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April 30, 2013 8:18 pm at 8:18 pm #950610charliehallParticipant
“if you hold it’s d’Oraiso, you assume it was there during the first bayis as well”
Chazal say it wasn’t. I guess if you were a Karaite you could say that it was.
April 30, 2013 8:23 pm at 8:23 pm #950611charliehallParticipant“which there is a concern of Kalus Rosh that you must separate the sexes”
How many times must this be repeated: With the exception of the balcony that was built late in Bayit Sheni times, and only for Yom Tov, there was no separation in the Beit HaMikdash. Women could even enter the courtyard of the priests to shecht their own korban, and the priest had to be right next to her in order to catch the blood, an avodah that could only be performed by a male priest. There was even a special entrance to the priest’s courtyard for women. Must I give citations of mishnayot or gemaras for this?
April 30, 2013 8:29 pm at 8:29 pm #950612popa_bar_abbaParticipantcharlie:
Maybe you’ve said this already, but I’d like you to explicate what you are contending.
Are you saying that a mechitza is not halachically required in a shul?
Or are you saying that it used to not be but now is?
April 30, 2013 8:52 pm at 8:52 pm #950613gavra_at_workParticipantDr. Hall: And a single woman may enter the men’s section for various reasons (I heard recently that in some Chassidus (and I don’t remember which)), The Chassan’s mother would enter the men’s section to throw candy at him by his aufruf). That has nothing to do with the Klal of men and women mingling, which is certainly not allowed in a Davar Sheb’kedusha scenario (and I’ll leave the definitions for the experts, but a minyan Kavuah in a shul certainly applies).
May 1, 2013 12:22 am at 12:22 am #950614Sam2ParticipantCharlie: Because there was not such a Chashash for Kalus Rosh in the Azarah during the rest of the year. At first, the Gedolei HaDor in Bayis Rishon and Sheini didn’t think there was a Chashash either. At some point during Bayis Sheini, they realized it was a problem. That everyone agrees to (Bimchilas Kevodo, I think DY misspoke when he said that those who hold it was D’Oraisa said it was there in Mayis Rishon).
Now comes R’ Moshe’s Chiddush. Yes, it is a Chiddush, but it is not beyond the pale of logic as ROB seems to contend. R’ Moshe asks a simple question. He says there is an Issur MiDivrei Kaballah of changing anything in the Beis Hamikdash. And we know that Ein Koach B’yad Chachamim La’akor Davar Min HaTorah B’kum V’asei. Building a balcony, even a temporary one, is being Over on this B’kum V’asei. Hence, it must be that there is a Din Min Hatorah saying to build a separation whenever there is a Chashash of Kalus Rosh. (I will try and find the Mekoros again because I lost the notebook I wrote this down in, but I think I remember once showing that R’ Moshe’s Chiddush could actually be shown as a Machlokes Rishonim; it had something to do with the Ra’avad on this issue. B”N when I get time I will look at the Rishonim again and try to piece together what I once had.)
And ROB, I have to speak out against this. Your nice statement to me rings absolutely false because you are showing more respect for me here than R’ Moshe. Everyone, especially someone knowledgeable, is entitled to disagree with even the Gedolei Haposkim if they feel that they have strong Ra’ayos (R’ Moshe says so himself; maybe they can’t disagree L’ma’aseh, but certainly in learning). But take great care in how you do it. A certain modicum of respect must be maintained, even if no disrespect is intended in your words.
May 1, 2013 12:32 am at 12:32 am #950615☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantHow many times must this be repeated:
The kalus rosh which necessitates a mechitzah is commonly caused by large gatherings.
You’re right that historically this kalus rush wasn’t observed in the Beis Hamikdash until bayis Sheini, but had it been observed earlier, there would have been a chiyuv mid’Oraisa to separate the men and women in a manner which would solve the problem.
May 1, 2013 12:36 am at 12:36 am #950616☕ DaasYochid ☕Participant(Bimchilas Kevodo,
lol
I think DY misspoke when he said that those who hold it was D’Oraisa said it was there in Mayis Rishon).
Yes, that was a mistake.
May 1, 2013 12:40 am at 12:40 am #950617☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantAre you saying that a mechitza is not halachically required in a shul?
I think he’s saying that it’s only d’rabbonon.
May 1, 2013 3:40 am at 3:40 am #950618charliehallParticipant“Are you saying that a mechitza is not halachically required in a shul?”
No.
“Or are you saying that it used to not be but now is?”
