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December 2, 2014 8:35 pm at 8:35 pm #614382popa_bar_abbaParticipant
Who they all said, is really l’sheim shomayim, and means well.
Apparently he’s a posek now too! And he decided he should make halachic policy on geirus!
Amazing guy.
December 2, 2014 10:01 pm at 10:01 pm #1046514nishtdayngesheftParticipantI am sure he consulted with Zev Farber.
December 2, 2014 11:57 pm at 11:57 pm #1046515popa_bar_abbaParticipantLol I bet he did.
December 3, 2014 6:00 am at 6:00 am #1046516yitzchokmParticipantIt took some digging, but I found what you’re referring to.
According to the article he “looked into it”. That should be enough for you. he is a “rav” after all!
December 3, 2014 7:53 am at 7:53 am #1046517Sam2ParticipantAt least he has Smicha. I do agree that he overstepped his bounds (by a lot) here and hope he retracts.
December 3, 2014 1:42 pm at 1:42 pm #1046518JosephParticipantCan anyone describe what Mr. Lipman’s latest outrageous comments were?
December 3, 2014 1:59 pm at 1:59 pm #1046519nishtdayngesheftParticipantYitzchokM,
He has no shimush and no experience with geirus other than the political impact. I read what he said and he alleges that R Moshe would allow this. Unsurprisingly, that is a bald faced lie. It did not take long at all to see that R Moshe says that a Beis Din is a requirement and this is not a heter. Specifically responding to a question if a woman can rely on women to watch her tovel for geirus.
This is political pandering to the anti- halachic groups he associates with.
He can’t be gone soon enough.
December 3, 2014 2:12 pm at 2:12 pm #1046520anIsraeliYidParticipantOne of the signs of a Chacham is that he learns from everyone. MK Lipman does cite three well-respected and widely accepted Poskim in support of his position – so rather than reject the position on account of the individual who espouses it, why not actually look into the issue? Given the recent unfortunate events in Washington, DC, it would seem that this is a matter worth looking at – and if there are poskim on the level of Rav Shmuel Salant, Rav Ben-Zion Meir Chai Uziel, and Rav Moshe Feinstein, Zichronam Levracha, who have Piskei Halacha on the issue, there is what to talk about.
Shoot the messanger if you must – but don’t ignore the message.
an Israeli Yid
December 3, 2014 3:23 pm at 3:23 pm #1046521☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantGiven the recent unfortunate events in Washington, DC.
If you put a bit of thought unto it, you’ll realize that they’re not really related.
if there are poskim on the level of Rav Shmuel Salant, Rav Ben-Zion Meir Chai Uziel, and Rav Moshe Feinstein, Zichronam Levracha, who have Piskei Halacha on the issue, there is what to talk about.
That’s a big “if”, and regardless, this is not how halachah gets decided.
Chacham
No, and not a tam or eino yodeia lish’ol either.
December 3, 2014 6:04 pm at 6:04 pm #1046523gavra_at_workParticipantanIsraeliYid – as DY said, that is a big IF those poskim would say so and in what circumstances. Being that MK Lipman is not a Rov of any stature, he really has no business getting involved in a Halachic matter. If he wants Tevilah for citizenship into the Medinah, he can make the rules. To enter Klal Yisroel you need more than just an MK saying so.
December 3, 2014 6:13 pm at 6:13 pm #1046524anIsraeliYidParticipantDY – The recent events in DC are quite relevant in that they highlighted and hightened the discomfort that many female potential Gerim (Gerot?) have with being observed by men. Yes, the situations are not identical, but there’s enough of a relationship between them that one does influence the other.
As to the Poskim mentioned – I did not look into the purported piskei halacha, and don’t have a view as to how the Halacha should be lema’aseh. I am only saying that that if these great Gedolim said something, or seem to have said something, it’s worth discussing. If you’re going to disagree with MK Lipman’s interpretation, then do so, and bring facts to support your position – simply saying “Lipman said it, so it must be Treif” is mere foolishness.
