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January 23, 2011 8:54 pm at 8:54 pm #594420chayav inish livisumayParticipant
Just because this is a jewish website does that make it mutar to talk to the opposite gender??
January 23, 2011 8:59 pm at 8:59 pm #731967Baruch BohmParticipantyou don’t even know what gender you are talking to, how is this even a ???????????
January 23, 2011 9:03 pm at 9:03 pm #731968popa_bar_abbaParticipantJust because this is a jewish website does that make it mutar to talk to the opposite gender??
No, of course not. It is only because it is a frum website.
January 23, 2011 9:05 pm at 9:05 pm #731969twiggyMemberits not like its a place where relationships are made. its just a bunch of people chatting about……
January 23, 2011 9:08 pm at 9:08 pm #731970watermelonMemberAs long as the content remains appropriate,which it is 99% of the time…and people honestly don’t know each other..
January 23, 2011 9:11 pm at 9:11 pm #731971ItcheSrulikMemberLet’s just watch this one…
January 23, 2011 9:16 pm at 9:16 pm #731972popa_bar_abbaParticipantIt never gets inappropriate.
http://www.theyeshivaworld.com/coffeeroom/topic/peanut-butter-and-sacrilege
January 23, 2011 9:20 pm at 9:20 pm #731973watermelonMemberpopa that’s EXACTLY the 1% I meant!
January 23, 2011 9:45 pm at 9:45 pm #731976real-briskerMemberBed Stuy – That makes no sense!
January 23, 2011 11:00 pm at 11:00 pm #731978NonsenseMemberIn ‘Der Heim’ they used pigeons when texting to the opposite gender.
January 23, 2011 11:16 pm at 11:16 pm #731979dunnoMemberAnd here we go again…
January 24, 2011 12:14 am at 12:14 am #731980oomisParticipantWell, if this is a question for you, what are you doing here?
January 24, 2011 2:58 am at 2:58 am #731981watermelonMemberOk,I am the New Mechitzah!(A watermelon satisfies all the sheet’os)
January 24, 2011 3:24 pm at 3:24 pm #731982chayav inish livisumayParticipantI personally think its fine cuz
A don’t know who it is
B Can’t find out any personal info
January 24, 2011 3:48 pm at 3:48 pm #731983watermelonMemberAt this point anyone following all my posts since September could probably publish my biography!
January 24, 2011 6:08 pm at 6:08 pm #731984apushatayidParticipantThis is called socializing?
January 24, 2011 6:31 pm at 6:31 pm #731985eclipseMemberFor working from home,I call finishing my sentences and being validated for my observations of life–socializing.
Maybe when I get a babysitter one fine day,I will have higher expectations!
January 24, 2011 8:32 pm at 8:32 pm #731986always hereParticipantI understand the OP’s point.. I’m doing more ‘socializing’- interacting with people- here than on Facebook, or in the country w/ the opposite gender (even tho’ I’m not always sure or correct on a poster’s gender). I’m just sayin’
January 24, 2011 11:00 pm at 11:00 pm #731987bptParticipantI think the CR’s members and Mods keep things well within the safety zone.
So unless you’re the type that does not say hello to your neighbor, you should be safe here. Once you’re on-line, the CR should be the least of your concerns.
Wanna shcmooze with your own gender exclusivly? Gey aran in Kava Shteeb, udder d’mikvah!
Out here, we’re all on the same court, all wearing the same uniform and all play by the same rules.
January 25, 2011 12:59 am at 12:59 am #731988Mother in IsraelMemberI am the type who doesn’t say hello to my neighbor, but I’m still fine with being here. There’s a big difference between talking to a live being in real life and typing words onto a screen.
January 25, 2011 5:09 am at 5:09 am #731989chayav inish livisumayParticipantBpt I don’t think its right to be the type that talks to your nerighbor!!! Why do you think its fine to talk to an opposite gender neighbor?? Just cuz she’s your neighbor its mutar?? Please explain
Mother in israel if your not the type to talk to your neigghbor kal vchomer you shouldn’t talk to people on the internet. I think you should rethink
January 25, 2011 5:50 am at 5:50 am #731990☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantBpt I don’t think its right to be the type that talks to your nerighbor!!! Why do you think its fine to talk to an opposite gender neighbor?? Just cuz she’s your neighbor its mutar?? Please explain
Mother in israel if your not the type to talk to your neigghbor kal vchomer you shouldn’t talk to people on the internet. I think you should rethink
Very cute, you’ve just said that no one should be in the coffee room.
January 25, 2011 1:40 pm at 1:40 pm #731991eclipseMemberI don’t shmooz with men in real life.Friendly,not cold,but that’s it.
January 25, 2011 2:23 pm at 2:23 pm #731992SacrilegeMemberI dont shmooze w woman in real life, only men 🙂
January 25, 2011 7:10 pm at 7:10 pm #731993bptParticipant“Why do you think its fine to talk to an opposite gender neighbor”
Chayav, I did’nt say its ok to get into a lenghty, indepth discussion with the opposite gender, I said to be civil.
Back to the CR, while there is a presumtion of gender, we really don’t know for sure who’s who. In fact, I could just as easily be a 80 year old grandmother, living in Ashdod, who happens to have a wacky sense of humor.
But it doesn’t matter, because in the CR, you’re only judged by what’s on your mind.
And its the mods (and other members) that keep things squeaky clean.
Still, if you’r that freaked out, I’m sure there must be sights that are (presumably) men only, just as there are sites that are (presumably) women only.
When you’re in the CR, its an open forum. Deal with it.
January 25, 2011 7:18 pm at 7:18 pm #731994YW Moderator-80MemberIn fact, I could just as easily be a 80 year old grandmother, living in Ashdod, who happens to have a wacky sense of humor.
other than the location, we have good reason to believe this is the actual case
January 25, 2011 7:56 pm at 7:56 pm #731995gavra_at_workParticipantA Watermelon is not Chotzetz, since it will be removed to eat it.
January 25, 2011 8:15 pm at 8:15 pm #731997phillybubbyParticipanta window?
January 25, 2011 10:34 pm at 10:34 pm #731998eclipseMembergavra,what’s flying?I’m clueless!
January 26, 2011 4:29 am at 4:29 am #731999chayav inish livisumayParticipantgavra at work- wow it seems like your a buki in shas. quoting gemaras from lo yachpor
psh psh
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