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Among the list of requirements of a girl seeking a seminary is “where do the good girls go?”
Just wondering, It is not debatable that the reason for seminary is to get a good shidduch. Why does nobody ask “where do the good boys want me to go?” It seems to me they should just say it how it is. The “good girls” is defined by which shidduchim they get. Why is Shidduchim all about lying? Just say it how it is.
The good boys are defined by which good girls they get! Sorry but when i went to sem i was not thinking of boys. I was thinking of where i would shteig the most zeh hu. It is because good girls go to particular seminaries, that the boys decide that is a good sem, not the other way!
It is not debatable that the reason for seminary is to get a good shidduch.
I am willing to debate that.
I don’t remember Bar Shattya being this unpleasant…who are you and what have you done with the real Bar Shattya?!
Sure youre not the drunk one mate?
Why do i laugh at your posts although your such a moron??
Hm, no go for intelligible? Then I’ll go for unintelligible.
I dno’t tihnk taht serimanies are shudidch fatcoreis. It’s simply unenocmoical. Perant ptus dwon roghuly $20,000 for sem, duaghter needs to wiat aruond 2-3 yaers to get her dergee = $20,000-30,000 (hack colelges dno’t cut it no mroe), duaghter is now 23 and needs to pay NASI $6,000+ for a date, and wednidng is anohter $20,000+. The paretns are now finihsed. And it’s the serimanies’ fualt. They are the ture cuase of the enocomic crisis. Heck, they probalby cuased the shudidch crisis too. Girl shuold stay home, get marired, get sheital macher dergee, make it rich qucik (in that order).
Boys used to go to brisk for kodshim..now they go for nashim. hehe couldent hold myself back!
“Just wondering, It is not debatable that the reason for seminary is to get a good shidduch.”
I must be doomed. Never went to Seminary. Oh, well, I’ll just hafta settle. Smoker, maybe.
mytake…. lol
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RY thanks for the laugh. Couldn’t be bothered to even write “bump” but the thread remains funny…
Or maybe it’s something about “seeing your pintele brain”?
Be a leader! Not a follower.
Go to the seminary that’s best for you and make it the top seminary, change the reputation!
And if you don’t go to the classics, thats fine. when guys see resumes, they all look pretty much the same, yours will stand out! and that can never hurt.
Yes, it can hurt.
when i was choosing seminaries i did not put shidduch into the decision. i based my decision on which seminary would help me grow the most!!! u need to set ur priorities straight!
It’s true that many people go to seminary for shidduchim. That’s why BJJ has so many girls who don’t belong there:) Well, that and name-dropping.
That being said, not everyone takes shidduchim into account when choosing a seminary. People do try to find a place where they will grow spiritually, emotionally, and intellectually (in that order-or at least that’s the point of sem, IMO), gain more independence, find new friends, and generally change for the better.
I’m not thinking of shidduchim when I go to seminary at all. I think I might end up in an out of box sem. That’s okay. I don’t want a production line bochur anyway.
Who said all the good girls go to seminary?
Who said the good girl seminaries have only good girls? I recall going out with a lot of bad apples.
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