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November 10, 2014 3:29 am at 3:29 am #614199The ShecklerMember
Help! My name is Abraham and I am a very average upper middle class Jew. My family and I reside in upstate New York. My wife and I have been blessed with three children and for the past 18 years have been living in complete peace and harmony. My problem arose a few months ago when my eldest son, Aaron, started acting differently. Having once been a young adult like my son I thought nothing of this as the saying does go, “boys will be boys.” The next night however I heard rustling from down the hall. Concerned for the safety of my family I entered down the hall and into his room where the sound was coming from. To my complete and utter surprise I witnessed Aaron sprawled under the covers with a bag of Evan’s brand Pork Rinds. As a practicing Jew I do not condemn my next actions. I bellowed at my son and struck him once and grabbing the bag I exited his room. The next morning I arose and went downstairs to speak to my son about the severity of his actions. I lectured him of the Kosher laws and the importance of staying by them but to no avail. He told me that he found them ridiculous and that laughed at my Jewish faith. This is not the boy I raised. Please help me before it is too late.
-Abraham
November 10, 2014 4:36 am at 4:36 am #1041100☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantIt’s already too late.
Lol at the bit of being concerned for the safety of your family ‘cuz you heard rustling pork rinds.
November 10, 2014 4:41 am at 4:41 am #1041101👑RebYidd23Participant“As a practicing Jew I do not condemn my next actions. I bellowed at my son and struck him once and grabbing the bag I exited his room.”
Those actions are extremely damaging and probably did far more harm than good.
November 10, 2014 4:55 am at 4:55 am #1041102yitzchokmParticipant@DaasYochid,
Sorry, but your jib about the rustling pork rinds is uncalled for. This yid is in pain.
November 10, 2014 4:58 am at 4:58 am #1041103yitzchokmParticipant@RebYidd23, as the op points out, he’s ashamed of his actions. He needs advice on the proper next move.
November 10, 2014 5:00 am at 5:00 am #1041104☕ DaasYochid ☕Participant@yitzchokm, Yes, he might have pulled a muscle laughing so hard at the people who believed his tale.
November 10, 2014 6:21 am at 6:21 am #1041105RandomexMemberI was not surprised to find that the thread-starter had been a member for 3 hours.
November 10, 2014 7:33 am at 7:33 am #1041106HaLeiViParticipantThis kind of behavior is not likely, unless the parent was completely oblivious to everything until that point.
November 10, 2014 12:25 pm at 12:25 pm #1041107RandomexMember“My problem arose a few months ago when my eldest son, Aaron, started acting differently.”
“The next night however I heard rustling from down the hall.”
“The next morning I arose and went downstairs to speak to my son about the severity of his actions.”
And then, a few undescribed months later, this thread is created. I think everyone should be able to see the problem now…
(Not to mention that “rustling” coming from a room one can
expect to be in use is no cause for alarm, and that no frum
Jew would describe himself as “practicing.”)
November 10, 2014 1:12 pm at 1:12 pm #1041108ivoryParticipantDid you ever directly advise him not to eat pork?
November 10, 2014 1:46 pm at 1:46 pm #1041109oomisParticipantSounds like some teenager wrote this and yanked more than a few CR chains. I have no doubt that there are many families experiencing such a crisis,and for that reason it disturbs me all the more that someone would post this. Pork rinds???? Seriously???? And then you say you “heard” rustling down the hall from under his covers? Are you Superman?
November 10, 2014 2:38 pm at 2:38 pm #1041110ED IT ORParticipantDid you knock before entering his room?
November 10, 2014 2:55 pm at 2:55 pm #1041111oot for lifeParticipantisn’t him naming himself and his son personal information? how’d the mods let this through?
November 10, 2014 3:14 pm at 3:14 pm #1041112☕️coffee addictParticipantyitzchak,
if he was upset wouldnt it say commend not condemn
why do people troll, what do they get out of it?
November 10, 2014 3:56 pm at 3:56 pm #1041114oot for lifeParticipantwhy does anyone make leitzanus, they need to boost their own ego at the expense of something else
November 10, 2014 6:49 pm at 6:49 pm #1041116SayIDidIt™Participantwhy do people troll, what do they get out of it?
I’ve been wondering the same thing!
SiDi™
November 10, 2014 8:41 pm at 8:41 pm #1041117tzviki16Membermaybe the pork rinds were kosher imitations
maybe it was a clone of your son
November 10, 2014 8:58 pm at 8:58 pm #1041118SayIDidIt™ParticipantWould the clone not also be Jewish?
But if the clone was eating imitation pork rinds that would be ok.
😉
SiDi™
November 10, 2014 9:37 pm at 9:37 pm #1041119tzviki16Memberthe clone would not be jewish.
was the golem of prague jewish?
was there a golem of prague?
November 10, 2014 10:04 pm at 10:04 pm #1041120👑RebYidd23ParticipantDepends who the mother is.
November 10, 2014 10:31 pm at 10:31 pm #1041121☕️coffee addictParticipantoot,
but how does it boost their ego, what they got such and such amount of people to post on their thread, whoopie
November 10, 2014 11:05 pm at 11:05 pm #1041122oyyoyyoyParticipantisn’t him naming himself and his son personal information? how’d the mods let this through?
cause the mods wrote it duh
November 10, 2014 11:37 pm at 11:37 pm #1041123☕️coffee addictParticipantoyyoyyoy,
but isnt being a mod the biggest ego booster?
November 11, 2014 12:49 am at 12:49 am #1041124oyyoyyoyParticipantI wasnt going with that lomdus. But if youre learning like that then i’ll tell you- if it is, thats the saddest thing ive heard my whole life
November 11, 2014 2:02 am at 2:02 am #1041125☕️coffee addictParticipantyou get to approve or not approve posts, give people your own subtitle, and choose not to approve a post for hours on end
November 11, 2014 2:14 am at 2:14 am #1041126👑RebYidd23ParticipantBut there are multiple mods, so one might approve the posts that the other mod is purposefully ignoring.
Or one mod might approve the poster that the other mod is purposefully ignoring.
November 11, 2014 3:09 am at 3:09 am #1041127☕️coffee addictParticipantyeah, i know mods ignore me a lot 🙂
November 11, 2014 3:11 am at 3:11 am #1041128☕️coffee addictParticipantanyway unnamed mod,
im trying to defend you guys, no one likes to be known as a trroll
November 11, 2014 6:25 am at 6:25 am #1041130YW Moderator-29 👨💻Moderatorand choose not to approve a post for hours on end
yeah, i know mods ignore me a lot
thanks for the defense . . . I think O.o
November 11, 2014 11:36 am at 11:36 am #1041132☕️coffee addictParticipantOr one mod might approve the poster that the other mod is purposefully ignoring.
ur the mod that approves the poster
November 11, 2014 12:28 pm at 12:28 pm #1041133RandomexMemberBut there are multiple mods, so one might approve the posts that the other mod is purposefully ignoring.
Or one mod might approve the poster that the other mod is purposefully ignoring.
Unknown mod:
Huh?
November 11, 2014 5:07 pm at 5:07 pm #1041134yitzchokmParticipantWow! It looks like I really misread this one!
November 11, 2014 6:19 pm at 6:19 pm #1041135☕️coffee addictParticipantrandomex,
posts are something a poster posts, so hes not approving posts hes approving the poster in order for him to post (thats my take)
November 11, 2014 7:26 pm at 7:26 pm #1041136Baruch10901ParticipantOY! and we were taught that OUd is treif. How can you take anyone seriously who uses “CUZ” There are those who believe this is a word
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