Not necessarily. I am saying that the requirement for a mechitzah is almost certainly a d’rabbanan (at most), as (1) the mitzvot for which mechitzot are required are d’rabbanans, (2) there was no mechitzah in the Beit HaMikdash except for Yom Tov, (3) and even that balcony was only instituted by rabbinic decree at the very end of the Bayit Sheni period, (4) were such a balcony a d’oraita the people who built Bayit Rishon and Bayit Sheni would have been over a d’oraita, chas v’shalom, which is impossible, (5) even after the balcony was built, a woman could still enter the priests’ courtyard itself to shecht her own korban with the male priest right next to her capturing the blood, (6) not only does the gemara in Chullin say that a woman can shecht, but (7) the mishnah in Middot says that there was a separate women’s entrance to the priests’ courtyard. This is all documented in rabbinic sources. Rav Soloveitchik z’tz’l held that the requirement for a mechitzah is d’rabbanan.
However, it is possible that mechitzot were ALWAYS required in a beit knesset as (1) a beit knesset is very different from the beit hamikdash, (2) we don’t know exactly when the first beit knesset was built, (3) at the very institution of communal tefillah the Anshe Knesset HaGadol might have included a requirement for separate seating and a mechitzah. However, with the exception of the attribution of the institution of tefillah to the Avot, and to the Anshe Knesset HaGadol, there really aren’t any sources to back this up that I have ever seen. I heard from Prof. Lawrence Schiffman that the very earliest written documentation of a beit knesset (during late Bayit Sheni times) is actually from a Christian source. We have lost so many of our sources :(.
May 1, 2013 11:48 am at 11:48 am #950619☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantCharlie, if you understand it as a couple of posters (Sam2 and Benignuman) have explained it, all of your questions fall away.
The chiyuv to build a mechitzah (either a wall or balcony) in a situation where kalus rosh is likely, is d’Oraisa.
May 1, 2013 12:16 pm at 12:16 pm #950621☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantBenignuman, to be fair, did not actually say that mechitzsa is d’Oraisa, rather that the problem it addresses is. It’s semantics, though, I think.
May 1, 2013 12:51 pm at 12:51 pm #950622rabbiofberlinParticipantSam2- This medium- being by necessity anonymous- brings forward the most unusual people and subjects. You don’t know me at all, so you don’t know how I relate to rabbonim and Poskim. I try to be polite to all- even an anomymous poster like you. I don’t know where you see that I am -chas vesholom- dismissive of R”Moshe zz’l. “harei ani ke-afrah dee-areh” versus R”Moshe zz’l. However, this does not prevent us from asking pertinent questions.We see that throughout history- respectful to our ancestors but clearly questions are allowedin any area. My doubt about the words of R’Moshe zz’l about mechitza being mi-doraisa is shared by many.It doesn’t mean that the doubters dismiss mechitza- it only means that there is a lively discussion and answers should be given.
May 1, 2013 12:58 pm at 12:58 pm #950623rabbiofberlinParticipantcharliehall (and others): tefillah ,in its present form, came to us quite late-certainly after the ‘anshei knesset hagedolah” and even afterwards if you know when “velamalshinim’ was instituted.For a long time ,we had the ‘bekki-im’ who repeated the tefillah for those who could not read. Hence, I am not sure whn regular minyanim were established and certainly, we don’t have any idea when “botei knesset’ were established. It strains credulity to think that “botei knesst” in their present form were established during the Bayis Hamikdosh’time.The architecture of synagogues date from the late geonic time, not before. I still think that the separation of sexes was pretty common but not necessariyl the mechitza. And -as charliehall notes- never i nall circumstances.
May 1, 2013 2:44 pm at 2:44 pm #950624benignumanParticipantIt is not semantics. I was explaining R’Moshe not giving my own opinion. Kalus Rosh is an issur d’oraisa according to R’Moshe. Therefore one is required m’doraisa to take the necessary steps to prevent kalos rosh.
The decision to use a balcony or mechitza as the means to prevent kalos rosh is d’rabbanan, but something must be done m’doraisa. This explains why there was the balcony was taken down after Yom Tov and why they only implemented the balcony in Bayis Sheini.
This is also why R’Moshe requires separate seating at weddings. Not because there is a din of separate seating but because of kalos rosh.
This also might be why the Shulchan Aruch doesn’t bring down mechitza as a din. He does bring down Kalos Rosh as issur chamur and he emphatically states the efforts needed to distance oneself from woman (who are forbidden).
