To ilavhashem: What kind of back surgery are you having? I have a very bad case of scoliosis. Was actually born with it. I’ve had 3 surgeries for it, and had to wear a back brace for about 10 yrs. The 3rd and last surgery was almost 16yrs ago, when I was 11. It was a 10hr surgery where they put harrington rods into my back. Baruch Hashem I healed pretty quickly. Though I do still have some numbness in my back, I have no back pain.
Also, I’m currently married with a child, and another due any day. The only pregnancy complication from the last surgery is that some doctors might not feel comfortable giving you an epidural or spinal block if needed, and the epidural might not work so well.
Hatzlacha, and I hope the surgery and recovery goes smoothly for you.