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May 6, 2013 11:02 pm at 11:02 pm #609241Torah613TorahParticipant
Is good.
Since women are equal and opposite, them doing the same is bad.
QED
May 7, 2013 2:28 am at 2:28 am #952020YW Moderator-42ModeratorThe minhag of the Tanaim and Amoroim was to wear robes while they shteiged all night.
May 7, 2013 3:21 am at 3:21 am #952021WIYMemberI’m not sure one can say women are equal if they are talking in a Torah sense. Although under American law women are equal.
May 7, 2013 3:25 am at 3:25 am #952022WIYMember42
I’m glad that mens fashion moved forward 🙂
May 7, 2013 5:03 am at 5:03 am #952023Sam2ParticipantThe Gemara says B’feirush that it’s Assur for men to wear pants.
May 7, 2013 5:09 am at 5:09 am #952024WIYMemberSam2?
Really? Where? Why is it assur in that gemara and why is it mutar today to wear pants unless of course we just don’t hold like that maan daamar.
May 7, 2013 6:24 am at 6:24 am #952025Sam2ParticipantWIY: Without being specific about the topic, I believe the Gemara is Niddah 13a. It says B’feirush that “Michnasayim” are Assur for a man to wear. See the Aruch Hashulchan (in Even Ha’ezer 21, I think, maybe S”K 13) who defines “Michnasayim” based on earlier Poskim in a way that makes a lot more sense than saying that “pants are Assur”.
May 7, 2013 4:12 pm at 4:12 pm #952026Torah613TorahParticipantWIY: Under natural law women are not equal. Men cannot have children.
I like writing mock proofs much better than real ones.
May 7, 2013 4:57 pm at 4:57 pm #952027WIYMemberTorah
Neither one can have children without the other so yes they aren’t equal.
May 7, 2013 6:05 pm at 6:05 pm #952028Sam2ParticipantWIY: You’re clearly not up on the latest sceince. Women can have children without men now.
May 7, 2013 6:31 pm at 6:31 pm #952030rabbiofberlinParticipantSam2: your “mareh mekomos” for the prohibition of pants for men must be erroneous. Aruch Hashulchan ,Even Ho’ezer 21 does not have a S/K 13 and I quickly perused the gemoro in niddah 13A and 13B that you are pointing to and I don’;t see what you are maintaining.
May 7, 2013 6:36 pm at 6:36 pm #952031Sam2ParticipantROB: Fine. I’ll actually look it up. It’s a random Mareh Makom. I’ll find them both again, I guess. Sorry. All the Mareh Mekomos I give here are guestimates anyway.
May 7, 2013 6:39 pm at 6:39 pm #952032Sam2ParticipantROB: Niddah 13b 4 lines from the bottom and A”H 23:7.
May 7, 2013 6:58 pm at 6:58 pm #952033WIYMemberSam
When they successfully produce a healthy normal child get back to me. I don’t believe they will succeed.
May 7, 2013 8:41 pm at 8:41 pm #952034rabbiofberlinParticipantSam2-thank you! And indeed, as you indicated- although the Aruch Hashulchan indicates it would only apply to tight pants.
May 7, 2013 10:18 pm at 10:18 pm #952035☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantSam, there are people who wear boxer shorts because of that Gemara. The limud z’chus for those who don’t is that being used to it from childhood, it doesn’t have the effect described in the Gemara. But, as ROB alluded to, our trousers are not assered by the Gemara.
May 7, 2013 10:48 pm at 10:48 pm #952036Sam2ParticipantDY: I did retract immediately. I have heard other reasons why boxer shorts are not preferable, actually, and it’s a good reason.
WIY: I think they have. They can turn a stem cell from a woman’s lymph nodes and turn it into a sperm cell, which they can then impregnate her (or any other woman, really) with.
May 8, 2013 2:20 am at 2:20 am #952038147ParticipantI wear regular pants on Shovu’os as this is the most comfortable way to be clad to get thru Shovu’os nite learning. Also the least likely to get stained should I accidentally drop some cheese cake.
May 8, 2013 10:33 am at 10:33 am #952039YW Moderator-42Moderator147, How can you eat cheeesecake while learning Shavuos night? Unless you are in the Southern Hemisphere where the learning is longer than 6 hours. Or perhaps you are yekke and only wait 3.
(I will assume you aren’t eating in the Beis Medrash which would obviously be another problem)
May 8, 2013 10:36 am at 10:36 am #952040just my hapenceParticipant42 – 147, How can you eat cheeesecake while learning Shavuos night? Unless you are in the Southern Hemisphere where the learning is longer than 6 hours. Or perhaps you are yekke and only wait 3.
Or if, like many others, he has a milchig seuda on Leil Shavuos…
May 8, 2013 11:12 am at 11:12 am #952041YW Moderator-42ModeratorThere is a mitzvah of simchas yom tov with basar. If you want to be makayeim milchigs, have that in beginning of the meal, then (after the cheesecake mid-meal dessert) change over to fleishigs, bring out a 2nd challa l’zecher the shtei halechem, and then have meat.
(I am well aware that many people have exclusively dairy meals on shavuos. This is especially helpful if you want to have milk with your coffee. I’m just being weird in an attempt to post a 147-like post)
May 9, 2013 3:50 pm at 3:50 pm #952042May 10, 2013 4:54 pm at 4:54 pm #952043apushatayidParticipantIt may be considered a lack of kavod hatorah to learn shavuos, or any night, sans pants. I think one is not permitted to enter a shul sans pants, even if he does not plan on learning. Also, since many shuls turn the AC up high to help facilitate staying awake, pants would be a good idea so as not to freeze. Of course, a good stadium blanket would do the trick too.
May 10, 2013 6:14 pm at 6:14 pm #952044rationalfrummieMemberMen dressing tzniusly is good. Since women are equal and opposite, then doing the same is bad 🙂
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