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Zdad,
Two points. A) the second part of your fantasy does not prove what you averted in the first part.
B) there is nothing about your story that seems truthful and I have no reason to believe. Not whether people would be using birth control, but that they would be going to abortion clinics to obtain it. Chasidim anyway.
Does your friend think you are a hasid?
Shmoel. Where does the Torah stipulate that one can’t choose to cease creating children after he was mekayem piryeh verivyah?
Piryeh verivyah is still a mitzvah regardless of the number of children one has. One cannot decide to stop doing a mitzvah.
sara i couldnt of said it any better as i am in the same situation as you and i eat at home most of thetime cuz im tierd of inviting myself over to ppl
I have no understanding of what you mean by quality and even if true – what’s your point?
“shmoel
And there is no biological degradation until at least the late-50’s.”
ChanieE -“The scientific literature indicates that it starts earlier.
I guess that depends which studies you read … Interested parties should contact their doctors instead of relying on coffee room experts”
You seem to have an agenda and I’m not sure what it is.
I am in the medical field and I just rechecked it. Healthy men can have kids even into their 80’s. Whatever point you are trying to make about quality, even if true, is irrevelant. The reason a woman in her 30’s should consider a man in his 40’s -50’s is because her time clock is running out, while a man’s time clock will go on till his 80’s. Once the woman can’t have kids anymore, she is limited to men who can’t or don’t want kids.
Put your shopping lists down, people are not buildings to be inspected over and given approval before a purchase!!!!
Age differences have and will always exists in married life, do not put some one out of the running before you meet them, if a woman is serious about marriage and a family than try going out with an older guy, be he divorced or widowed. You may even discover someone with a degree of depth and maturity who appreciates you as you are. With age ( sometimes) comes wisdom.
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Planned Parenthood is not just an abortion clinic, They are a womens health facility. yes they perform abortions, but that is not their sole purpose and not even the majority purpose.
My friend personally does not perform them and yes she knows exactly what a chassic woman looks like.
This clinic is about 20-25 miles from the Chassic areas so they are far enough away as not to create a disturbance in their neighborhood or Lashon Harah why she is going there.
I am sure these women had Heters to go there and Planned Parenthood also dispenses the pill directly after she sees the doctor so there is no need for 2 trips.
While publically Rabbanim might declare no helping hashem. Privately they might paskin different esepcially given specific circumstances that it might not be a good idea (IE the woman could get sick or die from being pregnant)
Piryeh verivyah is still a mitzvah regardless of the number of children one has. One cannot decide to stop doing a mitzvah.
Source?
My daughter just got engaged! some of you may recall that she wasn’t that interested a few months ago. I spoke with her a couple of times. I said alot of what we see here.
I see her and her friends do try to introduce other singles their age. But they are in their early 20’s but some of the guys are late 20’s.
Not just inviting the single but try to invite both sexes singels.
or better would be to introduce them to suitable matches, if meals are harder for you.
Mazal Tov adams!
And all that needless worrying…
Late 20’s with early 20’s are a perfect match.
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