according to the rambam, it’s better to support poor people in Eretz HaKodesh than in golus. Their Torah learning (in E”Y) is more holy and precious to Hashem.
kvodhatorah -I heard from a Shiur (taped) by Rabbi Krohn that it’s a Chiyuv to support your family/relatives before Yeshivos because of Oomebesorcah Lo Tisalem!
“hockaroundtheclock -You’re relatives don’t honor you at dinners, or give you plaques.”