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March 28, 2014 7:16 pm at 7:16 pm #1046853☕ DaasYochid ☕Participant
No, Gavra, you can’t compare an individual’s safek treifa to setting precedent for a further step towards egalitarianism.
Apushutayid, I think Rabbi Twersky actually made a good case for there being extenuating circumstances to asser, although it’s not necessary to stretch here to maintain the basic halacha here, which is that it’s assur.
PAA, you are indeed advocating for women to be allowed to wear tefillin, and bringing more mareh m’komos of shittos which we don’t have a mesorah to follow doesn’t help your case.
March 28, 2014 8:05 pm at 8:05 pm #1046854Patur Aval AssurParticipantDaasyochid:
On what basis do you say that I am advocating for women to wear Tefillin, when I have specifically said several times that I am not advocating this. What I am saying is that there is a possible way to arrive at a halachic conclusion that a woman can wear Tefillin. Therefore if I or anyone else want to wear Tefillin it is possible. The question is whether we would take this to its practical application. I myself might be hesitant to do so but others might be less hesitant.
March 28, 2014 8:20 pm at 8:20 pm #1046855☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantWould you agree thay you are defending it?
March 28, 2014 10:46 pm at 10:46 pm #1046856apushatayidParticipantMy question regarding extenuatinghad to do with the permission granted. And no, anytime one issues a ruling that is contrary to 500 years of accepted societal norm itt is not just another “chicken shayla”.
March 30, 2014 12:52 am at 12:52 am #1046857Patur Aval AssurParticipantI am not defending anything. I am just trying to provide people with a source-text that they may choose to utilize or not utilize.
March 30, 2014 12:59 am at 12:59 am #1046858☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantMy question regarding extenuatinghad to do with the permission granted
Yes. I was responding that not only are there not extenuating circumstances to allow it, there is very good reason to want to keep things status quo (even besides for the halachic mesorah).
I believe we are in full agreement.
March 30, 2014 5:01 am at 5:01 am #1046859gavra_at_workParticipant“When individuals, regardless of vocation or title, grant license to women to don tefillin, nolens volens, they validate the insidiousness of egalitarianism.”
I think what I’m not sure about here is “license” and “validate”. Our society (for good or evil) has allowed itself to use pesakim as a means to validate their behavior, both on the left and the right. Mostly, this is a bad thing, as one needs to have their own Rov who can pasken based on their own needs. I’m also very concerned about this concept being adopted by others who will twist it for their own purposes. I still don’t see a single psak in what is explicitly explained to be an exception validating actions by others, but after thinking about it am also aware that my view is clouded by my values of the individual psak which society does not share.
All that being said, if Rabbi Twerski feels that he would rather allow these girls go to a conservative school due to fear of allowing an opening for anti-Torah values, its not my place to argue. I’m glad that I don’t have to make that decision.
March 30, 2014 10:31 am at 10:31 am #1046860apushatayidParticipantI think rabbi twerski is arguing that there is an element of shirking ones responsibility as an educator. Instead of allowing them to wear tefillin, he could have tried to understand where this is coming from and open a much deeper discussion and work with these girls on their quest for spirituality.
April 1, 2014 5:52 am at 5:52 am #1046861☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantI would like to mention a few kashyas I have on the pshat from R’ Chaim shlit”a. I would appreciate if anyone has any possible teirutzim.
At the beginning of the piece,
http://hebrewbooks.org/pdfpager.aspx?req=40793&st=&pgnum=6
he quotes from Targum Yonoson that there is an issur of lo silbash for a woman to wear tallis and tefillin, since there is no mitzvah whatsoever. On this basis, he asks on the Rema why, since we hold like Rabbeinu Tam that women can perform mitzvos asei shehazman grama, should there be a problem of lo silbash.
He also mentions that the Levush also refers to the issur of lo silbash.
1) Even if there is an issur of lo silbash (technically, lo yihyeh kli gever al isha), why would that preclude an additional problem of guf naki? Why make a second machlokes about that?
2) The Bais Yosef he quotes assers based on a Kol Bo, and the reason brought is clearly guf naki. Why would there be a kashya on the Rema, whose issur is based on guf naki, regardless of the fact that we pasken like Rabbeinu Tam? Even were we to assume that the Targum Yonoson’s problem of lo silbash somehow is exclusive of guf naki, we are not going like the T”Y anyhow, but rather like the K”B, based on the P’sikta and Yerushalmi.
