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Do people actually listen to the freezer rules of BMG? Do the rabbis check if people are going on dates before the freezer is unlocked? Do they take attendance during night seder like it’s 9th grade? this isn’t a troll post.
How will someone get engaged if he breaks the freezer rule and finds his bashert?
As far as I am aware, the freezer rule is mostly kept.
Although, I heard the hanhala one put up a sign on the bulletin board a few weeks before tu bshvat that said ???? ???? ???? ????? ???? ???? ????
I have heard of the freezer concept before, but for those of us who don’t know, what is the freezer rules? Just no shidduch dating? Or some other rules as well.
It’s very complicated lol…
Pardon my ignorance, but what does freezer mean?
I only date boys in the frumzer. Not the freiser.
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Noun
A refrigerated compartment, cabinet, or room for preserving food at low temperatures.
A device for making frozen desserts such as ice cream or sherbet.
Synonyms
refrigerator – cooler
Its a yeshivish thing…
my bro sed that u x rlly beat the system buuut arnd 2 weeks be4 u cud start cuz ull never get engaged after only 2 weeks..
ThePurpleone
“never get engaged after only 2 weeks” Real words!
Btw nt tru. Mny yshvsh ppl gt engezd aftur 2 wiks.
umm not the guys my sis dates from BMG
lakewhut – Like anything in Lakewood – you can only get in trouble if they catch you.
How can they catch you?
1. S/o sees you & snitches.
2. You get engaged before your freezer ends.
In the second instance it’s worth the chance -as long as you don’t plan on going to Kollel in BMG.
Get in trouble? Seriously?
Cmon.
Loca
It probably depends how much tuition you pay.
Tuition to BMG?
Loca
They charge a hefty sum.
loca -“Get in trouble? Seriously?”
Like I said -if you aren’t going to their Kollel -then do what you want. But if it’s obvious that you broke their rules and want to sit in their Kollel – you can forget about ever getting a Kollel check.
Lakewhut, So if somebody breaks the rules he won’t get a kollel check? Makes sense.
There. Fixed.
If I remember correctly from my younger years, if you got caught you were thrown out of the dorm.
all the shadchans dont rlly redt if they know ur still in the freezer..
loca-
they want the guys to learn undisturbed for a little while (few months..) once they start dating they go out a loot and havta travel into new york and takes a ton of hours away from seder..
BMG makes the rules and if you want to stay there, you have to obey their rules
If you are in middle of dating before you enter BMG you are allowed to continue with that girl.
poster-
and only that girl.. cant date anymore girls.. and u havta hand in a paper w her initials..
Of course! 100%! Otherwise, they would get kicked out!
What is BMG’s official reason for having the freezer? Is it so that the bochorim should fully concentrate on the learning (if so, then why only 6 months?) or is it so that bochorim shouldn’t enroll in BMG mainly because they want a better shidduch?
It makes perfect sense to have a settling in period before getting completely distracted with shidduchim. Other yeshivas have similar policies for college.
selfish- both!! u hit the nail on da head!! boing!! 😉
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