I would pick my primary avocation, that of incredible Ema. No regrets, no looking back, no need for greater “fulfillment,” in my life. I had a paid profession prior to having children, and a part-time one when they were all in school. But the one that gave me the greatest pleasure (and sometimes the greatest aggravation) was and continues to be, mother and now grandmother of the last few years. Nothing, but nothing beats that for me.