You also apparently also did not understand my reference to being a Chacham. I was not referring to MK Lipman – I was referring to those who hear what he said. A sign of a Chacham is that he learns from all – even, yes, an MK he does not agree with.
an Israeli Yid
December 3, 2014 6:24 pm at 6:24 pm #1046525☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantNo, one alleged creep taking advantage of his position has no bearing on how the process should take place. It only highlights the need for oversight, but not to ch”v alter halachah.
I linked to R’ Moshe’s teshuvah. It is clear that Lipman is making things up, and, as Gavra agreed, even if he were being honest, he has no business getting involved.
Yes, I misunderstood your reference. There is still nothing to learn from his falsehood.
December 3, 2014 6:48 pm at 6:48 pm #1046526gavra_at_workParticipantanIsraeliYid – to your specific point, there are many things about being a Jew that are “uncomfortable”. No one is forcing anyone to become a Ger, and anyone who doesn’t want to get with the program can “convert” via the conservatives or become a Noahide, and no one will think less of them for it.
This is yet another example why politics and religion don’t mix.
December 3, 2014 7:29 pm at 7:29 pm #1046527Sam2ParticipantDY: He didn’t make it up. Lots of people read R’ Moshe like that. I haven’t looked into whether they’re all wrong (I think they are) but he is probably relying on others, not making things up.
December 3, 2014 8:06 pm at 8:06 pm #1046528☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantHow is it possible to honestly read R’ Moshe, who says even b’dieved it must be redone, and based on that, go ahead and suggest that it become l’chatchilah?
Sam, read the teshuvah. It should take you less than five minutes. He even proves that it is an absolute necessity because otherwise, in the interest of tznius we would have found another way.
December 3, 2014 8:07 pm at 8:07 pm #1046529popa_bar_abbaParticipantSam: they do? Doesn’t seem very ambiguous..
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December 3, 2014 8:14 pm at 8:14 pm #1046530anIsraeliYidParticipantDY and GAW – I’m not arguing in favor or against MK Lipman’s position. I’m merely pointing out that dismissing what he says because of who he is – without actually addressing the Halachic issues he raises – is the wrong way to go. If he’s wrong, then so be it – I have no view one way or the other on the Halachic merits of his position. At least use facts, though, and not the “well he said it and he’s bad, so it can’t be right” approach in challenging what he says.
And GAW – you’ve got to be kidding when you dismiss being uncomfortable about an issue of Tznius, particularly when an individual in a position of trust has abused the situation. This is far different from one being uncomfortable, say, because they just can’t give up eating bacon. This is a discomfort on account of what would otherwise be a positive trait – modesty – so it’s not wrong to see if something can be done Halachicly to aleviate such discomfort. If not, then so be it – we accept Halacha. But don’t go saying that someone is wrong just for discussing if it’s possible to do something in a Halachicly acceptable way that less uncomfortable.
an Israeli Yid
December 3, 2014 8:28 pm at 8:28 pm #1046531rabbiofberlinParticipantDaas Yochid: Although R’Moshe paskens-as you indicate-that the tevilah has to be done again, if you go through the whole teshuvo, you will see that there are many “tsedodim lehatir”, certainly “bedieved”.
However,I fail to understand the situation-“lekulei alma”, the Bais din waits until she is submerged to her neck in the water and then briefly- I repeat- briefly looks at her from the back. What is the problem in that? (I did not see rabbi Lipamn’s actual words, so i pead ignorance of his words)
December 3, 2014 8:45 pm at 8:45 pm #1046532☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantAIY, gavra did not dismiss her discomfort (nor should it be dismissed, as you correctly point out that tznius is indeed a factor, as R’ Moshe says as well).
He dismissed her comfort overriding halachah, which is what these people want. They are not discussing, b’timimus, if there is a legitimate workaround. R’ Moshe did that already, and dismissed it as invalid.
You continue to connect this to a different, horrible story, but that was an issue of who ran the mikva, not who was on the beis din overseeing geirus.
December 3, 2014 8:51 pm at 8:51 pm #1046533popa_bar_abbaParticipantROB:
There is no problem with that. Rabbi Lipman wants to stop that practice, though.
