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here’s to realizing you’re missed, if there’s anything I can do to help I’m here.
you bring out thought provoking points and are a valuable asset to the CR
Syag isn’t always here. He’s one of those posters that doesn’t post daily. Did he say he was leaving?
He?
Coffee Addict, sometimes people don’t follow all the posts and miss certain things that were said and as a result end up misunderstanding the context of some posts that were said in response to other posts. I know that you mean well, but I have been really hurt by some of your posts the past couple of days. I realize that your posts were coming out of a sincere interest to help and were a result of your misunderstanding certain posts, but I still was very hurt by it. It is very easy to inadvertently hurt someone when you make assumptions, and don’t pay attention to what people were responding to. I know that you are a sincere person who means well and would want to know if he hurt someone; that is why I am letting you know.
edited. Too much information about grievances against specific posters that leaves little room for doubt about whom you are speaking is a serious halachik issue
l.u. It’s painful for all of us to read arguments and insults, I don’t think we make judgements who is right or wrong ( anyway I dont) ,but if a member goes missing it’s double the pain . I thought about the argument along time and kept on starting and deleting my posts couldn’t find the right words to make you both freinds again.
We know both of you are hurt and we value your feeling. Shulem is more worth then anything.
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Too much information about grievances against specific posters that leaves little room for doubt about whom you are speaking is a serious halachik issue
So the question of saying negative things about
a poster has been paskened, and it’s a problem?
l.u. Hope your not hurt from my posts ,I do have to add as i posted it in another thread that I am impressed with your posts and thats true.
edited. Too much information about grievances against specific posters that leaves little room for doubt about whom you are speaking is a serious halachik issue
Moderators: I appreciate your sensitivity, and your taking the time to explain the deletion. I think leaving this comment here may be rechilus, so it should probably be deleted.
thank you so much coffee for noticing and caring. Your insight is unmatched. But as you can see by the responses, people not embarrassed to throw darts even at someone who isn’t posting, well i guess that pretty much speaks for itself. i have to say i didnt expect such comments. i can’t say im surprised but i can say i am disappointed. it makes me wonder about the “lishma” of the ’cause’.
And for those who popped up on the other thread unafraid to throw a jab, don’t worry, you are only anonymous to bnei adom.
Baruch Hashem I receive private emails and private comments from people with clarity, who feel no need to publicly step on one head to pat another.
I don’t expect anyone, besides those who already do, to understand things they cannot see, but I am disappointed at the extremes several people will go to to insist that if they don’t see it, than it must not be there.
In a place where there is gaavah, the shechina cannot rest.
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