Nowadays, we are so busy with different things that we sometimes forget to give attention to the people that need it. When we become like this, we should remember that it’s just the yetzer hara’s way of disconnecting us. It might even trick us into justifying what we do. The way to know is if you spend very little time with your wife and kids, and mainly just weekends, then it’s time to take a step back and think how to resolve the situation.
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When discussing this with a spouse, do it nicely and at good time. Show you also appreciate them and just want what’s best for both of you and the children.
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