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    mics
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    When both are in two different cities and they travel to see each other and due to distance they go out two days in a row: is this considered a single putting or two?

    #987917
    mics
    Member

    Sorry, meant a single outing or two?

    Also, how often he should travel to see her? He is in Yeshiva.

    #987919
    Torah613Torah
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    2. Does he like her? Then he should continue going out. Or ask the shadchan what to do.

    #987920
    popa_bar_abba
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    It is considered 4. Because each flight to get there is also considered one. Because you think of the other person while you are on the plane.

    Thus, if she comes in to lakewood once, and he goes to Detroit once, they have gone out 8 times and should get engaged. Assuming that she is not taller than him.

    #987921
    cherrybim
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    What have you got against tall women?

    #987922
    popa_bar_abba
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    Taller people are usually fatter.

    #987923
    cherrybim
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    You were doing good until that line.

    #987924
    Bookworm120
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    Coincidentally, I saw an episode of Gunsmoke yesterday about a mail-order bride. When I saw this thread, that popped into my head.

    #987925
    Torah613Torah
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    Mail order brides. NASI’s next project.

    #987926
    mics
    Member

    He is in her town now and returns late tonight. So far they went out 4 times. All good BH, so far. Who should make the next move?

    She should come to him and he should go there again? And how soon again? Thank you.

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