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May 11, 2014 8:31 am at 8:31 am #612740pixelateMember
So, my son is 16 years old already, and i was hoping he would stop misbehaving so i don’t have to give him petch. He complains that his friends’ fathers never give their children petch, but i know it’s because they’re the new ‘modern’ type who don’t listen to the gedoilim anyways. My son doesn’t listen to me on purpose, and he knows we only wear double breasted suits, but he doesn’t care. There’s a fine niche in yiddishkeit that is missing in this new generation. Also, these new belts they make are so stiff, they don’t whip so well.
May 11, 2014 8:50 am at 8:50 am #1014865ben_DavidParticipantSniff Sniff…I smell MO…sniff sniff…I also smell a failed attempt at trolling…
May 11, 2014 10:02 am at 10:02 am #1014866sm29ParticipantTeens usually act out because they want to be independent and be their own person. they need both space and boundaries. It’s hard to find a balance, but we should keep trying. Some advice i read somewhere was talk to them about things, listen to them, and pick what to be strict about, for ex. drinking, etc. and what to let go, for ex. a small thing that’s irritating but Not important.
For parents in general, Project Yes has some good parenting resources B’H
May 11, 2014 10:15 am at 10:15 am #1014867yocbmMemberwhre do u live so i can call the cops? If u want ur son to listen show some love and maybe even talk to him vehigadata lebincha. The way u are heading i give son another year or two at most till he completely hates u and judaism. The choice is urs hope u make the right move
May 11, 2014 11:49 am at 11:49 am #1014868HaLeiViParticipantUse your wife’s belt.
May 11, 2014 12:10 pm at 12:10 pm #1014869☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantUse the Jackie Robinson rather than the belt. Much faster, and a better hitter.
May 11, 2014 1:12 pm at 1:12 pm #1014870SaysMeMembera failed attempt at humor too. This isn’t funny, esp if ppl are taking it seriously.
Imo, should be closed
May 11, 2014 8:46 pm at 8:46 pm #1014871the plumberMemberLet the guy hav his fun. If you don’t like his humor, no one asked you to post.
May 11, 2014 10:18 pm at 10:18 pm #1014872EpisParticipantpixelate, I volenteer by a place which deals with kids from chasidesh/ Haimesh homes who are at risk. I don’t know if you are serious or not, but you should know two things:
1. You want to prove to him that you love him unconditionally (this does not happen by hitting it actually turns him off).
2. That when it comes to hitting your son who is a teenager, he will do just the oposite of what you want. Having a heart to heart conversation (with the parents not on their devices) with him may bring out a better results.
May 11, 2014 11:18 pm at 11:18 pm #1014873pixelateMemberMay 12, 2014 12:21 am at 12:21 am #1014874gefenParticipantSaysMe +100000000
May 12, 2014 1:03 am at 1:03 am #1014875sm29ParticipantI had a feeling but i wrote something just in case
May 12, 2014 2:56 am at 2:56 am #1014876the plumberMemberGood. You guys really caught him red handed this time. Now pixelate, I’m gonna give ua petch on the wrist and don’t do it again.
May 12, 2014 3:00 am at 3:00 am #1014877HaLeiViParticipantMaybe they were trolling and making you feel bad for no reason.
May 12, 2014 8:25 pm at 8:25 pm #1014878👑RebYidd23ParticipantThey may have been trolling.
May 13, 2014 10:00 pm at 10:00 pm #1014880funnyboneParticipantMaybe your son is misbehaving because his father is a troll? Research has shown that 80% of troll children act out their troll impulses by misbehaving instead of trolling. This research was done by Freud himself!
May 14, 2014 11:12 am at 11:12 am #1014881ymbyiMemberWhy are almost all my posts regardless of content erased???
I posted something very nice here and you removed it.
please read the rules
May 14, 2014 11:48 am at 11:48 am #1014882ymbyiMemberTo the Mod. I think you are making the rules up as you go along. I have seen people post terrible things on this board and you allow it through.
Let face the truth. You just do not like what I have to say and worse you know that it is true.
We approve plenty of posts which we do not agree with. If you cannot read and follow the rules, maybe the CR is not for you.
May 14, 2014 11:50 am at 11:50 am #1014883ymbyiMemberSo tell me Mod: Was did you shut down my newest post about Keeping kids on the Derech, I read through your offical rules and I did not violate a single one them.
If you can tell me, which rule I violated in this post I would be happy so that I can learn for next time.
Nothing was deleted. I don’t know what you are referring to.
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