And just to add some perspective, I do enjoy music. Though I don’t often listen to music. And even though I don’t care too much difference between one and the next, I do enjoy classical music (I.e. Beethoven, Mozart, etc.) the most. Other than that I don’t listen to anything non-Jewish. And I do like MBD more than anyone else, though that is probably the only specific singer I care for specifically. And I do enjoy “old” Yiddish niggunim over other stuff.
And for what it’s worth, I don’t enjoy wine/alcohol much. It actually upsets my stomach after more than a second cup. I’ve never gotten drunk in my life (or even close to it). I can’t drink more than a touch of whiskey. And I very rarely do “fun”/enjoyable/entertainment stuff. I’d much rather read the news or listen to talk radio, which I am frequently doing to the exclusion of much else.
So let the psychoanalysis begin.