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Bemused, she said she doesnt like posting in public forums because she doesn’t know who will read it. Shes technically in school during the day, as for bemused, maybe… I think she was busy tonight so maybe not. And she probably would’ve put in her two cents (worth maybe a penny 😉 ), she doesn’t stay quiet for long. I’m confused. 😉
ha ha bemused. Its probably you.
kapusta: LOL And she probably would’ve put in her two cents (worth maybe a penny 😉
actually it sounds like her, THIS ISN”T FUNNY!
its ok, (hopefully!) Bemused joined before I ever told her about it.
kapusta–i alright i admit it its me
Does anyone know where we discussed hashgacha pratis stories in the CR? I found one thread but it only had one post
kapusta: there’s other members it could be…
AOB, I told her around purim time, who joined since then?
kapusta: not to scare you but when did 22oldgold join? princess123? how about circusgirl? are her initials h.h. like h2?
Kapusta,
I’m really sorry for doing this to you…every interaction will have you suspicious… 🙂
AOB, uh oh. Now you’re getting me nervous.
Bemused you actually sound like her a little but she said she was never here (at that point) and you joined before I told her.
noitallmr: i use word completion on my phone! but i’m up for a cell phone upgrade & plan on getting one with a full keyboard! how’s the blackberry bold, you happy with it? not too chunky of a phone?
Jax, what service do you have?
kapusta: at&t!
Jax, oh. I could tell you about verizons phones if you like. good service too.
you could check phones on cnet.com, it has ratings and reviews.
kapusta, well, at least she got the point!
~a~
aussie, where are you tonight? We gotta finish last night’s discussion.
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kapusta: thanx! but i wanted to hear from an ”actual person”-(someone in the cr) then just the ratings!
anonymisss, if she saw it. I never said anything but she was sort of avoiding making eye-contact with me the entire day. In a way I hope she saw it, she’ll get the point without me doing any of the dirty work.
hey i also have at&t and im eligible for an upgrade soon -but i don’t like qwerty(no offense to that friend of jax) keypads
kapusta, speaking of non-confrontational, I guess that would be the way to go.
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coke not pepsi: LOL! you gatta post more often! so what phone you looking into from at&t?
Jax: I’ve got at&t too and long overdue for an upgrade. I’m actually pretty 🙂 with the one I have right now. The Nokia ones last f-o-r-e-v-e-r. And there are no gimmicks involved.
i have a nokia and i love it-i always get a nokia-it could just be that i like it bec i am used to it, bec they are a little nebby
hey coke u home already?
mepal, I had nokia (way back when) and one day I opened it to find a cracked screen. I put it down what night and I opened it the next day and found this large ink-blot sort of thing over most of the screen. I was going to send it back to them but it cost more to fix than the phone itself.
Update: I didnt really have too much interaction with her today, but she was in a really bad mood, she was super stressed because she has two MAJOR things due for next week, both extremely time consuming. I wrote her a letter with a bunch of jokes and I put in a line or two in the beginning about “even though she drives me crazy most of the time.” and ” shes getting it on condition that she stops driving me crazy.” It was said in a jokey sort of manner but I hope somehow it’ll get through.
kapusta, what if she’s reading?
I know shes not now, shes too busy (AP is next week), and if she is then she figured me out already.
and if she is reading, she definitely got the hint.
aussie? I still didn’t do anything about you know what.;(
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musiclover- just saw your post now–was home for 3 min- then i headed over to your neck of the woods for the rest of the night
uh oh… she just text me and said she wants to spend some real normal time with me, she’s gonna be away next year… I’m afraid to read the last two parts to it.
shes even giving up studying time for AP, to “chap arein” as she put it, and it was sort of rhetorical. I dont think I’ll write back now, but tomorrow wont be funny.
kapusta, no way!!! I can’t believe it.
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anonymisss, yes way! you should see me, I’m sitting here telling myself it’ll be ok. (and I am the most un-nervous person!)
kapusta: yikes!
well, that could be totally unnerving for anyone!
