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  • #601219
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    Tonight, I davened maariv standing nowhere near a siddur. And without checking first to make sure I could say al hanissim. I could.

    #858366
    HaLeiVi
    Participant

    Yeah, but you knew you can whip out your BB and go to iDaven.

    #858367
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    I don’t have internet on my phone. (It is possible I have it, but I don’t have a data plan, and have never used it.)

    #858368
    yitayningwut
    Participant

    Yeah but half the time instead of concentrating on what you were saying you were thinking, “I can do this, I can do this!”

    I know, because I did it too.

    #858369
    Sam2
    Participant

    Yeah, but you knew that if you messed it up or forgot it you were still Yotzei Shmoneh Esrei. I was less brave but more stupid. I went over it to myself (OC Siman 89, by the way, IIRC), made a mistake, still recognized that I knew it, and said it without a Siddur nearby anyway.

    #858371
    gefen
    Participant

    Aren’t you supposed to daven WITH a siddur? that’s what we always learned.

    #858372
    moishy
    Participant

    Yeah, doesn’t the mishna berurah say the first time you say al hanisim you should say it looking inside a siddur??

    #858373
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    Yeah, doesn’t the mishna berurah say the first time you say al hanisim you should say it looking inside a siddur??

    I don’t know. But I’m pretty sure it isn’t the first time I said it. I must have said it a few years ago. I wouldn’t know it by heart otherwise.

    #858374

    ooooh, popa, I see you like to live on the edge. That story gives me shivers. How could you???

    Well…I can one up you. I drink milk past the expiry date. How’s that?

    #858375
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    I don’t even drink milk before the expiration date.

    #858376
    Sam2
    Participant

    PBA: You hold like Rav Schachter?

    #858377
    sem graduate
    Member

    Popa, I believe the halacha is that you are supposed to use a siddur/machzor/text for something that you did not say in the last 30 days. That is why we use a machzor for kiddush on yom tov – for sure the first night. And that is why the first time you say al hanisim should also be with a siddur.

    #858378
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    ??

    #858379
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    realisraeli: hmm. I didn’t know that. Can you throw me a cite?

    #858380
    Sam2
    Participant

    PBA: It’s the Siman I quoted earlier. I think it’s 89 but I could be off.

    #858381
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    89 is about what you are allowed to do before davening.

    #858382
    Sam2
    Participant

    It’s 100 with the Nosei Keilim there.

    #858383
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    It’s Siman 100 (I have the bar ilan).

    And yep, it does say that. Oh well.

    #858384
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    So mistama I’m relying on this:

    ???? ????? ???? ?

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    #858386
    miritchka
    Member

    Popa_bar_abba: Gonna be dan l’kaf zechus and say that just like the speeches of presidents have modernized from paper to teleprompter, i’m gonna go out on a limb and say that you did too!

    #858387
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
    Participant

    is it a sort of new “cool” thing to daven without a siddur? I have never heard of that. Maybe its like being cool and showing off?

    Some people concentrate better with their eyes closed.

    #858390
    BTGuy
    Participant

    Hi DassYochid.

    I am no expert, and I may be wrong, but I would think the concentration may be more on remembering the words than concentrating on the feeling and thoughts behind them. How can one really do all three successfully (remembering correct words, corresponding thoughts, and increasing intensity of feeling)?

    It seems in all cases, and I may be wrong, of making brachos, I have always read it is better to read them even if one knows them inside and out. I have never read where it is preferable to eventually recite by memory.

    Is it a merit to strive to daven without a siddur?

    #858392
    ✡onegoal™
    Participant

    Popa- I just did it. It’s overrated.

    #858393
    littleapple
    Member

    BTG: merit to daven w/o siddur?

    The thing is to do what it takes to daven like your standing in front of The One and Only Hashem. I believe halacha advises eyes closed or down and siddur as a second alternative if the words won’t come otherwise.

    #858394
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    Popa- I just did it. It’s overrated.

