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March 17, 2011 4:31 pm at 4:31 pm #595768dunnoMember
I always hear a lot of segulos for shidduchim at this time of year. Anybody care to add them here?
March 17, 2011 4:37 pm at 4:37 pm #750923AZParticipantCleary Purim is a tremendous eis ratzon as is brought down in sefarim. Why is that not sufficient. Why do we need these gimmicky segulos.
This whole segula chasing mentality is sad and casues many people to have false hope….
March 17, 2011 5:26 pm at 5:26 pm #750924msseekerMemberSegula for anything: Say kapitel ?”?, ?? ???? ???? on ????? ???? (I guess shabbos this year) and then ask for whatever you need ????? ????? ?????. (heard at a drasha.)
March 17, 2011 6:55 pm at 6:55 pm #750925Pashuteh YidMemberI have heard if you drink a bottle of Wild Turkey, you will be too drunk to check anybody out, and will get engaged to the first person you see.
March 17, 2011 7:59 pm at 7:59 pm #750926cleverjewishpunMemberI heard some good ones are not being hung up on yichus,not needing someone with the exact same ideas as you to the letter.
Also, not letting a prospective match go because they have one of the following: Divorced parents, a 3rd cousin who went off the derech 20 years ago, saw a therapist, had the flu, saw a tv once,uses a different type of tablecloth on shabbous.
all excellent segulos and excellent practical suggestions!
March 17, 2011 8:17 pm at 8:17 pm #750927Boro Park GirlMemberDonate to Yeshivas Mordechai Hatzaddik.
March 17, 2011 8:26 pm at 8:26 pm #750928AZParticipantBPG: Do you have hard stats that they are more “effective” than any other tzedaka?
I actually was in contact with the head of the org and he admitted to me that he doesn’t.
You migh have a nice personal story as do some others, and many many have not had their “yeshua”. I’m still waiting for that booklet to be printed…
March 17, 2011 8:37 pm at 8:37 pm #750929whatrutalkingabtMemberDaven
Its the best segulah out there, and Purim is one of the best days to get a favorable answer….
March 17, 2011 9:04 pm at 9:04 pm #750930SacrilegeMember“This whole segula chasing mentality is sad and casues many people to have false hope….”
Better that they are channeling their energies in a good way, rather than just being a desperate wreck. Tehillim and Tzedaka never killed anyone anyway…
CJP
LOL!
March 17, 2011 9:08 pm at 9:08 pm #750931My Way or No WayMemberBestest segula for sidduchim. Donate money to NASI. Only NASI helps
March 17, 2011 9:35 pm at 9:35 pm #750932popa_bar_abbaParticipantDoing the ???? ????. Getting outrageously intoxicated.
I know many guys who did that and got engaged that year.
March 17, 2011 9:49 pm at 9:49 pm #750933cleverjewishpunMember@Sacrliege,
I’m glad someone appreciated it.
March 17, 2011 10:25 pm at 10:25 pm #750934My Way or No WayMemberSacrilege:
“Better that they are channeling their energies in a good way, rather than just being a desperate wreck. Tehillim and Tzedaka never killed anyone anyway…”
No see only the NASI way is the way! no other way
March 17, 2011 10:38 pm at 10:38 pm #750935Boro Park GirlMemberAZ- I personally never donated but I read their ad in the Hamodia and it sounds like it’s worth it to try
March 17, 2011 10:39 pm at 10:39 pm #750936ItcheSrulikMemberDon’t get drunk in front of girls.
March 18, 2011 3:01 am at 3:01 am #750937AZParticipantBPG: Funny – I saw their ad and i actually called as asked what kind of right do they have to make such a claim. The exact words are “no question about it– it works!”
He admitted he has no claim that his tzeddaka is any better than any other tzeddaka and of course we all believe tzedakka umassim tovim has the capacity to be koreah gzar din.
Sac: Tzedaaka umaasim tovim YES YES YES!! segula chasing NO NO NO… That leads people to false hope and -ultimately – to lose hope.
March 18, 2011 3:15 am at 3:15 am #750938commonsenseParticipantCJP great segulah!! probably extremely effective too.
March 18, 2011 5:16 am at 5:16 am #750939lightitupMemberBest Segulah is getting connected to H-Shem-through doing all these segulos 🙂
March 20, 2011 5:41 am at 5:41 am #750940observanteenMemberAnybody saying the entire sefer tehillim after chatzos tonight? I plan on doing so (ok… I know I’m pretty young, but still… I don’t think davening for a good shidduch is ever too early). I heard it’s a wonderful segula!
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