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  • #594420

    Just because this is a jewish website does that make it mutar to talk to the opposite gender??

    #731967
    Baruch Bohm
    Participant

    you don’t even know what gender you are talking to, how is this even a ???????????

    #731968
    popa_bar_abba
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    Just because this is a jewish website does that make it mutar to talk to the opposite gender??

    No, of course not. It is only because it is a frum website.

    #731969
    twiggy
    Member

    its not like its a place where relationships are made. its just a bunch of people chatting about……

    #731970
    watermelon
    Member

    As long as the content remains appropriate,which it is 99% of the time…and people honestly don’t know each other..

    #731971
    ItcheSrulik
    Member

    Let’s just watch this one…

    #731972
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant
    #731973
    watermelon
    Member

    popa that’s EXACTLY the 1% I meant!

    #731976
    real-brisker
    Member

    Bed Stuy – That makes no sense!

    #731978
    Nonsense
    Member

    In ‘Der Heim’ they used pigeons when texting to the opposite gender.

    #731979
    dunno
    Member

    And here we go again…

    #731980
    oomis
    Participant

    Well, if this is a question for you, what are you doing here?

    #731981
    watermelon
    Member

    Ok,I am the New Mechitzah!(A watermelon satisfies all the sheet’os)

    #731982

    I personally think its fine cuz

    A don’t know who it is

    B Can’t find out any personal info

    #731983
    watermelon
    Member

    At this point anyone following all my posts since September could probably publish my biography!

    #731984
    apushatayid
    Participant

    This is called socializing?

    #731985
    eclipse
    Member

    For working from home,I call finishing my sentences and being validated for my observations of life–socializing.

    Maybe when I get a babysitter one fine day,I will have higher expectations!

    #731986
    always here
    Participant

    I understand the OP’s point.. I’m doing more ‘socializing’- interacting with people- here than on Facebook, or in the country w/ the opposite gender (even tho’ I’m not always sure or correct on a poster’s gender). I’m just sayin’

    #731987
    bpt
    Participant

    I think the CR’s members and Mods keep things well within the safety zone.

    So unless you’re the type that does not say hello to your neighbor, you should be safe here. Once you’re on-line, the CR should be the least of your concerns.

    Wanna shcmooze with your own gender exclusivly? Gey aran in Kava Shteeb, udder d’mikvah!

    Out here, we’re all on the same court, all wearing the same uniform and all play by the same rules.

    #731988

    I am the type who doesn’t say hello to my neighbor, but I’m still fine with being here. There’s a big difference between talking to a live being in real life and typing words onto a screen.

    #731989

    Bpt I don’t think its right to be the type that talks to your nerighbor!!! Why do you think its fine to talk to an opposite gender neighbor?? Just cuz she’s your neighbor its mutar?? Please explain

    Mother in israel if your not the type to talk to your neigghbor kal vchomer you shouldn’t talk to people on the internet. I think you should rethink

    #731990
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
    Participant

    Bpt I don’t think its right to be the type that talks to your nerighbor!!! Why do you think its fine to talk to an opposite gender neighbor?? Just cuz she’s your neighbor its mutar?? Please explain

    Mother in israel if your not the type to talk to your neigghbor kal vchomer you shouldn’t talk to people on the internet. I think you should rethink

    Very cute, you’ve just said that no one should be in the coffee room.

    #731991
    eclipse
    Member

    I don’t shmooz with men in real life.Friendly,not cold,but that’s it.

    #731992
    Sacrilege
    Member

    I dont shmooze w woman in real life, only men 🙂

    #731993
    bpt
    Participant

    “Why do you think its fine to talk to an opposite gender neighbor”

    Chayav, I did’nt say its ok to get into a lenghty, indepth discussion with the opposite gender, I said to be civil.

    Back to the CR, while there is a presumtion of gender, we really don’t know for sure who’s who. In fact, I could just as easily be a 80 year old grandmother, living in Ashdod, who happens to have a wacky sense of humor.

    But it doesn’t matter, because in the CR, you’re only judged by what’s on your mind.

    And its the mods (and other members) that keep things squeaky clean.

    Still, if you’r that freaked out, I’m sure there must be sights that are (presumably) men only, just as there are sites that are (presumably) women only.

    When you’re in the CR, its an open forum. Deal with it.

    #731994

    In fact, I could just as easily be a 80 year old grandmother, living in Ashdod, who happens to have a wacky sense of humor.

    other than the location, we have good reason to believe this is the actual case

    #731995
    gavra_at_work
    Participant

    A Watermelon is not Chotzetz, since it will be removed to eat it.

    #731997
    phillybubby
    Participant

    a window?

    #731998
    eclipse
    Member

    gavra,what’s flying?I’m clueless!

    #731999

    gavra at work- wow it seems like your a buki in shas. quoting gemaras from lo yachpor

    psh psh

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