Also, Rav Moshe paskens at the end that after all the tzedadim lehatir, we are machmir b’dieved. He calls it a safeika d’dinah.
December 3, 2014 8:54 pm at 8:54 pm #1046534☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantROB, he rejects the tzdodim l’hatir unambiguously. For Lipman to use R’ Moshe as a tzad l’hokel is outrageous.
There’s no question that, despite the way you describe the situation, there’s still discomfort. In fact, R’ Moshe says,
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December 3, 2014 8:59 pm at 8:59 pm #1046535oyyoyyoyParticipanthey! ROB! i promise earlier today i was thinking, “U know who we haven’t seen around in a while? ROB. Thats who.”
December 3, 2014 9:02 pm at 9:02 pm #1046536☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantHe calls it a safeika d’dinah
Yes, as it would be if there were no beis din whatsoever involved in the tevila, because it’s a machlokes Rishonim if that works b’dieved (see Shulchan Aruch).
December 3, 2014 9:09 pm at 9:09 pm #1046537gavra_at_workParticipantanIsraeliYid – to add to what DY said, there are many times where Halacha requires us to override our otherwise good middos in the service of Hashem. As a pashut example, Tznius may be a good thing, but using tznius to not ask shailos is wrong (even with a “workaround”). Same thing here, and if that is unacceptable, this may be the wrong religion for them. So Aderaba, if their Tznius overrides their Avodas Hashem, there is something very wrong.
It goes to the old/new joke about the internet Rabbi. You tell me the P’sak you want, and I’ll find the rabbi on the internet. End story, MK Lipman is not a Bar Hachi to get involved (and neither am I, but at least I recognize it). When Rabbis Lau or Yosef (or even better, Rabbi Fuerst in Chicago) say something, we can talk.
December 3, 2014 9:14 pm at 9:14 pm #1046538nishtdayngesheftParticipantIgros Moshe, Yoeh Deah, Chelek 3, siman 109, third part.
http://www.hebrewbooks.org/pdfpager.aspx?req=920&st=&pgnum=357&hilite=
It is very clear that Lipman is wrong.
Very wrong.
December 3, 2014 9:20 pm at 9:20 pm #1046539popa_bar_abbaParticipantBoy, what a liar this Lipman dude is.
The nerve of him.
December 3, 2014 9:22 pm at 9:22 pm #1046540anIsraeliYidParticipantDY – who said anything about her discomfort overriding Halacha??? I clearly said that discussing if there is a way to address the discomfort WITHIN HALACHIC PARAMETERS is fine, but if there is no way around it, so be it – Halacha is Halacha. Bringing Rav Moshe’s Psak to show that MK Lipman’s interpretation of it is wrong is absolutely fine – in a Halachic discussion, bringing actual Halachic proofs is what should be done. My entire point was that people should challenge his view on the Halachic merits, and not based on whom he is.
As to the DC story – that is clearly 100% relevant. The individual in question was not only the “manager of the Mikva” – he was the lead Rav in a number of conversions. As such (and particularly given the publicity that story has received), the whole idea of a man or men watching the Tvila of a woman for Geirus makes a number of sincere want-to-be female converts more than a bit squeemish. If you can’t understand the relevance of that incident to addressing a woman’s feelings about Tevila, I’m sorry – it seems to me to be quite obvious.
BTW, after reading Rav Moshe’s psak, I agree that MK Lipman’s understanding of it appears inconsistent with the plain meaning. Thank you for providing the link.
an Israeli Yid
December 3, 2014 9:25 pm at 9:25 pm #1046541anIsraeliYidParticipantGAW – I’m not saying that Tznius should override Halacha. My point is that there’s nothing wrong with trying to see if there’s a way to accomodate human feelings about Tznius in a way that’s Halachicly acceptable. If not, not – we accept the Halacha despite human feelings.
an Israeli Yid
December 3, 2014 10:04 pm at 10:04 pm #1046542popa_bar_abbaParticipantAs to the DC story – that is clearly 100% relevant. The individual in question was not only the “manager of the Mikva” – he was the lead Rav in a number of conversions. As such (and particularly given the publicity that story has received), the whole idea of a man or men watching the Tvila of a woman for Geirus makes a number of sincere want-to-be female converts more than a bit squeemish. If you can’t understand the relevance of that incident to addressing a woman’s feelings about Tevila, I’m sorry – it seems to me to be quite obvious.