May 1, 2013 4:50 pm at 4:50 pm #950625rabbiofberlinParticipantbenignuman- please inform us where R”Moshe zz’l says that “kalus rosh” is “midoraisa”. How do you measure it? In which circumstances do you enforce it? And what do you make of the testimony of many people that at the chassunos of many Rabbonim (including R”Moshe zz’l)in the forties and fifties, there was mixed seating?
May 1, 2013 6:06 pm at 6:06 pm #950626benignumanParticipantIgros Moshe, Even HaEzer Chelek 4, Siman 60.
That teshuvah is not directly discussing mixed seating (he is discussing “having a girlfriend”).
I am pretty sure I remember a teshuvah discussing mixed seating at weddings. I will, bli neder, look it up tonight and find the exact teshuvah.
I don’t know what to make of their testimony. I would venture a guess that R’Moshe’s opinion is a chiddush and that he himself didn’t arrive at this conclusion until sometime in the sixties.
May 1, 2013 6:19 pm at 6:19 pm #950627Sam2ParticipantBen: “Having a girlfriend” is a misrepresentation of what that T’shuvah actually says and makes him sound much, much more Meikil than R’ Moshe was on this issue. I don’t recall a T’shuvah on mixed seating at weddings, though. Could you share it if/when you find it please?
May 1, 2013 6:32 pm at 6:32 pm #950628☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantR’Moshe requires separate seating at weddings.
Forget oral testimony/rumor, he is mattir in Igros Moshe.
May 1, 2013 6:37 pm at 6:37 pm #950629☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantSource:
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May 1, 2013 6:57 pm at 6:57 pm #950630gavra_at_workParticipantDaasYochid
a singular mind
R’Moshe requires separate seating at weddings.
Forget oral testimony/rumor, he is mattir in Igros Moshe.
This is one of the things that I like about you, DY. You are a Modeh Al HaEmes, even if it is not popular.
May 1, 2013 7:20 pm at 7:20 pm #950631popa_bar_abbaParticipantI just want to make sure to recognize squeak’s post before he forgets about it. I held off hoping I would have a clever response, but I don’t.
May 1, 2013 10:23 pm at 10:23 pm #950632☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantGavra, you’re being too kind.
May 2, 2013 2:07 pm at 2:07 pm #950633benignumanParticipantDY,
Thank you for correcting me about R’Moshe’s shitta on mechitza by a wedding. However, I should point out that the teshuva you cited is holding that a mechitza is not required, it is not clear what R’Moshe would hold about separate seating.
Furthermore, R’Moshe’s rationale is that by a wedding it is closed group, primarily family, and therefore kalos rosh is more easily controlled and prevented. It seems to me that there is a question of metzius here and that judgment needs to be made on a case by case basis.
May 2, 2013 3:29 pm at 3:29 pm #950634rabbiofberlinParticipantbenignuman: “bemechilas keovd toroscho”- if you look at the actual teshuvo, you will see that R”Moshe zz’l brings proof that no mechitza is needed by a “chasunoh” from korbon pessach- when families ate together and no separation was required to eat together. So, it seems pretty clear that we are talking about eating together-without separate seating.
As far as your argument about ‘closed family group”, “im kein ein ledovor sof”- it is impossible to gauge each event individually and, in any case, at the korbon pessach, we had different families eating together,not just one family.
Lastly, I looked up the teshuvoh you mentioned in even Ho-Ezer 4,60. R’Moshe zz’l does indeed say that talking to a woman -same as embracing – may come under the issur of “lo sikrevu”, but it is only when there is a real relationship between the two people. I don’t see where ‘kalus rosh’ is an issur medoraisa. I read the teshuvo diffenretly than you do.
May 5, 2013 8:13 am at 8:13 am #950635☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantR”Moshe zz’l brings proof that no mechitza is needed by a “chasunoh” from korbon pessach- when families ate together and no separation was required to eat together. So, it seems pretty clear that we are talking about eating together-without separate seating.
There’s absolutely no indication that there was mixed seating (other than no mechitzah). It is clear, though, that there were separate families, yet no mechitzah.
May 5, 2013 10:19 pm at 10:19 pm #950636rabbiofberlinParticipantDaas Yochid: I will concede to you that it is not immediately apparent that the families mixed together at the korbon pessach -even though each familiy pretty cleatly sat togetherr-but , today, you will find that most “yeshivish” chasunos have a mechitza- on top of separate seating. Then, some people say that it is because of the dancing.
May 5, 2013 10:33 pm at 10:33 pm #950637☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantThere are also those who disagree with R’ Moshe and require it m’dina by chasunos. The minhag in yeshivah circles has been that way for decades.
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