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How’do you diplomatically tell parents of 2 misbehaving and destructive young boys that their kids are disrupting our davening when they’re brought to shul? They also misbehave in social settings, but the parents ignore it. Say something, or stay quiet and suffer?
How old are the boys roughly?
Tell them, but only do it during the time that they’re doing something wrong!
Speak to the Rav, its his shul let him control the decorum.
18 and 21
“but the parents ignore it” ding ding ding ding they do not care I’ve seen a lot of children behaving badly in public situations while the parent is shmoozing or whatever they just learn to tune it out.
Also
http://www.theyeshivaworld.com/coffeeroom/topic/what-happens-after-they-leave-for-shul-friday-night
I have a better question,
How do you tell sometimes children that their parents are misbehaving in shul and in social settings?
This is probably the more common problem
Never lump “parents” together. One of them may agree with you.
“but the parents ignore it” ding ding ding ding they do not care I’ve seen a lot of children behaving badly in public situations while the parent is shmoozing or whatever they just learn to tune it out.”
What can you expect from kids when their parents set such a fine example for them? I would talk to the Rov first and have him or maybe the Shul President handle this.
sorry to say , but at twenty and twenty one years old, the parents listen to them
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