1. It isn’t so relevant–he could have done the same thing regardless of if he was in the room for tevilah. It’s like trying to kill a fly with a hammer–not only is it overkill, but you probably won’t kill the fly either. The solution is better oversight.
2. They’re squeamish? So let them not convert if they don’t want to. The men are also squeamish about the bris and hatafas dam bris. What mitzva is there to make geirus more attractive?
December 3, 2014 10:32 pm at 10:32 pm #1046543☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantAIY, of course they’re not using the term “discomfort overriding halachah”. They never admit to overriding halachah, yet that’s what they’re doing. The idea of trying to find a way out of a male beis din overseeing tevilas giyores is not new, but the halachah has been clearly established that it’s required despite the issues of tznius and discomfort, and no new stories or political gain will change this. Anyone trying to change the practice, whether they admit it or not (and of course they won’t), is trying to override halachah.
And popa is right. The despicable behavior this fellow is accused of had nothing to do with his function on a beis din, it had to do with his administrative function. Most dayanim don’t have such access.
December 3, 2014 11:46 pm at 11:46 pm #1046544rabbiofberlinParticipantOyoyoy:thanks for your comments! To every one else:I cannot find the words that you are attributing to Rabbi Lipman. However,I did some research on the net how tevilah leshem geirus is done and I was surprised (and aghast) to read that in many places, the bais din is actually in the mikvah room. That clearly would be wrong.In my experience, the three men are in an adjoining room are asked to come in and can only see the back of the woman as she is immersed in the water to her neck.They look for a split second before she goes under.Another way I have heard is that the men listen to the woman going under the water as the mikvah lady is present.I have never actually heard that they are in the actual mikvah room
December 4, 2014 12:23 am at 12:23 am #1046546☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantI was surprised (and aghast) to read that in many places, the bais din is actually in the mikvah room. That clearly would be wrong.
See Shulchan Aruch (and if you are still unclear, see the IG”M as well).
It is clear in S.A. that the dayanim need to be present, but that they see only her head.
December 4, 2014 12:40 am at 12:40 am #1046547popa_bar_abbaParticipantI should mention: you should also remember the Lusitania.
I meant the title to read as a question, but forgot the question mark
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December 4, 2014 1:00 am at 1:00 am #1046548🍫Syag LchochmaParticipantOh, I see. We can have a discussion about being in a mikvah with a man observing, but we can’t SAY it. Got it.
December 4, 2014 3:15 am at 3:15 am #1046549Sam2ParticipantDY and PBA: I, for one, doubt that Rabbi Lipman actually read the Tshuvah. He was probably Somech on Jeffrey Fox’s and Ysoschor Katz’s gross misrepresentation of R’ Moshe’s Tshuvah. Which is certainly misguided, but not malicious.
December 4, 2014 3:18 am at 3:18 am #1046550popa_bar_abbaParticipantThat’s a decent limud zchus that he wasn’t lying. Thanks sam.
December 4, 2014 3:25 am at 3:25 am #1046551☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantI think ?? ???? he put himself in the category of ??? ???? ??? ???, and I’m not sure why I should assume there’s even the slightest level of sincerity here.
December 4, 2014 3:25 am at 3:25 am #1046552popa_bar_abbaParticipantHee hee. I looked up Katz’s bittul torah.
It starts:
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You see that? She has what to be someich on, he says.
What has this got to do with her? She doesn’t have any chiyuvim. She isn’t a giyores yet.
The beis din has chiyuvim! The question is whether the beis din has what to be someich on in allowing it!
We have chiyuvim! The question is if it is muttar to marry her!
(This is what happens when a daf yomi rabbi decides he’s a groisseh gaon.)