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I have no idea what to do now, this is not funny! I think I’m going into hiding with ames! How do I get out of it this time? HELP!!!
if its with other people I wouldn’t mind, but she sounds like she wants to go alone!
kapusta, i wish i could do something to help you get out of it. I’m sad for you, if that helps;(
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kapusta: Try telling her that as her freind you think she should really focus on passing the AP’s as she has taken courses over the entire year preparing for them and it will greatly reduce the amount of time she will need to spend in college (if she ends up going). And she can always talkto you over the phone or when she gets back from wherever shes going you can hang out, but the chance to pass the AP’s isnt going to come up again.
If you end up going and you dont want to go alone make sure to invite other people along with you, and if she says she wants to do it alone say your sorry but you already invited other people to join you two.
anonymisss, thanx, you wanna talk some sense into her maybe?
aussie, LOL at the first paragraph, she sent me a four-part text and said very clearly that she has to study but shes taking time out anyway, and shes sort of the “leader” in the relationship. (especially when it comes to this) so even though its not likely, I might try and say something when we’re all talking but the only other person who would come is probably also busy now. even if I manage to avoid her now, I knnow at some point she’ll manage to catch up with me, unless some major nes happens and mashiach comes. (that would solve everything, wouldn’t it.)
p.s. hope that wasnt too confusing, its weird!
kapusta: If you want you can always look at the positive side of this. Even if it may not seem like it at times you have a freind who cares greatly for you and while it may be annoying she is probably someone you can count on if you need her help. Not everyone is lucky enough to have such devoted friends. (Did I completly misjudge the type of person she is?)
aussie, you try that in such a situation!
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Hey Jax, no it’s not too bad but I’m used to biggish phones…in fact i’m a bit of a phone geek. Currently I have three phones- Blackberry Bold, iPhone & N96. All three are beautiful phones really well made but I’d take the Nokia N96 out of all of them. Amazing phone very powerful and ultra stylish!!!
All the best…
anonymisss: I have said before I am better at giving advice than following it lol (that doesnt mean my advice is bad advice or that I am wrong)
aussie, yes she is someone I could count on, technically. Like I said before, she a psychology buff and everything has a term. Its not much fun unloading your life and have someone tell you they named a condition for it. Anyway, I dont really talk, I have my life (enough meat for a nice conversation) but theres nothing she can really help me with. Only G-d can. Other than that, things dont build up, so there isn’t much to discuss, and I probably wouldn’t go to her anyway.
Update: She started asking me if I saw the texts from last night (which I never responded to) and (thankfuly) someone just butt in out of nowhere and asked me something and totally changed the course of the conversation. She didn’t ask me again because I basically avoided (eye) contact with her. One thing that I’m very proud of myself about (I really shouldn’t be because it wasn’t the best way,) but during class there was a group outside talking (very loud, teacher couldn’t teach.) Teacher went outside to try and quiet everyone, and she (my “friend”) said VERY loudly “this is wrong!!!” I turned around (screaming a little, but in a VERY strong voice, not typical of me) that she has no right to say anything like that in public and its lashon hara to use that as an example. I think she was very taken aback that I was able to talk to her that way. (I think the one or two people who saw me do it were also. Its funny someone told me randomly today, before this took place, that she never heard me yell.) She seemed to be a little quieter (a little) for some time after. I hope she realized something.
sorry, mod! 🙂
kapusta: good job standing up to her!
kapusta: IM sure youve tried it but if you didnt just next time she asks. Say Id rather not talk about it and if she continues say its not really any of yor buisness. (It wont insult her but she might be afraid she insulted you and backk off.) Although it does seem shes getting the hint so maybe you should not do it 🙂
AOB, thanx, I need all the encouragement I can get in this area. 🙂
aussie, I can tell her, and tell her, and tell her, until I’m blue in the face, she just doesn’t stop. I have not yet tried walking away, I may though.
kapusta, good for you! I’m happy that you opened your mouth to her. Maybe she’ll start taking you a bit more seriously.
guess what? I made up with my friend today! God is good!!!!!
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anonymisss, lol, the only thing was it was sort of in public. and btw, I’m really happy for you!
Update: She called me (over an hour ago, happens to be I didnt have my hone on me at the time) and after finding out my voicemail was full, she sent me another text, which said, “playing hard to get?” I have two options now, the stupid one ( 😉 )which would be to play stupid for another few months, and ignore her calls/texts. Or probably the more intelligent option in the long run, and tell her yes, I am playing hard to get, because… which brings me back to my original question, how can I tell her off in a way that she’ll listen?
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