But is it Kibud Av V’em for a dependent child to give their parents tzedaka? It’s not like T.A.O.M. is old enough to support her parents, and it may just embarrass her mother… @HaLeiVi
Actually a person’s parents are first on the list to receive tzedaka from them. One is not chayiv in kibud av va’em from his own money; however if they have no money he must bump them to the top of his tzedaka list. (Rashba and Rosh ? to Kiddushin 32a and mashma from Rambam Hilchos Mamrim 6:3)