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  • #1184899
    TheGoq
    Participant

    when i think back throughout the year there were many many times i said things i should not have if anyone was hurt by something i said please be mochel me and i will try and do better in the future

    #1184900
    am yisrael chai
    Participant

    Sure, Goq, you’re forgiven for all those times your jokes made my stomach hurt laughing so much…

    #1184901
    MiddlePath
    Participant

    I would like say to everyone here- Please forgive me for anything that I may have said that caused any of you to be embarrassed, upset, hurt, annoyed, or anything less than happy, directly or indirectly. I sincerely apologize for it. And I absolutely forgive anyone here for anything they may have said that caused me any of the above feelings.

    #1184902
    TheGoq
    Participant

    ty ayc 🙂 im passing u one!

    #1184903
    adorable
    Participant

    Hope I never hurt anyone here but I am sure that I did and I beg you all to be mochel. We dont know each other here so its a little easier to be mochel a total stranger for saying something hurtful. May we all be blessed with a year full of happiness and bracha and see the hand of Hashem in the good times so we dont have to be tested.

    #1184904
    kapusta
    Participant

    *bump*

    msseeker, smartcookie, please see my post on the previous page.

    *kapusta*

    #1184905
    smartcookie
    Member

    Kapusta- I don’t recall anything you posted which upset me. Would you care to tell me on which thread I can find that?

    #1184906
    kapusta
    Participant

    I think I went a little overboard in my response to a certain thread.

    *kapusta*

    #1184907
    smartcookie
    Member

    Kapusta- I cannot be Mochel if I don’t know what it was all about.

    All I can say is that I recall no such incident and therefore have no hard feeling against you.

    #1184908
    kapusta
    Participant

    I have a reason for not mentioning specifics. Glad to hear you don’t remember it happening.

    *kapusta*

    #1184909
    vochindik
    Member

    I hope the oilem is mochel for anything and everything, intentional or unintentional.

    #1184910
    SayIDidIt™
    Participant

    To all those I may have offended or hurt in my 10 months here, I am truly sorry!

    To shopping613; I attacked you about SUC (the Mods blocked them, but I still did it). Just because I disagree about something, doesn’t give me the right to tell others what to or not to do. I’m sorry.

    To the YWEditor, Mods and PBA: As i mentioned in other threads I am sorry about my silly complaining! I hope you were Mochel me!!

    To all of Klal Yisroel: May this year be the end of all our tzaros! May Hashem pour down on us all the Brachos in the world and may we see the Binyan Bayis HaShlishi in 5772!!!

    #1184911
    Shopping613 🌠
    Participant

    Look, I never thought it as being attacked till I looked here….I thought we were having a nice loud, blunt discussion! But I forgive you!

    If I hurt anyone her I’m very sorry and please forgive me! I forgive each and every one of you! And I hope you’ll forgive me too!

    ?ns ?o suo?????do ?o p??? pu? ‘??p???? ‘??puno? ???

    (319bu?ddo?s) 319[$]

    [$]613 (Shopping613)

    The Founder, Awarder, and Head of Operations of SUC

    #1184912

    I am mochel anyone who may have insulted/offended me.

    I wish you all a ksiva vachasima tova and a gut yor.

    #1184913
    oomis
    Participant

    I try hard NOT to offend or insult anyone, but if I have done so, albeit unintentionally, I am very sorry. I likewise am not upset with anyone here, so no one needs to ask my mechilah for any reason. A good gebensched and healthy year to all of us.

    #1184914
    Shopping613 🌠
    Participant

    Wow…I can only try…..I wish I could do that! Until yom kipur?????

    Volantarily or you just don’t have time?

    ?ns ?o suo?????do ?o p??? pu? ‘??p???? ‘??puno? ???

    (319bu?ddo?s) 319[$]

    [$]613 (Shopping613)

    The Founder, Awarder, and Head of Operations of SUC

    #1184915
    SayIDidIt™
    Participant

    Shopping: Thanks!! (As I said, the Mods didn’t let them through, and now I’m glad about that! Thanks Mods, AGAIN!!!)

    #1184916
    shein
    Member

    We should all be mochel everyone across the board here.

    I am.

    #1184917
    chavrusa
    Member

    Great thread.

    Shein, in theory you are 100% correct.

    However, I wish I could, but I cannot, especially when there are several posters who did unbelievable avlos here and never asked for mechila.

    I would use my regular sn, however, my password was revoked awhile back and was reinstated almost immediately with a new one and have no idea what that may be, as I could not bring myself to write here for a looong time…

    I tried to contribute here as best as I could, but I got kicked over and over.

    It’s almost Rosh Hashana, and still there’s no apology from them (I’m not planning on naming names)or the insight for what the repercussions were…

    I’ve been requested to write an “Ask the Rabbi” type column online, but with my experience here online, how can I???