3) The Levush in Hilchos Tefillin
http://www.hebrewbooks.org/pdfpager.aspx?req=14586&st=&pgnum=37&hilite=
clearly assers based on guf naki. Why does R’ Chaim put him together with the Targum Yonoson?
The Levush refers to the issur of lo yilbash only in Hilchos Tzitzis.
http://www.hebrewbooks.org/pdfpager.aspx?req=14586&st=&pgnum=22
If we want the Levush and Targum Yonoson to be in agreement, it would seem to make more sense to say that the T”Y (which is on the passuk of lo yih’yeh in parshas Ki Seitzei)
http://www.hebrewbooks.org/pdfpager.aspx?req=14085&st=&pgnum=261
is giving an example of lo yih’yeh, but not limiting the issur of a woman wearing tefillin to lo yih’yeh.
It’s also worth noting, in context of the broader discussion, that the Levush (Hilchos Tzitzis) is against women wearing a tallis.
??? ?”? ????? ????? ?????? ?? ????? ?? ?????? ????? ??? ???? ???? ?? ??? ?????? ?? (??”? ??? ?”? ???? ?’). ???? ????? ???? ??? ????? ???? ???? ???? ????? ???? ?????? ???????, ?? ????? ????, ??? ??? ????, ?? ????. ??????? ?? ????? ????? ?? ??? ??? ??? ???? ???? ?? ???? ?????? ??. ??? ?? ??????
April 1, 2014 3:02 pm at 3:02 pm #1046862Patur Aval AssurParticipantDaasyochid:
The way I understood R’ Chaim is that he is saying that the Targum Yonasan holds that it’s an issur of lo yihyeh kli gever al isha BECAUSE we don’t say ???? ?????? ???? and that this is the reason for the man d’amar in the psikta that says that the chachamim protested Michal. The Beis Yosef says that the source for the Kol Bo is the psikta i.e. the reason why the Chachamim protested was due to guf naki. Now according to R’ Chaim the reason why they protested was much more basic – it’s an issur of lo yihyeh kli gever al isha. According to this there is no source that there is a problem of guf naki. Now since we pasken ???? ?????? ????, the psikta’s objection is obviated and there is no reason to invent a new objection. It comes out that R’ Chaim is either arguing with the Kol Bo’s interpretation of the psikta or he is arguing with the Beis Yosef and says that the Kol Bo agrees to his interpretation of the psikta but is choshesh for the man d’amar that we don’t say ???? ?????? ????.
April 1, 2014 11:39 pm at 11:39 pm #1046863☕ DaasYochid ☕Participantthe Targum Yonasan holds that it’s an issur of lo yihyeh kli gever al isha BECAUSE we don’t say ???? ?????? ????
That part, I understand.
and that this is the reason for the man d’amar in the psikta that says that the chachamim protested Michal.
That part, I have difficulty with, since Tosafos and others learn it’s because of guf naki. Why should R’ Chaim have a tzorich iyun on the Rema for paskening like Tosafos and the Kol Bo as explained by the Bais Yosef?
April 2, 2014 12:12 am at 12:12 am #1046864☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantNow according to R’ Chaim the reason why they protested was much more basic – it’s an issur of lo yihyeh kli gever al isha.
Do you really think R’ Chaim is coming to argue on the Kol Bo, and with that to ask a tzorich iyun on the Rema? This is the lashon of the Bais Yosef:
??? ??? ?? (??’ ??) ??? ??”? ??? ??? ????? ????? ?????? ??? ?????? ??? ???? ????? ?????? ????? ???? ?????? ??”? ????? ????? ???? (??’ ?????? ??’ ?) ???? ???? ???????? ???? ??? ????? ?????? (??) ????? ?? ???? (????? ?? ????) ???? ???? ?????? ??? ???? ?? ?????. ??? ???? ???? ??”? ??? ????? ??????? (?”? ????) ????? ??????? (???? ??? ??) ????? ?? ????? ?????? ?? ????? ???? ??????? ?????? ??? ??? ????? ???? ?????? ????? ???”? ??? ???? ????? ???????:
To say that R’ Chaim is arguing is not reasonable.
