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    popa_bar_abba
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    I was invited by a nice fellow on my block to have a family sunday brunch with them. They really are nice neighbors, and have such a nice family, and I bet I would enjoy sunday brunch.

    Should I go?

    #1037497
    Joseph
    Participant

    Do you trust their kashrus?

    #1037498
    👑RebYidd23
    Participant

    Yes. If you’re not making this up, you should go. On Tuesday.

    #1037499
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    They offered to take out the food from a kosher place, just for me. I don’t think they usually keep kosher, because they are christians.

    #1037500
    Randomex
    Member

    I attempted to share this with my parents, and had to explain the joke…

    #1037501
    Joseph
    Participant

    If the joke is a comparison to yesterday’s project it is no joke. One is sharing truth and the other falsity. Even if both think they have the truth, we do and they don’t.

    #1037502
    showjoe
    Participant

    lior: +1

    #1037503
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    Lior: I’m not sure I get it. What does that have to do with this?

    #1037504
    Joseph
    Participant

    I’ve recently read the letzonei hador mocking yesterday’s project with comparisons and making equivalency to inviting frum Jews to a mechallel Shabbos weekend to share the joy of being able to do whatever one wants one weekend as a response to the “missionary nature” of this project. Apologies for being jaded and viewing with a critical eye something that possibly sounded a bit along those lines.

    #1037505
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    Right. So I wasn’t as much making fun as I was demonstrating what it looks like from the outside.

    #1037506

    I imagine that it looks that way to cynical outsiders, but in reality it’s quite different, not just because we’re right and they’re wrong.

    Many Jews are not antagonistic towards Yiddishkeit, they were just not exposed to it very much. Although we would love to attract even antagonistic Jews, that’s not very realistic, so I think the goal was to attract the first group.

    However,an invitation to a frum Jew to a chofshi weekend, or a Sunday Christian brunch, is an invitation to an antagonistic group or person (not that we’re antagonistic to non frum or non Jewsh people, but we are antagonistic to the ideas they’re trying to convert us to).

    #1037507
    Avram in MD
    Participant

    popa_bar_abba,

    I was demonstrating what it looks like from the outside.

    Aside from Lior’s response, which I think we all would agree with, I see another difference between Christian proselytizing efforts and kiruv efforts.

    Kiruv is not deceptive. A Jew is invited to a Shabbos meal, or given the opportunity to perform a mitzvah. Discussions about Jewish belief are conducted honestly, without attempting to cloak our beliefs as something they are not.

    Christian missionaries, however, dress up their efforts to look Jewish. They wear kippas and say Hebrew words. Elements of their beliefs that directly conflict with Judaism are minimized or cloaked.

    If you told me that a shul put up a huge sign saying, “BEST TAILGATING PARTY EVER! COME INSIDE FOR SOME GREAT COLLEGE FOOTBALL!” and a non-frum Jew walks in to see a kehilla davening while wearing football jerseys, pads, and helmets (with perhaps the rav saying, “psukei d’zimra, shacharis, leining, mussaf – best four quarters ever!”) then I might agree with you.

    #1037508
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    Well in my example they just invited me for a family sunday brunch and they don’t even have yarlmukes or know any hebrew words.

    Just latin words.

    #1037509

    There’s a big difference between inter-proselytizing and intra-proselytizing. Why should a Jew be offended by another Jew wanting to draw him into Yiddishkeit? But a Christian wanting to draw a Jew into Christianity…well, any fool can see that’s a completely different story.

    #1037510
    zahavasdad
    Participant

    Mocking and Humor have been practiced by jews foever, At weddings there were “Fools” who were basically clowns who routinely mocked various jews themes and even the Rabbi

    They would often give “Shiurim” mocking the Rabbi and it was taken for what it was.

    “Purim Torah” has also been done for a long time.

    I dont know why people get so up in arms lately about these things, It was a joke and take it as such

    #1037511
    👑RebYidd23
    Participant

    Who says they’re trying to bring a Jew into Christianity? Maybe they’re just trying to be neighborly. It’s normal to invite neighbors over for Sunday brunch.

    #1037512
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    So it was very nice. They were just nice and neighborly, and they sang nice carols like “this day is respected from all days for on this day the Rock of the World Sunday’ed”, and “Lord I desire the pleasantness of Sunday”, and some others.

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