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  • August 12, 2013 8:45 pm at 8:45 pm #970554
    popa_bar_abba
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    Mercury:

    I didn’t get a laugh out of you. I was more amused that the CR was listed there than that this thread is listed there. This thread is a legitimate halachic issue, as well as a legitimate issue in terms of even if muttar that it makes you uncomfortable.

    If you must talk funny, I think the funniest would be if I was the patient and knew it was muttar (if it is) and realized you were uncomfortable. That would make me comfortable and then I’d think it was funny.

    August 13, 2013 4:30 am at 4:30 am #970555
    mercury
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    popa, i am not uncomfortable in front of my patients. this has nothing to do with comfort. im fine whether the guy is single or not, frum or not, jewish or not, or whether were alone or not. (going through school i had to work with men who were way creepier then a 26 year old yeshiva guy. and i also had to wear scrub pants. and whether thats halachicly ok or not is another topic all together which i am not getting into. so pretty much nothing phases me at this point regarding my work). this is about what the exact requirements are for a situation to be considered yichud as well as what other people do. like i said in a previous post there is no way i am the only one that has been a situation like this. apparently tho i guess i am as no one else (except 1 person) mentioned a similar situation. and talking about comfort levels? im not the one sitting in the chair looking nearly completely helpless with my mouth wide open and having a bunch of poky looking things coming at me. ya…i’m just fine and dandy 🙂

    August 13, 2013 4:39 am at 4:39 am #970556
    eclipse
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    Torah613Torah: Thank you! I was going to recommend the same book, “9 to 5”.It covers almost every possible scenario that can occur in the workplace and beyond. There is also a comprehensive book “Guidelines” on the general laws of Yichud that is very clear.

    August 13, 2013 5:36 am at 5:36 am #970557
    popa_bar_abba
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    That was a pretty hilarious conversation there. I wonder which poster that Holmes fellow was. He should come back over and let us know.

    Mercury: Really, I don’t have any problem with this thread, and I respect your question and your sincerity in asking it.

    and talking about comfort levels? im not the one sitting in the chair looking nearly completely helpless with my mouth wide open and having a bunch of poky looking things coming at me. ya…i’m just fine and dandy 🙂

    Whatev’s. I’m not the girl sticking my fingers between the gaping teeth of some lunatic who could be popa for all I know. Let’s just say that nobody ever got bitten being a yeshiva guy.

    August 13, 2013 2:05 pm at 2:05 pm #970558
    popa_bar_abba
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    Yerucham,

    I will still like you even if you disagree with and criticize me for that post.

    Also, ok, fine. I take it back. I don’t recommend that blog ever.

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