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June 18, 2012 5:08 pm at 5:08 pm #603816good.jewMember
I am sure we all noticed that Popa believes that poor parenting is the cause of many issues later on in life, so I thought we could have a thread for Popa to tell us all how to be perfect parents.
June 18, 2012 5:20 pm at 5:20 pm #971314147ParticipantFather’s day was yesterday, but better late then never, to commence good parenting.
June 20, 2012 5:22 am at 5:22 am #971315YW Moderator-42ModeratorPopa, how often do you beat your kids?
June 20, 2012 5:31 am at 5:31 am #971316popa_bar_abbaParticipantPopa, how often do you beat your kids?
Just once. I’m good at it.
June 20, 2012 5:54 am at 5:54 am #971317SaysMeMemberyou always let them win the games? chess and bowling too?
June 20, 2012 6:15 am at 6:15 am #971318pcozMemberWhat do you use?
June 20, 2012 12:03 pm at 12:03 pm #971319mom12Participanthow OFTEN? sir
June 20, 2012 1:45 pm at 1:45 pm #971320BTGuyParticipantHow does one beet kids? I know on Purim you can pickle them.
June 20, 2012 2:53 pm at 2:53 pm #971321Shticky GuyParticipantA well known child psychologist said he had 3 solid theories on how to bring up kids. Now he has gotten married and says he has 3 kids and no theories
June 21, 2012 4:34 pm at 4:34 pm #971322good.jewMemberWhat does popa suggest if a person’s daughters get fat?
June 21, 2012 9:42 pm at 9:42 pm #971323NechomahParticipantBuy her bigger clothes.
June 21, 2012 11:06 pm at 11:06 pm #971324popa_bar_abbaParticipantThe parents should themselves eat healthier and exercise more. But, only the wife is allowed to tell the husband this and not vice versa.
June 21, 2012 11:33 pm at 11:33 pm #971325yitayningwutParticipantBut, only the wife is allowed to tell the husband this and not vice versa.
Poe’s Law is an internet adage reflecting the fact that without a clear indication of the author’s intent, it is difficult or impossible to tell the difference between sincere extremism and an exaggerated parody of extremism. -Wikipedia
I think what we have here is “Popa’s Law,” an adage reflecting the fact that without a clear indication of the author’s intent, it is difficult or impossible to tell the difference between sincere decency and an exaggerated parody of decency.
June 22, 2012 1:25 pm at 1:25 pm #971326good.jewMemberI wonder what Popa tells his wife when she gets fat
June 22, 2012 2:29 pm at 2:29 pm #971327BTGuyParticipantlol @ Schticky! lol
June 22, 2012 4:45 pm at 4:45 pm #971328YW Moderator-42ModeratorWhen Popa’s wife got fat, he bought her bigger clothes. When Nechoma got even fatter, he bought her even bigger clothes.
June 22, 2012 4:47 pm at 4:47 pm #971329YW Moderator-42ModeratorThen she continued to get fatter so he had to buy her a new house with bigger doorways and more space between the counter and the fridge.
June 22, 2012 4:49 pm at 4:49 pm #971330YW Moderator-42ModeratorEventually she didn’t fit in the car anymore so he bought her an elephant to ride to work every day.
June 22, 2012 4:51 pm at 4:51 pm #971331YW Moderator-42ModeratorPopa and Nechama each take up 3 seats and part of the aisle on a plane. They ride their elephants to the truck weighing station when they want to weight themselves.
June 26, 2012 3:53 am at 3:53 am #971332good.jewMemberSomehow I can’t see Popa with a fat wife, especially after all of the comments he makes about dating fat girls
June 26, 2012 3:59 am at 3:59 am #971333popa_bar_abbaParticipantSomehow I can’t see Popa with a fat wife, especially after all of the comments he makes about dating fat girls
Actually, I’ve had two already.
June 26, 2012 5:05 am at 5:05 am #971335NechomahParticipant42 – Are those comments really necessary? Even as jokes? Maybe it’s not so funny to those reading or those you’re poking fun at.
June 26, 2012 3:36 pm at 3:36 pm #971336Doodle-Man™MemberNechomah: I find them necessary. 😛
July 25, 2013 1:13 am at 1:13 am #971337iBump 2.0Participantcome on everyone, get into it!
🙂 BUMP 🙂
July 25, 2013 6:28 pm at 6:28 pm #971338popa_bar_abbaParticipantI think what we have here is “Popa’s Law,” an adage reflecting the fact that without a clear indication of the author’s intent, it is difficult or impossible to tell the difference between sincere decency and an exaggerated parody of decency.
lol yitay
July 25, 2013 10:47 pm at 10:47 pm #971339rebdonielMemberParents are to blame for many people’s problems. Kids who grow up without a mother or father, or whose parents have a miserable marriage generally grow up to model these same dysfunctional behaviors.
It amazed me, for instance, how a young woman who lived in a rather affluent suburb, with frum family considered pillars of the community, with a father who made a high salary, still grew up to lack morals, stability, and mental health.
July 26, 2013 5:41 am at 5:41 am #971340HaLeiViParticipantIf parents are to blame then isn’t it better to grow up without them?
July 26, 2013 6:10 am at 6:10 am #971341jewishfeminist02Member“Kids who grow up without a mother or father, or whose parents have a miserable marriage generally grow up to model these same dysfunctional behaviors.”
Being a widow is a “dysfunctional behavior”?
July 26, 2013 8:28 am at 8:28 am #971342moi aussiMemberWhen it comes to shidduchim, orphans are considered damaged goods.
July 26, 2013 9:42 am at 9:42 am #971343jewishfeminist02MemberIs that really true? Hashem help us if it is. I am fortunate that it was not an issue for me.
July 26, 2013 11:34 am at 11:34 am #971344rebdonielMemberNot per se. In fact, maybe many kids are better off with one widowed parent than 2 parents who hate each other’s kishkes.
But, research does show that children raised by 2 parents who are stable and committed in their marriage do have better outcomes than those who don’t. A certain Lubavitch celebrity rabbi to the stars is often quoted as saying that “the best gift 2 parents can give their kids is to love each other.”
In my experience, just about everyone I’ve known from a broken home, or a situation where there was no shalom bayit, has turned out to be affected adversely or to have mental or emotional disturbances of some sort, whether it be a diagnosed illness, selfishness/narcissism, or other personality and character defects.
August 20, 2013 8:00 am at 8:00 am #971345the-art-of-moiParticipanthappy bump night!
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