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  • #598158
    all smiles
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    do you share your passwords with husband/wife, on debit cards / computer accounts / or even on phone(some phones have a choice to put a password incase its stolen).

    #789035
    adorable
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    google saves all my passwords for me. when I have a husband i guess ill have to decide

    #789036
    ronrsr
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    Even marriage is no excuse for such intimacy.

    #789037
    adorable
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    are you mosherose or Joe? (or are they the same thing?)

    #789038
    Peacemaker
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    Vote: Who would give their spouse their e-mail password?

    If negative, WHY not?

    (If unmarried, replace spouse with parent.)

    #789039
    WIY
    Member

    Adorable

    I agree I think he had a mosherose moment lol

    #789040
    all smiles
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    Ronrsr, really?? its so private??im so shocked.

    adorable’?? huh??

    #789041
    adorable
    Participant

    all smiles- you too wave to the boat. whats with you guys today

    #789042
    ronrsr
    Member

    I share almost everything with my wife, but draw the line at toothbrushes and passwords.

    #789043
    all smiles
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    ‘ adorable’ you lost me at “mosherose..

    #789044
    Peacemaker
    Member

    Why do you draw the line at passwords ronrsr? (Toothbrushes may be more understandable.)

    #789045
    ☕️coffee addict
    Participant

    I do

    why not? (you have something to hide)

    #789046
    minyan gal
    Member

    ronsr: And what would happen if you (G-d forbid) had your wallet stolen? Wouldn’t you expect to have to share your (future) spouse’s cards until yours were replaced? If she won’t give you her PIN number, you shall have to settle for an allowance for awhile – just like being a small child again? I suppose that you wouldn’t let her know what your home burglar alarm code was either. I predict a long period of bachlerhood for you.

    #789047
    popa_bar_abba
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    Even marriage is no excuse for such intimacy.

    Does one need an excuse to for intimacy?

    #789048
    skiaddict
    Member

    i would not share my email password with my parents because i wouldnt want them to see my things- i would share it with my friends if they wanted to know so i guess it might be the same with my husband when i get him…pin codes are totally different and i often give it to my parents because obviously they are not gonna steal!

    #789049
    Peacemaker
    Member

    You trust your parents or spouse with your bank account but not your email password? Why?

    #789050
    skiaddict
    Member

    because theres things from my friends that i dont really want anyone to see… not necessarily bad stuff but not the type that i would want to share- nothing to do with trust.

    Not the same thing but like you dont want to share a personal diary even with ppl you trust..

    #789051

    I share my passwords and pin with my wife b”h i’ve got nothing private to hide from her

    #789052
    koillel101
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    Hey, TB123, Do I know you?

    #789053

    Smiley why would you not share passwords?

    #789054
    ronrsr
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    I have nothing to hide from my wife, that’s why I don’t feel it necessary to share passwords.

    #789055

    Ronsor that doesn’t really make sense

    #789056
    ronrsr
    Member

    if I thought I were withholding something from my wife by not giving her my password, I would not withhold it.

    Since I am not withholding something from her, I feel no need to share the password.

    #789057
    skiaddict
    Member

    so you may as well share it..

    #789058
    Peacemaker
    Member

    What if your wife asked you for your email password?

    #789059
    ronrsr
    Member

    for my personal account, I would change it, give her the new password for as long as she wanted, then change it back.

    My business account involves communications that are strictly confidential. I owe it to my clients not to tell anyone that password.

    #789060
    Peacemaker
    Member

    Why would you purposefully change your personal email account password just so your spouse doesn’t have access to it??

    #789061
    Another name
    Participant

    I think every person is entitled to a little privacy. It doesn’t mean that the person is necessarily hiding anything, but you don’t have to share everything with everyone.

    #789062

    Your wife is not everyone……….

    #789063
    Another name
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    Yeah, but even a wife doesn’t have to be involved in all the trivialities of life or a business email which may contain loshon hara.

    #789064
    Sister Bear
    Member

    It’s a thing, I wouldn’t give anyone my password to my computer, email….and if I did because I needed them to do something for me or they really really need my computer or something then I’ll change the password the second that I get back on.

    It’s nothing to do with a trust thing. It’s more of a privacy thing. I don’t want people to have the liberty to be able to go through my computer/emails without me knowing not because I’m trying to hide something.

    #789065
    Another name
    Participant

    Sister Bear, agreed. You phrased my opinion so eloquently!

    #789066
    brotherofurs
    Participant

    but i feel like i for sure would. why would my husband have any interest in my email convos? ..so i wouldn’t be worried anyway, and even if my future husband did look at them theyre not anything important and definitely not sm i feel the need to remain private in front of my HUsbandd

    #789067
    brotherofurs
    Participant

    my parents do.. my mother doesnt really know how to use a computer that great, but she probably wouldn’t have any interest anyway looking through my father’s business emails..

    #789068

    Hatzlocha with your marriages

    #789069
    Another name
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    The last Rebel, pardon me, but what does that mean?

    #789070

    It means very eloquently that nothing good will ever come from hiding things from your spouse

    #789071
    Peacemaker
    Member

    In principle I agree with you The last Rebel, but there are exceptions. For example: If you tell your mother that your mother-in-law is a real witch, you should probably hide that comment and thought from your wife.

    #789072
    Another name
    Participant

    Its not hiding. Everyone needs space. Trust me I’m the biggest advocate for telling the spouse everything and having an open and honest relationship. But this is a different situation. You don’t need to share all the mishagasim, nor do you need to share the loshon hora of the work place. You don’t have to agree with me, but do you at least understand the difference?

    #789073

    If you have to change your password if your wife finds out then that goes a little beyond sharing an open honest relationship, obviously I would hope that your wife would also respect you privacy and not start snooping around emails that are not of her concern it’s a 2 way street

    #789074
    adorable
    Participant

    I would not tell my parents my email password but they know my account number and pin number for my bank account so… i dont think i would want my husband to look through all my emails but if he figured out what my password was, or if I was there looking at my emails with him I wouldn’t mind at all.

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