April 2, 2014 2:58 am at 2:58 am #1046865Patur Aval AssurParticipant“To say that R’ Chaim is arguing is not reasonable.”
Is it not reasonable because he is arguing with Rishonim/Acharonim? That’s probably why he just said it as a pshat and not as a psak. As a pshat it is very nice and works through the sugya.
April 2, 2014 4:26 am at 4:26 am #1046866☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantIs it not reasonable because he is arguing with Rishonim/Acharonim?
Yes, but it’s more than that. He says tzorich iyun on the Rema; it’s one thing to say a pshat not in accordance with the rishonim, it’s quite another to ask a kashya on the Rema for not doing so.
Also, if he means to argue on the Kol Bo, how can he ask on the Rema based on the Kol Bo?
Furthermore, R’ Chaim never said a sevara to argue on guf naki; why would there be a tzorich iyun on the Kol Bo?
???? ?? ????? ???? ???? ??? ??? ???? ??
????? ?????? ????? ?????? ????? ???? ????? ???? ???? ????? ???? ????? ????
Since the B”Y/K”B are clearly going with guf naki, and the Rema, even according to R’ Chaim, is going with their pshat in the sugya, how is it shayach to ask on him from the Targum Yonoson?
As an aside, if he’s saying a pshat independent of the standard mehalach in the sugya, why mention the Gr”a?
April 2, 2014 4:29 am at 4:29 am #1046867rabbiofberlinParticipantDaasYochid:You have cut your quote from the Levush on tallis in half.Earlier,he clearly writes that women can put on a tallis and even say a brocho.What he says about “jehuro”is repeated in the Remo.”jehuro” is rather a mild critique and , in essence, women could wear a tallis, especially if it is a tallis koton, where the issue of “jehuro” is not relevant,.
April 2, 2014 4:50 am at 4:50 am #1046868☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantROB, I’m puzzled as to why you think what he wrote earlier is his maskana. I quoted his conclusion. His concluding words are “??? ?? ??????”.
Is that not clear?
And I don’t know about you, but even assuming that “yuhara” is only a mild critique (and I don’t know why you assume that), I wouldn’t want to be subject to even a mild critique by the Levush or the Rema.
April 2, 2014 1:17 pm at 1:17 pm #1046869Patur Aval AssurParticipantI think he is just saying that according to his pshat (which he feels is the simplest pshat, before any rishonim) there is no need for the Rema’s statement. The only question I hear is why he didn’t just say tzarich iyun directly on the kol bo.
April 2, 2014 1:18 pm at 1:18 pm #1046870rabbiofberlinParticipantDaas Yochid:there is a lot of anecdotal evidence that many rebbetzins wore a tallis koton,and clearly there would not be a problem of “jehuro” in those circumstances.Secondly,there are other matters that are labeled as “jehuro” that are ignored.(rabbeinu tam’s tefillin,anyone?).So,indeed , it is a fairly mild rebuke.
April 2, 2014 3:02 pm at 3:02 pm #1046871☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantThe only question I hear is why he didn’t just say tzarich iyun directly on the kol bo.
What’s shver with trying to shtim the Psikta and Yerushalmi with nashim somchos reshus?
April 2, 2014 10:05 pm at 10:05 pm #1046872Patur Aval AssurParticipantI assume that R’ Chaim feels that his pshat is advantageous because he doesn’t need to be mechadesh a new svara not mentioned by chazal (guf naki).
April 3, 2014 12:56 am at 12:56 am #1046873☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantIt is found in the Rishonim, and it is not the derech to question sevaros found in the Rishonim. It certainly is hard to understand how he would question the Rema for going with the Bais Yosef/ Kol Bo and Tosafos.
September 16, 2014 11:37 pm at 11:37 pm #1046874Sam2ParticipantDY: The “Lurian” method means the Derech of the Maharshal, which is that a Chacham should Pasken by whichever Rishon/Rishonim fit the Sugya best, rather than the Derech of the Beis Yosef which was to Pasken like the (more or less) majority.
