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March 12, 2013 3:21 am at 3:21 am #608561coreytothecupMember
After much thought and research I think I have found the reason to the shidduch crisis…… The reason is…. that all the “good” guys get set up by friends and family and therefore do not consult a shadchan about marriage… While girls mostly go through a shadchan… so the only people available by shadchan are boys that aren’t being set up by freinds or family:( which tend to be not the “best” boys.but by girls even some of the “Best” girls are getting set up by a shadchan. What do u think? im not sure of solutions but i think this is the problem 🙁 🙁
March 12, 2013 3:24 am at 3:24 am #935935Torah613TorahParticipantYou may enjoy my manifesto on the topic: http://www.theyeshivaworld.com/coffeeroom/topic/why-shidduch-kol-korehs-dont-work#post-446788
March 12, 2013 3:26 am at 3:26 am #935936SaysMeMemberoh come on, instead of closing all his threads, block him
March 12, 2013 3:27 am at 3:27 am #935937shnitzyMembercttc, why don’t you just sTROLL over to these happily married couples and tell them their marriage was a mistake, totally not Min Hashamayim, and they should call a shadchan to find out what was supposed to happen.K?
*sugary sweet smilie*
March 12, 2013 3:28 am at 3:28 am #935938coreytothecupMemberill go out with him… for 2k?
March 12, 2013 3:30 am at 3:30 am #935939OneOfManyParticipantMarch 12, 2013 3:39 am at 3:39 am #935940coreytothecupMembersome people do get lucky…. and who says there marriage is happy? bc they are still married? that proves nothing… the divorce rate isnt as high in the frum community bc ppl are afraid of what they will be looked as if they get divorced… therfore they fight and disagree for there whole life… how about u go interview all these “happily married” couples??
March 12, 2013 3:50 am at 3:50 am #935942lakewhutParticipantthere are enough jews out there the question is do chasidim want to marry ltivaks do ashkenazim want to marry sephardim
March 12, 2013 4:09 am at 4:09 am #935943sharpMembercoreytothecup: “how about u go interview all these “happily married” couples??”
I think you have plenty time to interview them yourself, first-hand.
March 12, 2013 4:14 am at 4:14 am #935944shnitzyMemberHee hee. Sharp! Let’s hijack this trolly thread…
March 12, 2013 4:19 am at 4:19 am #935945sharpMemberI’m trying. We need more manpower… C’mon, where’s everybody? PBA, DaasYochid, Yitayningwut, torah,
my soldier shall fight like thisss!!!
March 12, 2013 4:23 am at 4:23 am #935946more_2Memberlakewhut
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“there are enough jews out there the question is do chasidim want to marry ltivaks do ashkenazim want to marry sephardim
POSTED 28 MINUTES AGO #”
No more like do litvacks want to marry chassidim. Chassidim don’t have a problem marrying litvacks as much as litvacks have a problem marrying chassidim.
March 12, 2013 4:23 am at 4:23 am #935947shnitzyMemberSo howz the pesach cleaning going? You sounded a trifle stressed before ;)??
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