    For any newbies, plz don’t ask to what I’m referring, TIA.

    AYC

    #1184918
    shein
    Member

    WB AYC!

    #1184919
    chavrusa
    Member

    TY! But I don’t know that I’m back…I was hoping that some specific people would care about mechillos before the Yomim Noraim…and certainly I could use A LOT help to be able to be mochel such a horrible experience…esp. during this season…

    #1184920
    iced
    Member

    Mochel Loch.

    #1184921
    shein
    Member

    AYC: You were sorely missed. I (and many others) hope you will choose to stay.`

    #1184922
    TheGoq
    Participant

    See the top of this page for my post from last year please apply to this year thank you.

    #1184923
    shein
    Member

    AYC: Please note this thread:

    Final post and request for mechila

    I believe it is something you were waiting for.

    #1184924
    🍫Syag Lchochma
    Participant

    I don’t know who you are or if this is supposed to be funny but that writing does not resemble anything AYC would write. If I am wrong, forgive me, but if I am not wrong, this isn’t funny.

    #1184925
    shein
    Member

    Please be mochel for everything.

    I am mochel all.

    #1184926
    Likud
    Member

    I would like to ask forgiveness for the many times I have even read loshon hora, something that unfortunately frequently gets posted, even if I did not believe it. After all, there is a sin to simply listen to it.

    Of course the victim of this crime is the person(s) being spoken about. And more often than not that person is not even a participant of the forum. So asking forgiveness, even publicly, is unlikely to reach the only person(s) who can issue that mechila.

    Which, of course, is the point in refraining from engaging in (listening or spreading) loshon hora in the first place, considering the extreme difficulty in obtaining absolution.

    #1184927
    Likud
    Member

    I hereby humbly ask mechila from anyone and everyone that I heard or read loshon hora, rechilus or motzei shem ra about, on this forum or anywhere else, whether I was or wasn’t mekabel said loshon hora, rechilus or motzei shem ra.

    #1184928
    TheGoq
    Participant

    To anyone here who’s feelings i may have hurt in any way please be mochel me and i of course am mochel all of you.

    #1184929

    Please be mochel me for any pain I intentionally or unintentionally caused.

    #1184930
    Joseph
    Participant

    I request mechila for any offense I may have committed against anyone.

    #1184932
    Joseph
    Participant

    Zats mir mochel, teiere chaveirim.

    #1184933
    Joseph
    Participant

    It’s <bumping> season.

    #1184934
    Joseph
    Participant

    Is mechila still in style?

    #1184935
    Joseph
    Participant

    Please forgive me, be ye young or be ye old, for all my sins against you new or old.

    Gmar Chasima Tova.

    #1184936
    lesschumras
    Participant

    I request mechila for any offense I may have committed against anyone

    #1184937
    Joseph
    Participant

    Can we get an early start this year or must we wait a few more days for Rosh Chodesh Elul?

    #1184938
    dovrosenbaum
    Participant

    I cannot forgive. I’ve been really burned by some individuals. I’d sue them, but there’s an issur arkaos.

    #1184939
    Lilmod Ulelamaid
    Participant

    dovrosenbaum – Have I ever done anything to hurt you? If so, please let me know. Thanks!

    #1184940
    Geordie613
    Participant

    There is an excellent article by Rav Arye Zeev Ginzburg in last week’s Mishpacha magazine on the subject of mechila. He has also set up a new initiative to help childless couples and older singles. It’s a must read!

    #1184941
    Lilmod Ulelamaid
    Participant

    Geordie613- thanks for the info!

    #1184942
    ☕️coffee addict
    Participant

    I’m sorry I hurt you Lilmod, it’s a lot harder to realize that posters get hurt where you can’t see their facial expressions and cannot tell how sensitive the poster is

    #1184944
    Lilmod Ulelamaid
    Participant

    Sparkly, I’m sorry for any times that I was mean to you. I hope you are moichel me.

    #1184945
    Lilmod Ulelamaid
    Participant

    Joseph, shkoyach on bumping this thread! Tizkeh L’Mitzvos!

    #1184946
    Sparkly
    Member

    lilmod ulelamaid – totally fine. do you forgive me? i hope everyone on here forgives me????

    #1184947
    ☕️coffee addict
    Participant

    Wow!

    I was just reading the posts from years past

    Maybe Joe should ask for mechila for having so many screen names

    #1184948
    Sparkly
    Member

    coffee addict – whos joe?

    #1184949
    ☕️coffee addict
    Participant

    Joseph, look at all the subtitles of previous posters

    #1184950
    Lilmod Ulelamaid
    Participant

    Sparkly – If there is anything you need to ask me mechila for, I am moichel.

    CA: “Joseph, look at all the subtitles of previous posters”

    Joseph, what’s the pshat? Are they really all you?

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