September 17, 2014 12:19 am at 12:19 am #1046875☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantThanks. PAA had explained that, I had responded appropriately based on that, and I’m pretty sure I knew that the Maharshal’s last name was Luria. I have no idea why I said I wasn’t familiar with it, other than not having heard if it prior.
October 14, 2014 3:08 pm at 3:08 pm #1046876Patur Aval AssurParticipant“there is a lot of anecdotal evidence that many rebbetzins wore a tallis koton”
Shu”t Maharil Hachadashos siman 7:
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October 14, 2014 8:51 pm at 8:51 pm #1046877sm29ParticipantI personally think it’s not a good idea for girls to wear tefillin. yes maybe some righteous women in the past were able to do it, like Rashi’s daughters, but this generation is not on their level of kedusha.
Some girls feel that it enhances their prayers. While that may be, you need to weight the pro and con. There are a lot of conditions that need to be met. If we can do it perfectly, that’s good. But if we mess up, then it becomes an aveira instead of a mitzvah. Why, because it’s Not our obligation to do it. Men are obligated to do it, and so if they mess up, it’s still a mitzvah because they were told to do it.
What people need to understand is that Hashem knows what people need. And so if men are told to wear tefillin and women are not, then it’s because we don’t spiritually need it. We should focus on the mitzvos that Hashem wants us to do. 🙂
October 14, 2014 9:10 pm at 9:10 pm #1046878jewishfeminist02Membersm29, what do you mean by “mess up”?
October 14, 2014 11:08 pm at 11:08 pm #1046880147ParticipantBTW do married women wear Tefillin shel Rosh over their wig? or are they allowed to temporarily remove their wig to place Tefillin directly on their head?
Meanwhile we should be giving Rav Chaim Kanievsky shlita some breathing space as he is just emerging from having commemorated 3rd Johrzeit of his beloved Rebbetzen, this past Shabbos:- Shelishi Shel Sukkos.
October 15, 2014 6:30 am at 6:30 am #1046882sm29ParticipantJF, if they break a condition like no talking or other conditions
October 15, 2014 1:40 pm at 1:40 pm #1046883jewishfeminist02MemberNo talking bichlal, or no talking in between putting on tefillin shel rosh and tefillin shel yad? What other conditions?
October 15, 2014 6:05 pm at 6:05 pm #1046884sm29ParticipantJF, for example, thoughts should be pure, etc. You can do a google search for Laws. Aish.com also has an article on it. We know that no one is perfect, and people usually make mistakes, like with talking or with their thoughts etc. But guys are obligated and so the benefit outweighs the risk.
December 9, 2014 11:46 pm at 11:46 pm #1046885Patur Aval AssurParticipantSince I just quoted this Igros Moshe in another thread, it would only be fair to quote a different part of the teshuva which relates to this thread.
Igros Moshe Orach Chaim 4:49:
????? ????? ???? ??? ??? ????? ?? ????? ??? ?????? ???? ??? ??? ???? ???? ?? ???? ???? ??? ??? ????? ????’ ????? ?? ???? ?? ????? ???????? ???????? ???? ???? ????? ??? ?????? ??”? ?? ?? ????? ???? ???? ????? ????? ??? ????? ????? ???? ????? ????? ??? ???? ??’ ????? ?????? ?? ????? ?????? ???? ?? ??? ????? ?????? ???? ????’ ??????? ?? ?”? ?”? ?”? ???? ????? ????? ???? ???? ??????? ???? ?????? ????? ???? ??? ?????? ???? ????? ?? ?? ????? ????????? ??????? ?????? ??????? ?? ???? ??? ?? ??? ????? ????? ?????? ??? ????? ???”? ??”? ???? ?”? ???’ ?’ ??????? ????? ?? ??? ??? ???? ??? ??? ?? ??? ???? ?? ??? ?????? ?????? ??????? ?????? ?????? ??? ?? ???? ?? ????? ??? ????’ ?? ????? ?????’ ???? ????? ?????? ????? ??? ???? ???? ?? ????? ???? ????? ???? ?? ???? ??????? ??? ????? ????? ?????? ?? ??? ??? ???????? ?? ???”? ??? ????? ??? ?? ???? ???? ??? ??? ????? ???? ????? ??????? ?????? ?????? ????? ????? ???? ???? ????? ????? ??? ????? ?? ????? ?????
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