    You can’t have just done it. You had to to it last night, or it doesn’t count.

    #858395
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
    Participant

    Is it a merit to strive to daven without a siddur?

    Not that I know of. Everyone should do what works best for them.

    #858396
    ✡onegoal™
    Participant

    Popa- Sorry, I didn’t realize it didn’t count. (I still think it’s overrated)

    #858397
    ItcheSrulik
    Member

    Popa: I did it too. Do you remember whether you said v’achar kein or v’achrei chein?

    always runs with scissors fast: No, it’s a halacha brought in RaMBa”M and shulchan aruch. RaMBaM recommends looking over the special prayers before yomtov so you can say them. The mechaber, writing after printing gives looking at a siddur as a second option in general.

    #858398
    Bar Shattya
    Member

    I did similar to popa. the guy next to me had a siddur but what could i do? thats where he was.

    Anyhow, today during supper i told someone the “forgetting al hanissim harachaman” so he wouldnt have to look it up in a bencher, then just for kicks also said the “forgetting rtzei bracha” so you might think i’m just so good at forgetting things so I added the birchas zimun for shave brachos (something I’ve never said for real.

    #858399
    BSD
    Member

    “And without checking first to make sure I could say al hanissim. I could.”

    Impressive. What about vi’al haporkun?

    #858400
    Sam2
    Participant

    Itche: Don’t you “V’achar Kein” as opposed to “V’achar Kach”? It has to be a Kaf to start the word.

    #858401
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    I said v’achar kein. That was how it was in whichever siddur I used as a kid, apparently.

    You know, if y’all would have davened when you were a kid, you’d know it all by heart also.

    I don’t ever even take a siddur. Even on shabbos. The only time I take a siddur is for Mon-thu tachanun. And I take it before tachanun and put it back after.

    Shabbos is easy. The first y’kum purkan is for the rabbis, so you end the words with ???, which means “them.” The second one is for the community, so you end the word with ??? which means “you.” Nothin’ to it. You know you are messing up on yontiff if you pause to think about if you should say ?? ?? or ??.

    One of my brothers can do barchi nafshi. I can’t. I know most of it by heart, but I don’t always know what the next paragraph is.

    #858402
    Sam2
    Participant

    PBA: You have Shabbos Pesukei D’zimra down? I still need a Siddur for that sometimes. And what about B’rich Shmeh? What about Rosh Hashanah Mussaf? Do you use a Siddur for that (I would be duly impressed if you know that one by heart)? Also, if you said V’yiten Lecha I guarantee you that you would pull out a Siddur every Motzai Shabbos (what about Kiddush Levana, by the way).

    #858403
    2scents
    Participant

    Interesting, V’al Hanisim you have no problem saying by heart, although you do not say it from year to year.

    However Tachnun which is said twice each week you take a siddur.

    #858404
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    You have Shabbos Pesukei D’zimra down?

    Uhhh. Let’s just say I don’t need a siddur for the parts I come early enough to say. I think I actually know the mizmorim by heart, but sometimes need a prompt for which one is next.

    And what about B’rich Shmeh?

    I’ve known that since I was like 10.

    What about Rosh Hashanah Mussaf?

    No. But I know maariv, shachris, mincha.

    Also, if you said V’yiten Lecha I guarantee you that you would pull out a Siddur every Motzai Shabbos

    I would know it. I’ve read it a time or two, it doesn’t seem very complicated.

    (what about Kiddush Levana, by the way).

    Kiddush levana is the best example. It is so much easier not to have to hock around getting the card, and then taking it back inside. I’ve been saying that by heart for years.

    Interesting, V’al Hanisim you have no problem saying by heart, although you do not say it from year to year.

    However Tachnun which is said twice each week you take a siddur.

    Certain things are harder than others. Tachanun is very confusing, since it is very repetitive, and shares similar prompts with other parts of davening. You can start in tachanun and end up saying psukei dzimra, or benching, or tashlich, or shiluach haken.

