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    Wings or poppers? Ch’V, just joking. These parties are rampant in the frum community, seemingly a open violation if darkei ha’emori. Should we just be happy that its not worse things? (This is all ignoring the mingling of the genders that sometimes goes on by these parties.)

    #1136326
    TheGoq
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    It’s ok as long as the wings don’t touch the poppers.

    #1136327
    Rema711
    Member

    YYBC we live in dark times

    #1136328
    ubiquitin
    Participant

    Genders can mingle at any party (Chasunah Purim etc) Dont even need a party can be at shul.

    Its not a violation of darkei ha’emori.

    Oh and personally poppers.

    #1136329
    simcha613
    Participant

    Is a Super Bowl party really any more Darchei Emori than going to Yankee Stadium to watch a ball game?

    #1136330
    gavra_at_work
    Participant

    seemingly a open violation if darkei ha’emori.

    What is your halachic basis? I’d like to hear this one. The Emori also breathed and ate, so are those darkei ha’emori as well?

    #1136331
    Rema711
    Member

    ubiquitin no it is forbidden for the two genders to intermingle with each other, it says so according to Halacha

    #1136332
    ☕️coffee addict
    Participant

    both (wings and poppers)

    we’re doing it as a shvach v’hodah because 100 years ago the goyim would be killing us, instead of the other team

    and anyways bob kraft is a jew that supports jewish causes

    #1136333
    TheGoq
    Participant

    Congrats CA on your teams win.

    #1136334
    Rema711
    Member

    coffee addict so is he a frum yid

    #1136335
    flatbusher
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    SUperbowl parties are just an excuse for gluttony, and many kosher establishments are more than happy to comply

    #1136336
    the plumber
    Member

    Yybc

    Are you watching the superbowl?

    If yes, that is definately more darkei emori than eating food while you do it.

    At least you can say “i wanted an excuse to fress”

    #1136337
    Rema711
    Member

    the plumber all football is, beefy guys catching a ball

    #1136338

    I didn’t attend a superbowl party, watch the game, or watch the commercials. And I don’t need an excuse to fress.

    #1136339

    And no one said going to the Yankee game is muttar.

    #1136340
    ☕️coffee addict
    Participant

    goq,

    thank you! it was a great game, i wouldn’t be surprised if moshiach coming will be the same feeling

    rema,

    actually he is otd (his parents were frum) however he is a big supporter of israel (i know, he’s built stadiums) and he’s actually donated money to providence’s day school

    #1136341
    Sam2
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    Rema: When ubiquitin said “can” he didn’t mean “Muttar”, he meant that it often happens.

    And please, learn something before you call anything Darkei Ha’Emori. It needs some superstition involved to be Darkei HaEmori. There’s no superstition in watching athletic competition. Chukas Akum we can talk about. Certainly no Darchei Emori.

    #1136342
    🍫Syag Lchochma
    Participant

    CA – that comment didn’t really come from you, did it? It really makes me uncomfortable . . .

    #1136343
    simcha613
    Participant

    yybc- “And no one said going to the Yankee game is muttar. ” Who said it was assur?

    #1136344

    I think Reb Moshe, but I’m not sure. (I know someone,I just forgot the name.) I’m gonna need some help on this one.

    #1136345
    ☕️coffee addict
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    syag,

    i was waiting for someone to be in disbelief 😉

    to explain myself (which is what you’re looking for) before moshiach comes we’re going to be surrounded and we will say “where is our yeshuah going to come from” and Hashem will answer “i will be the one to save you” so l’havdil elef alfei havdalos was this game, the seahawks were on the one yard line with less than a minute to go, and the yeshuah came from the least expected place of all, a no namer

    #1136346
    Rema711
    Member

    coffee addict in essence the moshiach will be an underdog

    #1136347
    ubiquitin
    Participant

    yayin R’ Moshe says YD 1 11 Specificaly that it is not Ubechukosehem lo seleichi (He doesnt mention darche Emori as that is irrelevant to the subject at hand) He does say that it is Bitul Torah. Is that what you meant?

    #1136348
    Rema711
    Member

    ubiquitin yes exactly it is bittal torah watching football

    #1136349
    DaMoshe
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    Rema, if you spent the night posting here on the CR, is that the same bittul Torah as watching the Super Bowl?