December 4, 2014 3:58 am at 3:58 am #1046553rabbiofberlinParticipantDaasYochid:I have not to had a chance to see the actual loshon of the Shulchan Aruch but I venture to say that it will not say that the Bais Din should be in the mikvah room all the time, only to see that the woman is actually in the mikvah. Otherwise,it would be a gross breach of elementary tsenius.
December 4, 2014 4:02 am at 4:02 am #1046554rabbiofberlinParticipantDaasYochid: See Rambam-“hilchos issurei bi-ah”, chapter 14 mishneh 6. Exactly as I depicted it. Will get you the “loshon’ of the Shulchan Aruch.
December 4, 2014 4:18 am at 4:18 am #1046555popa_bar_abbaParticipantGentlemen, there are two teshuvos from rav moshe. DY, can you link the other which allowed a tevilah b’dieved where only one dayan was present?
December 4, 2014 4:36 am at 4:36 am #1046556☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantI actually opened the thread to do just that, and saw your post. However, a correction: all three dayanim were in the room, but only one saw her submerge her head.
http://www.hebrewbooks.org/pdfpager.aspx?req=920&st=&pgnum=359&hilite=
He is only mattir, as you point out, b’dieved, and only when the dayanim were in the room.
Rabbi Avraham Gordimer wrote an article excoriating Rabbi Fox for his teshuvah on a number of levels. The one point I don’t agree with him on is his limiting the heter to where one dayan actually saw. The case was in fact that way, but R’ Moshe’s reasoning wouldn’t seem to require it.
December 4, 2014 4:50 am at 4:50 am #1046557popa_bar_abbaParticipantThanks, yes, that is what it says
December 4, 2014 6:34 am at 6:34 am #1046558☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantRabbiofberlin, absolutely, they are there for the absolute minimum time, and only see her head. Even this is a breach of tznius, which R’ Moshe writes is only permissible because there is no other option. My point was simply that they are in the room at the actual moment of tevila, not outside the room.
I don’t know what you read on the internet, but likely it was misinformation.
December 4, 2014 6:49 am at 6:49 am #1046559popa_bar_abbaParticipantAnyway, geirus policy is mili d’alma, so who cares what Rav Moshe said.
December 4, 2014 12:19 pm at 12:19 pm #1046560☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantThanks for getting the thread back on track. It was enough already with the looking up teshuvos and learning business.
December 4, 2014 4:39 pm at 4:39 pm #1046561Sam2ParticipantPBA: No, when a Daf Yomi Rabbi thinks he’s a Groisse Gaon you get statements like, “R’ Ovadia Yosef missed a Ramban” and the willingness to Pasken like the Mishpitei Uziel over the combined opinions of R’ Ovadia, R’ Moshe, and the Minchas Yitzchak.
December 4, 2014 5:22 pm at 5:22 pm #1046562rabbiofberlinParticipantSam2- I don’t think that, relying on a Possek who is “meikel” is wrong, regardless of the people arraigned against him. This is the case in many circustances and should not be a subject of sarcasm.
December 4, 2014 6:35 pm at 6:35 pm #1046563Avram in MDParticipantanIsraeliYid,
The recent events in DC are quite relevant in that they highlighted and hightened the discomfort that many female potential Gerim (Gerot?) have with being observed by men. Yes, the situations are not identical, but there’s enough of a relationship between them that one does influence the other.
I must disagree. The horrendous events in DC were caused by violations of both halacha and civil law. They did not arise due to correctly following halachic protocols, nor from any fundamental flaws arising due to that halachic observance. To make sure nothing like it happens again, stricter oversight and privacy protocols are needed, not changes to halacha. I think those groups who are abusively taking advantage of this sad situation to promote their own ideas are bringing further harm to the victims by distracting attention from the real changes that must be made and creating uncomfortable tensions surrounding the mikveh.
December 4, 2014 7:03 pm at 7:03 pm #1046564Sam2Participantrob: That’s absurd. Not every Shittah is meant to be relied upon. You can find a Shittah who will say whatever you want. That’s not a “Yesh Al Mi Lismoch”. R’ Moshe vs R’ Ovadia is a Yesh Al Mi Lismoch. This isn’t. Paskening is about recognizing your place and the place of those much greater than you.
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