Should a 2nd date be protocol ?

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    popa_bar_abba
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    why would they think they were ugly and not some other problem and find out what it is and then work on him/herself

    There could be a good answer to this question.

    #692853
    oomis
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    Why – because the instinctive thing people believe when they don’t get a second date is that the other person did not find them attractive.

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    ☕️coffee addict
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    oomis,

    i dont know about you but i didn’t feel that way (maybe it’s a girl thing)

    #692855
    Sacrilege
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    mbachur- because you cant know enough about someone’s insides after one date. Its usually a physical thing. People are too complex and you cant figure them out after 2.5 hours.

    Unless you see after 1 date that ur hashkafos are radically diff there is no reason to say no, unless the guy/girl has a complete lack of middos.

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