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  • #589596
    feivel
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    I’m familiar with this story;

    it’s true.

    Shay’s father tells the story.

    these were frum boys.

    “I believe”, he began, “that when a child like Shay, who was physically

    and mentally disabled, comes into the world an opportunity to realize

    true human nature presents itself, and it comes in the way other people

    treat that child.”

    He then went on to tell a story about the time he and Shay walked past

    a park where boys Shay knew were playing baseball. When Shay expressed

    an interest in playing ball despite his handicap, his father approached

    one of the boys on the field and asked if Shay could play.

    “We’re losing by six runs and the game is in the eighth inning,” was

    the reply, “but I guess he can be on our team and we’ll try to put him

    to bat in the ninth inning.”

    Shay’s team scored three runs in the eighth inning but still entered

    the bottom of the ninth three runs behind. They managed to get the

    bases loaded with two out, and Shay was scheduled to bat. Not only did

    that Shay could be credited with a grand slam and win the game for his

    team.

    “That day,” said the father softly, with tears in his eyes, “the boys

    from both teams helped bring a piece of true love and humanity into

    this world. Shay didn’t make it to another summer. He died that winter,

    having never forgotten being the hero and making me so happy, and

    coming home and seeing his mother tearfully embrace her little hero of

    the day.”

    #641185
    areivimzehlazeh
    Participant

    The natural goodness of youth. Thanks for sharing

    #641186
    InShidduchim
    Member

    i know this family personally! this story always brings me to tears as you see that these children showed such compassion to a special child of hashem! Hashem shepped alot of nachas from his kinderlach who sacrificed a ballgame just to make a kid happy and his parents happy!

    #641187
    mazal77
    Participant

    You can watch this on the Aish Hatorah Website. Watching it always brings tears to my eyes.

    #641188
    Feif Un
    Participant

    This story was published in one of R’ Krohn’s books.

    I happen to know the family personally – I was Shaya’s brother’s chavrusah for a few years.

    A few points: Shaya did not die that winter.

    His father told me that in R’ Krohn’s book, he embellished the story to make it sound better. It wasn’t the bottom of the ninth inning, or anything like that. He simply wanted to hit, and they gave him a home run. In the book, it says they put him on their shoulders and carried him around. His father told me that didn’t happen.

    Finally, it didn’t happen during the summer. It happened during the school year, in Yeshiva Darchei Torah, in Far Rockaway.

    #641189
    areivimzehlazeh
    Participant

    did you HAVE to bust the bubble….

    #641190
    anon for this
    Participant

    Feif Un,

    How do you feel about the way the story was modified? Has your chavrusah ever expressed an opinion about this?

    #641191
    kapusta
    Participant

    beautiful story! very random question though, the name shay is a shortened version of shaya? I remeber once seeing it on a tallis bag… 🙂

    #641192
    oomis
    Participant

    I know this story – it is definitely true (maybe a tad embellished, but the ikker is true). My son had a similar story occur when he was a counselor in the summer camp of that Yeshivah. He had a camper who is developmentally disabled, not Shay, and the boy was assigned to his bunk. He was a little leery as to how the other boys would accept this very obviously different child, but they took him into the group like any other friend, and he was very gratified to see the friendships that were forged with this child that summer. The boys were instinctively more patient with him, and didn’t get upset when he needed a little more time to do things, even in a game of competition, and they cheered every accomplishment. He was often the first one picked on a team, and the sensitivity and mesnchlechkeit of my son’s bunk made him very proud of his campers.

    #641193
    mepal
    Member
    #641194
    SJSinNYC
    Member

    Kids have an unbelievable capacity to love. Kids have an unbelievable capacity to be cruel.

    #641195
    Feif Un
    Participant

    anon for this: his brother is also disabled, and I don’t think he’s even aware of the embellishments to the story. One time he told me he was jealous of his brother, and he also wanted to hit a home run.

    One thing I wasn’t clear on in my last post: I said Shaya didn’t die that winter. In fact, as far as I know, Shaya is still alive and well (I haven’t been in contact much with the family, but I think I would have heard if something did happen to him G-d forbid)

    #641196
    Jewess
    Member

    kapusta, I don’t know the story or the boy (beautiful story, by the way!) but Shay is a name in itself. I believe it means “gift” in Hebrew.

    #641197
    kapusta
    Participant

    thanks Jewess 🙂

    #641198
    anon for this
    Participant

    Thanks Feif Un.

    Question for all: Do your feelings about the story change once you know that some of the details may have been changed to make it more effective?

    #641199
    SJSinNYC
    Member

    Anon: for me, not really. The point is that young kids made a disabled kid very happy.

    #641200
    Will Hill
    Participant

    You guys might be talking about 2 different, albeit similar, stories (rather than a change in details.)

    #641201
    cherrybim
    Participant

    I think embellishment or enhancement to a story (especially for a maggid) is certainly permitted and somewhat expected; however this crossed the line a bit unless the maggid heard the story at this stage of the retelling (like playing telephone, stories change a bit whenever they are repeated). I have heard stories retold by the same Rav and they change a little each time. The essence of the story remains and the mussar is learned from the story.

    #641202
    d a
    Member

    And here is the link:

    Shaya Hits a Home Run – a 1 min. Video from Aish.com

    http://www.aish.com/movies/shaya.asp

    #641203
    Feif Un
    Participant

    Thanks for the link da.

    Again, as I said – it wasn’t the last inning with the team losing. He simply walked by, and said he wanted to try and hit. They gave him the bat, and allowed to get his home run. Was it still an amazing story? Yes. The boys made his day. The happiness he got from it was amazing. But the story didn’t happen the way the video or R’ Krohn say it did. I heard this straight from Shaya’s father.

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