-she now has to choose to either give up working and the kid will be raised in poverty or continue working and not have that much time raising the child. The child will be taken of by strangers most of the day.
Those are the only choices? Really? Are you sure?
How is it both my parents could work full-time and still be full-time parents? Oh yeah! They worked at home.
Your either/or proposition doesn’t hold a lot of water.