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December 11, 2011 5:25 pm at 5:25 pm #601086springbok007Participant
Recently overheard in an office environment; two people ordered food from a dairy establishment, thereupon decided the food tasted terrible,called up to complain how bad the food was, they were throwing it out, however, they actually continued eating, received the credit toward a future purchase, full value, no food was left at the end. Derech agav a brocho achrono was made, after all how can one eat without benching!
What is the halacha?
December 11, 2011 5:31 pm at 5:31 pm #834428popa_bar_abbaParticipantWhat is the question?
December 11, 2011 5:35 pm at 5:35 pm #834429yentingyentaParticipantyour post just brought back SO many memories. my dad had a restaurant for 10 years. can’t say how many times he would have customers buy a full meal, then at the end say x was too hot, y was too spicy etc. and then expect not to pay/refund/coupon… if you don’t like the food, STOP EATING! if you eat the meal then complain, you’re a shnurrer plain and simple. and just FYI, the managers/proprietors/waiters all know what you did.
sorry. don’t know the halacha though.
December 11, 2011 5:38 pm at 5:38 pm #834430springbok007Participantwhat is the halocha?
December 11, 2011 5:39 pm at 5:39 pm #834431springbok007Participantcan they use the credit? mitzva(brochos) habo alyedei avaira!!
December 11, 2011 5:42 pm at 5:42 pm #834432popa_bar_abbaParticipantYou are asking if they can use the credit? Assuming they were legitimately complaining, I don’t see why not.
Why do you assume the complaint was not legitimate?
December 11, 2011 5:48 pm at 5:48 pm #834433springbok007Participantthey were laughing and ate the entire meal
December 11, 2011 5:50 pm at 5:50 pm #834434gefenParticipantpopa – it sounds like the reason they are assuming the complaint was not legit was because they continued to eat it. if it was so “terrible” as they claimed why would they finish up the whole thing? i wouldn’t eat something i thought was terrible, would you?
December 11, 2011 5:59 pm at 5:59 pm #834435popa_bar_abbaParticipantgefen: I don’t know about that. If it was below the standard they expected, then they had a legitimate complaint. It might still be edible, and they were hungry. I don’t see anything bizarre here.
December 11, 2011 6:44 pm at 6:44 pm #834436springbok007Participantyou are receiving credit for the food and eating it.?
December 11, 2011 7:00 pm at 7:00 pm #834437popa_bar_abbaParticipantyou are receiving credit for the food and eating it.?
Why not? The store didn’t ask for it back, did they? Who does it help to throw it out?
December 11, 2011 7:34 pm at 7:34 pm #834438stamamenMemberthe OP said the person falsely claimed to the restaurant that it was inedible – that they are throwing the food out, in order to entice the restaurant to give them credit, when in fact that was a lie and they did not throw the food out as they claimed.
so It was ganeiva.
December 11, 2011 8:01 pm at 8:01 pm #834439popa_bar_abbaParticipantthe OP said the person falsely claimed to the restaurant that it was inedible
Was that the story, you are correct, that might change things. However, the restaurant would understand what they meant by inedible- not that it was truly impossible to eat.
But, since you apparently missed the OP, I will copy it here:
Recently overheard in an office environment; two people ordered food from a dairy establishment, thereupon decided the food tasted terrible,called up to complain how bad the food was, they were throwing it out, however, they actually continued eating, received the credit toward a future purchase, full value, no food was left at the end. Derech agav a brocho achrono was made, after all how can one eat without benching!
What is the halacha?
It says “terrible,” not “inedible.”
December 11, 2011 8:15 pm at 8:15 pm #834440springbok007Participantfinally someone sees the value of this tremendous mussar haskel. I”YH people will think twice before doing something like this.
December 11, 2011 8:36 pm at 8:36 pm #834441littleappleMemberI agree w/ stam they were goneiv daas when they said they would throw it out. Interestingly the gem. in Chulin mentions the inyan of geneivas das goyim on the same daf with the sugya of dvarim chashuvim aino butal, for instance say you have 3 T-bone steaks and one is treif min ha Torah you can eat all three, majority rules but the Rabbi’s prohibited portions that are fit to serve a guest from being subsumed in the majority, so they are assur- I always thought there was a connection that to serve all three as kosher even tho the Torah would hold you could wouldn’t it transgress gneivas das habrios? (Could be a side reason for the gezeirah)
December 11, 2011 8:49 pm at 8:49 pm #834442stamamenMemberpopa, the customer lied to the restuarant (falsely claiming they threw the food out) in order to get the credit.
December 11, 2011 8:59 pm at 8:59 pm #834443popa_bar_abbaParticipantstamamen: popa, the customer lied to the restuarant (falsely claiming they threw the food out) in order to get the credit.
littleapple: I agree w/ stam they were goneiv daas when they said they would throw it out.
meh. I don’t see anything wrong still. Maybe they did intend to throw it out, but then decided they were hungry.
It all goes back to whether the complaint was legitimate and in good faith, in my opinion.
December 12, 2011 2:17 am at 2:17 am #834444TheGoqParticipantLast time i ordered from a certain burger joint it came about an hour and forty five minutes after i ordered it and the food was cold , not warm not hot but cold and therefore unappetizing i called the place and they suggested i put the food in the microwave i told them if i wanted to cook dinner i wouldn’t have ordered from you, mind you this place is about a 4 minute drive from my house. They said they would give me a credit next time i ordered i highly doubt that will happen. For the record i ate about half the chilled food but that is not what i paid for i paid for a hot meal.
December 12, 2011 4:06 am at 4:06 am #834445JotharMemberAin zeh mevarech ela mena’etz.
December 12, 2011 5:31 am at 5:31 am #834446TheGoqParticipantJothar what does that mean?
December 12, 2011 3:28 pm at 3:28 pm #834447littleappleMemberpba: It all goes back to whether the complaint was legitimate and in good faith,
I agree w/ this, if the complaint was in good faith and not just to take advantage and get a credit they could do whatever they want with the food after since the place is not taking it back.. I suggest to restaurant owners however that the best thing to do would be to send out a replacement order asap.
December 12, 2011 4:49 pm at 4:49 pm #834448JotharMemberThe gemara in sukkos says that stealing something and making a bracha on it is cursing Hashem- ain zeh mevarech ela mena’etz.
December 12, 2011 7:16 pm at 7:16 pm #834449TheGoqParticipantJothar did u write that in response to my post or just in general?
December 12, 2011 7:43 pm at 7:43 pm #834450BowwowParticipantI was once involved in a retail food establishment. People would come back and say “I bought ____(insert item here) for a party and it was terrible. Nobody was able to eat it”. If you asked them what they did with it “Oh, I served it anyway” usually meant they were just fishing for a credit or refund. If however they came back with half a ___ you knew it was a truly valid complaint.
With any retail establishment (especially food) the best practice is that “the customer is ALWAYS right” whether you think so or not, and just do whatever you can to placate them.
December 12, 2011 8:57 pm at 8:57 pm #834451popa_bar_abbaParticipantGOQ: I think Jothar was responding to the OP.
December 12, 2011 9:39 pm at 9:39 pm #834452TheGoqParticipantThank you Popa i thought so too.
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