    #1136350
    ubiquitin
    Participant

    Rema, more so than arguing about it?

    #1136351
    Sam Klein
    Participant

    is this what is on a torah yids top agenda to know? is the superbowl topic belong in a torah yids home?

    what will our teire children be by the time they grow up if this is what their parents are talking about as their top priority?

    Where does the border stop? where is the fence? when is the time for each of us to ask ourselves, will this (any topic) affect the chinuch & upbringing of my children?

    #1136352
    TheGoq
    Participant

    But Moshiach will not be a cheater.

    #1136353
    ☕️coffee addict
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    actually goq,

    did you hear the new report?

    #1136354
    TheGoq
    Participant

    No CA i did not whats the latest lie??

    #1136355
    ☕️coffee addict
    Participant

    oh and btw the guy who went in the bathroom with the footballs was probably GOING TO THE BATHROOM

    #1136357
    ☕️coffee addict
    Participant

    does that mean that the first report was a lie? :p

    #1136358
    TheGoq
    Participant

    Don’t ask don’t tell.

    #1136359
    zahavasdad
    Participant

    It has become to the point where everything is Torah or Bittel Torah. Not everyone can learn for every free moment of their day. Many people need breaks, they need to get out of the Beis Medrash and have their minds on something else (If you dont feel this way I am not talking to you, but many people do feel this way) A break can be a healthy activity

    #1136360
    ☕️coffee addict
    Participant

    goq,

    what does that mean?

    #1136361
    the plumber
    Member

    Rema

    Being into sports is a much better outlet than alot of other outlets in the world. There is no need to go listing them.

    Just because YOU dont see the fun in following sports doesnt mean you should bash others for doing so.

    I hope, for your sake(and that of your kids), that they follow sports

    #1136363
    Sam2
    Participant

    Sam Klein reminds me of a Rebbe who once pushed a friend of mine off the Derech.

    The Rebbe gave a fiery Shmuess to his Yeshiva about watching the Super Bowl and one of the things he said was that Hashem is watching what you are going to do during the Super Bowl and judging you. One of the examples he gave was something like “You know your uncle with cancer? If you stay and learn he’ll be fine. But if you watch the game…” My friend’s uncle was diagnosed with an advanced cancer that March and died two weeks later. To this day, I think that friend still fears he killed his uncle by watching the Super Bowl.

    #1136365
    Rema711
    Member

    Sam2 he did, it is bittal torah watching a Super Bowl game, for that matter watching any football game is bittal torah

    #1136366

    This post is not discussing if the superbowl is good or bad, its discussing if its better or worse. So the real question is a list of kosher outlets. No one is going to say marijuana is okay because its better than heroin. However, if there was a need, for whatever reason, for a mind altering drug, marijuana would be a better choice. The question is if there us a need and if there are better choices.

    #1136367
    ☕️coffee addict
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    im going to step in over here

    any non learning is called bittul torah, the question is it l’toeles or not, like loshon hara

    #1136368
    WolfishMusings
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    Didn’t watch any of the Superbowl or go to a party. However, no mitzvah points for me. I just don’t have any real interest in football.

    The Wolf

    #1136369
    Rema711
    Member

    YYBC both are bad there is no argument here

    #1136370
    the plumber
    Member

    Yybc

    What outlets do your teenage boys have?

    Do they read kosher novels all day?

    Do they play sports? (Which is just throwing a ball around according to rema)

    Do they play in the sandbox?

    What are they supposed to do all day?

    #1136375
    anon1m0us
    Participant

    All i know was the wings were great and the salsa was awesome!

    #1136376
    Rema711
    Member

    the plumber u are very humorous sometimes, I really have to hand it to u

    #1136377
    Hashemisreading
    Participant

    Bump

    #1136378
    Vienna
    Member

    Is it wrong to root against a team? I’m rooting against the broncos, not for the panthers, and it feels weird.

    #1136379
    Uncle Ben
    Participant

    Why the bump? Is the superbowl coming up?

    #1136380
    ☕️coffee addict
    Participant

    Sorry,

    Not watching it this year

    #1136381
    TheGoq
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    Cmon ca you were gifted with a superbowl win last year sorry your deflato boy lost kinda sorta not.

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