbeim taught (and some Rebbeim outside lubavitch as well as has been noted) based on pnimius HaTorah. That’s the short of it. For a longer definition of what Chassidus is let me know if you want me to expound.
November 15, 2018 12:50 pm at 12:50 pm #1624218Reb EliezerParticipantsamthenylic – please explain yourself, what is the difference, according to the dictionary they both mean hope? Tesek kerem hogy magyaraza meg amit mondott.
November 15, 2018 2:49 pm at 2:49 pm #1623887CSParticipantAs promised: (shluchim post 1)
OK I’ll get to the follow up and maybe others can help as well. But first, the post I promised iyh:
Sometime back (sorry too long to look for exact quote),
Rso, in the midst of all his complaints about lubavitch, said that he has been by shluchim on five continents and was very impressed by the work they do, and for sure that’s the Rebbe’s zechus, and he wishes Chabad would just stick to that instead of thinking of their Rebbe as the apex of all.So I wanted to compliment him for admitting that as it didn’t help his case, but I also wanted to wait for the right moment to address it.
Others chimed in later on with the same idea saying Chabad should stick to mekareving not yet frum Yidden, but not go on shlichus to frum places.
I want to explain to you that ha bha talya (both are contingent on each other.)
To explain:
The Rebbe had a vision. A crazy vision. And the only reason why those shluchim are there for you in Thailand and Africa is because they bought into that vision. Otherwise they wouldn’t be there at all.
What was the vision?
When the Rebbe became Rebbe, he told us that our job is to make Geula happen. The Rebbe, being the Nassi of our generation (btw for those who were asking, see the book siach sod which documents the relationship of Gedoilei Yisrael with the Rebbe. Numerous quotes and stories etc.), saw it as his responsibility to make it happen by reaching as many yidden as possible and creating a teshuva movement (yidden should poshut keep Torah and mitzvos), and that Chassidus should be learned by everyone (as moshiach told the Baal Shem Tov was needed for him to come.)
This was the plan and the Rebbe sent out shluchim to both ends.
Tbc
November 15, 2018 3:15 pm at 3:15 pm #1623891CSParticipantShluchim post 2:
Now, the reason why shluchim are so successful in mekareving others is not because they are such great PR people that they manage to package Yiddishkeit better than non Torah movements. In fact the early shluchim in some cases didn’t even know the language, much less culture, of the countries they arrived to.
The simple reason why the Rebbe was able to make an incredible transformation, and today, Chabad in many cases speaks to the media in behalf of the local Jews instead of non Torah movements, and Reform temples are closing down as Chabad expands in the same neighborhoods etc which is really crazy if you think about it, is purely because Yiddishkeit resonates. Doing a mitzvah resonates with the Neshama. That’s what brings them. Not the fancy thrills. They have more of that at their not frum jcc.
But no shliach tries to mekarev people by forcing them, (telling them they’ll go to gehennom etc.) They just provide the opportunities to connect to Hashem through doing Torah and mitzvos with joy, and it resonates deep within.
Same with the shluchim (not necessarily called by that title, in fact in many cases their institutions are not even called Chabad or lubavitch because theyre not pushing becoming Chabad, they’re their to teach chassidus) who go to frum areas.
There’s no force (if not you won’t be ready for moshiach etc) used to get people to learn Chassidus. They simply offer the opportunity, and the neshama of Torah resonates within the neshama of the yid.
November 15, 2018 3:15 pm at 3:15 pm #1623893CSParticipantShluchim post 3 (final):
Now some of you have directly benefitted from shluchim and appreciate that, but didn’t give it much thought and this thread has been an eye opener (at your request remember.)
So the next time a shliach helps you out, or you see him representing yidden in the news etc. give it a good thought.
These shluchim are out there, many times in difficult situations and lack of regular frum amenities, solely because they have bought into the Rebbe’s vision of bringing moshiach with no Jew left behind. Ie due to the Rebbe’s ahavas yisrael for every Jew.
Think about the wonder you see before you:
No other group sends out their best to help other groups of yidden. Even more importantly, no other group sends out shluchim. And we all know why: because no one else wants to risk the achrayus of a young couple sent in the middle of nowhere lowering their standards or discarding Yiddishkeit altogether cvs.
Yet, by the same logic, the Rebbe’s plan should have been a disaster. 60% of shluchim should have become not frum cvs and the whole thing should have been doomed to begin with.
Yet here we have have today third and even fourth generation (children) shluchim who are as committed to Yiddishkeit as ever, and are in many cases, even more shtark than their peers, even the children.
And the greatest wonder of all: 2/3 of shluchim today have gone out AFTER gimmel tammuz, whereas there is still not a living Gadol from another kreiz who has taken on the achrayus to send shluchim.
Is it because lubavitchers are innately more solid with their Yiddishkeit than other yidden?
Even if chassidus provides extra strength to those that study it, there are other groups of chassidim and even not chassidim who study Chassidus, and yet those groups still don’t go on shlichus. It’s just shows who the Rebbe is.
November 15, 2018 3:15 pm at 3:15 pm #1624237CSParticipantNeville:
“CS: Don’t assume you’re being singled out for moderation. The mods came down hard on litvishchossid in the past for going too far in his critiques, and they just mod’d out one of my posts that was probably too anti-Chabad (I suspected it would be deleted and I bare no ill will against the mods for this). ???Two points that I do think they’ll allow through: 1 this thread should/will probably be closed soon. 2, CS and Sechel cannot back peddle now. As Syag and others pointed out, you guys confirmed beyond all doubt that the stuff TT is saying is regularly said in Chabad circles. I recommend people keep this thread handy for references to their true colors for the future when CS tries to start new “kind-spirited, civilized” discussions assuming they’re going to allow them to keep doing this.”
Firstly, I respect the mods. And I thank them now and then. I think they do a great job. (Although still looking forward to seeing those posts ;)). Secondly your post wasnt as bad as you portrayed it. Thirdly allow me to remind you once again that I started this discussion with zero intention of mentioning the Rebbe and other gedolim etc. Just wanted to discuss how the world is getting to a state of Geula. It was you and rso with your constant nudging and don’t skirt the topic posts that got us here. If you want an answer you’ll get a full one. Lol I think your takeaway for future reference souls be don’t ask a question or demand an answer if you don’t really want it.
November 15, 2018 3:15 pm at 3:15 pm #1624238CSParticipantSyag see my post above regarding ahavas yisrael
November 15, 2018 3:15 pm at 3:15 pm #1624241samthenylicParticipantSever with a SIN is hope like “Einei chol elecha YESABERU”
Sever with SAMECH is an expression of “Mekabel es kol odom B’SEVER ponim yofos”
Meg ertettem?November 15, 2018 3:15 pm at 3:15 pm #1624246TomimTihyehParticipantLaskern – sever with a sin means hope. Sever with a samech, in conjunction with the word ponim, means expression, as in the Targum in this week’s parsha on roieh onoichi es penei avichem – chazei ano yos sevar apei avuchoin
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