I assume there is a difference between someone who occasionally takes a sefer off the shelf in his house and someone who learns three sedarim a day in his house. (I’m not saying that that is the case here, but I am leaving open the possibility.)
When you and your husband have a rav to turn to there is no machlokes. But if you try to do things on your own and ask random people on the internet for advice then you will run into more problems with avodas Hashem than the issue of missing minyan.