    You don’t want to absentmindedly start shooing imaginary birds during tachanun.

    #858405
    midwesterner
    Participant

    I live about a 16 minute walk from the place I daven at Shabbos morning. I’ve found that if I walk out the door with Asher nasan lasechvi vina, I get to the shul at Az Yashir. If I’m late, I will sometimes skip the Halleluka halleu es Shem Hashem (too confusing with Hallel Hagadol), then Hallel hagadol (always get thrown off with 26 times ki l’olam chasdo) and Ranenu Tzadikim (too interchangable with Yehi ch’vod). (Can you tell that I daven Ashkenaz?) The rest goes smooth without any trouble. With proper concentration I sometimes can do those as well. I make up the missing parts when I have a siddur, right before Nishmas, and all is well.

    #858406
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    I should mention. One of the surest ways to make people hate you, is to correct the baal korei while you have an aliya.

    #858407
    ✡onegoal™
    Participant

    Just a random story. A while back my brother was davening for the amud on shabbos morning and managed to get up to ashrei without anybody noticing he was davening weekday psukei dzimra.

    #858408
    midwesterner
    Participant

    Popa: You know where to find me. I challenge you!! (I have done this myself to others and gotten ‘the look’! Not very often, though. My far too large ego does not allow me to tolerate listening to very many others.)

    Onegoal: Very few people pay attention to Shabbos morning pesukei dezimra. Ther are many places where there is not even a shatz up there at all. If davening starts at, let’s say 8:00, that just means that someone goes up at 8:30 and says Shochein Ad.

    #858409
    ✡onegoal™
    Participant

    midwesterner- I haer you, but at least one person in the entire shul (which only has about 11 congregants) should notice.

    #858410
    Sam2
    Participant

    PBA: Any Ba’al Korei who makes a correctable mistake during Channukah Leining deserves it anyway, unless you’re just talking in general and that didn’t happen today.

    #858411
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    midwesterner: but this week is an out shabbos, no?

    Sam: it wasn’t today. It happened on shabbos veyeitzei, and also on shabbos vayishlach.

    #858412
    ✡onegoal™
    Participant

    popa- This shabbos is definitely not a out shabbos, more like an in shabbos. (not really but it’s one of the highlights of the year so everyone stays)

    #858413
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    Why does everyone stay shabbos chanuka?

    #858414
    ✡onegoal™
    Participant

    My brother (who is there) told me the two highlights of the year are chanukah and purim. Why? I don’t know. It’s so good in fact that my last shabbos here he is staying there.

    #858415
    midwesterner
    Participant

    My place likes to stay in SHabbos Chanuka. Chanuka is a celebration of conquering the yavanim who were anti limud Hatorah and listening to chazal. Kisvu lachem al Keren hashor etc and all the rest. We have a big melave malka, and bnai Torah from around the cournty who have an off Shabbos come to our event. Guest speaker is scheduled to be the rosh kollel of the newest kollel in the neighborhood, RYR of KOT.

    And I never get an off Shabbos anyway. Even if the guys would be away, I’d still be working. Refer to my previous comment about my intolerance of most other baalei kriah. (Although I’d be curious to hear what The Wolf sounds like.)

    #858416
    nitpicker
    Participant

    TO poppa

    I have seen this many times and have been on both sides of it myself at times. I don’t know where the hate comes in.

    Haven’t seen that and I am shocked.

    #858417
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    nitpicker: Can you rephrase that? I think I lost you.

    #858418
    nitpicker
    Participant

    OK.

    sorry if i wasnt clear.

    again, I have seen the oleh correct the baal koreh many times.

    I myself have been in both position. (served as corrector or correctee).

    I haven’t seen any hate caused by this event. I am shocked that you have and think it normal. I have seen annoyance, especially if the corrector is wrong (or the baal koreh thinks he is wrong).

    but hate?!

    #858419
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    That’s nice to hear.

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